problems with husband?

Question

He seems to not be interested in sex anymore and he is only 24.
Is there anything I can do.

Answer 1

Make sure you have not fallen into a routine.Do not limit how and where you have sex.Be spontaneous do not hold back.( And what ever you do,do not treat him like you are his mother; IE in your every day life thats one mistake alot of women do.He is your mate and equal,do not scold him like a child,not saying you do but look into the way you relate to each other .Tell him how you feel.Give him the same attitude you gave him when was chasing you to be his love.

Answer 2

Sex again! How long u've been married? Its seems unusual 2 a strong , healthy young man at this age not interested in sex nowadays! Does he works on shift? Is every night an appointment night 2 him? Does he always entertaining his group of friends (no matter males or females) If all these are out, (u've 2 find out) is it a physical problems 2 him or is he heading towards gay? (sorry, if there's an offence) This is not only a serious problem 2 him, but 2 u too. U've 2 help him overcome 1st. Making him more comfortable while both of u r in bed. (No sex). Massaging him from head 2 toe, every parts of his body, - of course, not only using ur hands but ur body. Everytime u make a move, try 2 ask 4 his feelings, - like how u feel, do u like this way, u want this more, or is it comfortable. When u feel his responds, try not 2 ask anymore, but 2 continue. That's the point & u get it. If he wants further, deeper intimacy, Just go ahead! U win! Best Luck!

Answer 3

There could be many reason why he's gone off sex, stress, have you just had a baby, overworked and tired, has your appearance changed, does he have an impotance problem(cant get erect) maybe you need to spruce up your appearance - no insult intended, cahnge your bedroom attire, underwear attire, new clothes??is he having an affair, taken on a new exercise routine and is well tired, is there some aspect if sex you or he feels uncomfortable with????? You'll have to ask him what the problem is and for him to be honest, maybe he wants something and doesnt quite know how to tell you(oral sex maybe) - some things shouldnt have to be a question. Are you tryin fopr a baby and hes having second thoughts? the fear of responsibilty??? Anway I dont know what else to suggest - apart from aggression, im sure hes a nice guy and he'll let you thrown him down ion the bed and do him til hes well done - wont he?

Answer 4

Do you two have good communication with each other? If not, start some. Make sure he's in a good mood, and work it into the conversation. Ask him if he's feeling okay physically. When was his last physical? Ask him if he's still attracted to you. {Notice I'm not suggesting that there's anything wrong with your appearance; maybe he likes the way you look. Sure hope so :) } Is he depressed or stressed about something? Are you two arguing about anything? Only you know what's going on in your house.

If none of these suggestions work, try couple's counseling. If he won't go, don't threaten him, just say ok and you go for yourself. Good luck.

Answer 5

There are no quick answers. Sex is 90% mental.
If the 10% (Physical) is a problem - there are treatments and realize most physical problems effect the mental ability too. It is a caring person to "nurse" the mate back to feeling proud and comfortable with their lost and found abilities.

If it is mental - and he does not want to have sex - something has him distracted or changed him. He is tired - but that can be remedied by a nap. He finds it no longer a challenge - but this can be remidied by role playing or treating the sex in a manner to try to be more spontanious.

Over all you need to have a talk with your mate on what is the problem and no one from Yahoo can do this but you.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Maybe hes just bored! Men get like that alot... Women can do it the same way every time all the time for years and years and it never crosses their mind (not me but alot of women) and men tend to bore easily maybe dress up for him or get some different kinda lubes like flavored or something they have some really good ones. Role play? Ask him what he wants you to do or if there is a problem if hes your husband u should be able to talk to him and ask him why hes not interested or is there something you can do...

Answer 7

he's probably not interested, he just might have something on his mind. Or he could be going through something. Next time you all are in bed, try making the first move. If he doesn't get the hint then talk to him about it.

if you aren't that bold to make the first move, try sending him naughty text msgs throughout the day, then she what happens when you all get home. it might just be that you need to fire up the sex life.

Answer 8

ask him why? hope hes not seeing someone else to have his needs met. could be alot of things. but always remember that communication is a very precious thing.counseling can be a great thing.are you an easy person to talk to?id be asking some questions and demanding answers, in a nice and loving way of course.

Answer 9

Have you been married long. Maybe he works to hard and long hours , might be just to tired.. Yet maybe there are other issues. You need to commicate Fine out what is bothering him. Could be any number of reasons. Good Luck Pem

Answer 10

Age doesnt matter maybe he is plain bored. See its always nice to chase something which is not reachable at that point. But once you get it then it wont take long before a person gets bored.
Dont worry its normal. just try to be cooperative .