we are talking about a lady who thinks up stories that she somehow portrays to everyone in such a convincing manner they actually buy into everything she is selling! Extreme crazy abuse allegations, claiming her mom is dying in another state so she can move with the children yet she was living with her mom locally. Claiming owed child support yet the clerks office has record she is wrong. Convincing a four year old that he and his older sister are beaten here and he should remember what she tells him. Tied to the bed with tape and chains, burned, pushed down stairs, scratched and hit for bad behavior. I would think that I would remember such events if they were to happen to me. Never the less she tends to always win in court. She never has to face her lies. She is like an energizer battery.....she keeps going and going. Does anyone have a suggestion to help burn her out of her batteries?! Geesh!@#$
2006-08-05 15:05:05 · 10 answers · asked by addie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes. oh god yes. when i first started seeing my fiance he hadnt told his ex he was done with her. she was drug fiend. he wanted nothing to do with her. all she did was lie about getting clean. so i had to deal with her calling me everyday and telling me i was a whore and a slut. now shes trying to say she is clean and wants to try and get back with him. he says no. but the other day she emailed him and told him she was checking herself into drug rehab. she wants him to send her a letter. and the other one is telling us that she is now a lesbian because she cant have my fiance. she keeps trying to do stuff with him and calls him to tell him she loves and and he should dump me because im not worth it that she is his sould mate. screw that. so i no what ur saying in a way. just pick up and moved. if u can find proof that shes lying you will get custody of the kids and she will go to jail. its like munchowsin (spelling unsure of) syndrome. making the kid think they are sick when really they are not.
2006-08-05 15:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Little Dorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you're going through.... Part of me doesnt know what to tell you because there are kids involved. BUT if you could make it so she has no right being around the kids. Im not sure if there is anything you can dig up on her... but if you can get anything bring it right to social services. BUT do you want to be cruel or just make her shut up. Being away from your kid is the worst thing in the world.
Another perspective... you could try to get her to a place where she can be... "helped". Even if you could get her on some medications or talking to a counselor. This might help. It looks like she has some kind of mental condition...
I REALLY hoped this helped.... Personally: I got my brothers ex girlfriend on medications so she could see the the difference between the truth and her imagination... (She was a pretty bad pathy. liar.)
i hope I've helped....
2006-08-05 15:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your husband - you f*cked up. If he's your boyfriend, dump his a**. That sh*t gets old and you will regret you ever stayed with him. I'm in the same situation, I should have ran when I had the chance. But noooooooo.."he deserves love too, doesn't he?"..."it's not that bad"...."the kids will grow up one day and she will be out of our lives forever"...these are things I used to say to myself before we got married and I found out that my life would be dictated by a crazy b=tch with no education or conscience...before I started to hate my husband for coming with so much baggage...before it sunk in that this was not crazy drama that brought me and HIM closer together, but that it would be the one part of my life I wish I could erase....the one part that ruins the rest of the parts.
2006-08-05 15:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by sick of him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gave up the girl. Found out today someone else sent her flowers. Hopes she finally finishes the divorce before she starts something new for the guys sake.
2006-08-05 15:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her burn herself out. She is slowly doing this to her soul and will no longer have anything to live for if she keeps up. You should feel sorry for her but don't bother giving her any energy, reallly!
2006-08-05 15:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sharonzeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay off her lawyer. And the real abuse victims don't get a break at all. Maybe you can counter sue for harrassment.
2006-08-05 15:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody needs to find her a boyfriend. I would feel sorry for the poor sucker, but at least it would be someone else for her to point her hate at.
2006-08-05 15:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by krash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry id ont have problems like that with my b/f
2006-08-05 15:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her ***
2006-08-05 15:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sorry..
2006-08-05 15:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋