i think my husband is having an on line affair. how can i get his e-mail password?

Answer 1

thats shaddy,, just callhim out on it!! the hell with playing games!!

Answer 2

What makes you think he's having an online affair? And what
constitutes an online affair? ... That having been asked, next time
he's on the computer and you think something's going on-

Enter the room and start to peek over his shoulder... if he gets
all defensive about it just say that you want to know how to use
the computer better and you'd like to watch. This shouldn't be
a problem. If it is... just say... "Is there something you're hiding from me? Because if there isn't, then I don't see why there'd be
a problem." -- I'm sure you can find a way to open the conversation in a cute or flirting way.

Assume he's not doing anything wrong. Don't go into the conversation in an accusatory way. Just say, "Well, you know
you have been kind of distant lately... and with your typing skills..
I mean, who wouldn't be charmed..." Or whatever suits your
personality. If he still is put-off... Give him the "Hrrruuumph!"
and walk out. Act bothered about it until you are satisfied with
a conclusion. Try to be sportish and flirty about it. --He's probably
not doing much. Giver him a pout not a cold shoulder.

Tell him that you were watching Night Line last night and they
said that 87% of all men who have online affairs penis' dry up
and shrivel away to nothin'?? I know... it's so hard to believe..
but that's what YOU heard"

(I can just hear all the guys out there groaning!) Ah, it's so
much fun to be a girl! Truly the more advanced of the species.

Answer 3

Why should you do that? Why don't you sit down and have a talk with him. Tell him that you knew about his affair and see how he react. Ask him why things happen. If he admit everything without regret then let him go. But if he admit and feel regret why not give him a chance. Everyone deserve a second chance. (Only apply when you still love him and willing to forget about his so-doing) Its not easy for a couple to be together. Treasure it. Good Luck to you. Cheers

Answer 4

I agree with the second answerer. You don't need to be sneaking into his email, no need for playing games, just ask him, and besides, what makes you think he's having an online affair.

My boyfriend says: men are stupid, if he is he'll trip up eventually anyway. If he hasn't given you enough reason to think he was having an online affair, just wait it out. He can't hide something like that forever.

Answer 5

I believe there is a device that can be installed to record keyboard strokes or better yet a software program that can record computer activity as well.

Look up your yellow pages or on the net for a spy store near you or on-line and get more advice there are many ways to get what you want or need.

Although this puts you in a sneaky situation just as others have suggested and may be better to confront him.

Answer 6

First of all, I'm sorry to hear that. Something you may want to think about before you go that far, is it worth it? Maybe just sitting down with him and talking with him would be a better way to handle this particular situation. If you love him, think for a moment how he will feel knowing (once you confront him with you newly earned proof) that you broke into something confidential of his?
If you want any chance of saving your relationship, and honestly feel that you can emotionally endure saving it, the best first step would be to express your concern.
If you feel otherwise there are websites out there that could provide you with information on how to "hack" into his email address.
I wish the best for you, and really hope you take inconsideration all the possible outcomes of your actions before further pursuing.

Answer 7

If you think he is then ask him...and then you better have a talk. An online affair is cheating...no matter what anyone may say. I wouldn't want his password...don't lower yourself to play those games. If you ask him and he denies it, tell him 'why' you are suspicious. Obviously, your marriage is hurting so you both need to talk and find out what the problem is. He probably won't want to admit to it...but you should tell him that you suspect it.

Answer 8

You can't and it's awful that you want to be sneaky.

All you need to do is ask him and look into his eyes when he answers you.

If you don't believe him, check him out while he's online and see who he's spending time with. Watch your instincts....if you think strongly this is true, it probably is. Now decide how you want to handle it. Marriage Counseling or some other way?

There is no reason to lower your standards like that. Then you would be as bad as he is, (if it's true), only in a different way.

Answer 9

My daughter found out my password, very easy!! Just place a pc camera on top of your screen, or nearby pointing toward the key board. Next time he logs on, bam you got it. View this when he isnt around. Make sure if your camera has a light on it, you obstruct this so he doesn't notice its on. Surround the camera with other objects so he doenst notice the lens point toward the key boad. These camera are very inexpensive. Got get him girl!!

Answer 10

talk to him about it.ur best bet is not to get his email info u may find out that he aint doin nothing wrong & u will feel bad about not trustin him.& if he is it`s only online most of us do it just to past time it dont mean a thing if he comes home to u every day then what is there to worry about if he didnt love u he wouldn`t be with u just look at it this way all men r dogs some just make better pets trust me the truth hurts like hell it`s better u keep it as it is

Answer 11

I dont know how to get someones Password, but why not go and talk to your husband; if not, maybe you can join him when he is ON-Line and thinks that you are otherwise occupied. Just dont jump to conclusions, give him a Chane to tell you what and who he talks with online.