do you find that your spouse denies that a good sex life is an important part of life... especially married life?
2006-08-05 15:07:14 · 15 answers · asked by JRSK007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Anyone else want to weigh in?
2006-08-06 16:58:20 · update #1
yes i suffer sexual absentees for a while now. what use to be every day turned to occassions. he doesn't deny sex being an important part of marriage and he prefers cuddling and talkin for alternative intimacy
2006-08-11 14:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by kerik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the spouse that thinks sex is not an important part of married life once you are through having babies. Besides who has the time for mind blowing sex between the kids, work, school etc. There are just not enough hours in the day or night lol.
2006-08-12 23:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by tish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
It goes a little farther than that. Before the neglect, there my have been some kind on breakdown, through communication. That's the root of all evils. If you stop talking, things happen: and they corrode a marriage. First check to see if this the problem: as it ususllay is.
Don't accept no for an answer if it is, and get some kind of help to fix it.
Now there my the problem of him suffering somekind of medical problem", that he hasn't come clean about. Excessive use of legal and illegal drugs can this, diabettes, high BP, etc. If that is the case' get him help immediately.
Bottom line: theres something wrong and writing about it aint going to fix things, you need to act and the sooner the better.
Don't let non-communication ruin your marriage: I did.
2006-08-05 22:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by TJ R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you Truly Love & Want to be with Oneanother, your Love/Sex life becomes a natural thing! When the two of you are together and is Madly In Love with Oneanother everything is suppose to blend together and become as one!!!!! But if you feel as though your sex life is more important then the otherthings that the two of you share together then it will become a problem if your spouce does not agree with your opinion!
Good Luck!!!!!
2006-08-13 12:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bit of everything when it comes to sexual neglect. If both partners are not interested, then it's not a problem if they both have come to that understanding and can live with that. If something changes along the way with one of them, then that needs to be addressed too.
2006-08-11 23:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to be matched with someone with equal drives or lack of them. In our home, my wife and I both de-emphasized the importance of intercourse style sex long ago and feel more liberated and better about it. But that doesn't work for every one and probably not for you. But when you're both on the same page, it's less stressful.
2006-08-05 22:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be into it if it wasnt for all the fight and also to tired to work10 at work then have to put in another 5 hour when i get home, supose to be 50-50
2006-08-12 11:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it important in 1s life 4 happiness between each couple, so try persuading ur spouse and telling him the advantages.
2006-08-12 15:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a shrink and talk about your sex life with your spouse
2006-08-12 15:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by Rock_N_Roll_Chicky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
through the years, we have hit some dry spells.
my partner likes to use sex as punishment when he is mad.
ive learned to deal with it. it took him a long time to figure out that he is the one that caves in eventually..
2006-08-11 10:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋