Can you give me some tips on how can i make him love me more?
2006-08-05 15:25:15 · 22 answers · asked by yo yo yo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give him a boo boo bunny for those bad boys and tell him it'll be worse next time.... and to respect your authority!!!
2006-08-05 15:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you were right to kick him there. Now you should get away from him. Even if he says that he will stop hitting you, don't believe it!! Most of the time, according to my Criminal Justice professor, Officer Reed, one single punch or beating for the first time could lead into an abusive relationship. If you have children, I would get them out of the house and to one of your relatives houses for a while and then go on a small vacation with your husband to see if he would beat you again. Advice from Officer Reed.
2006-08-05 22:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, if he beat you, you need to get out. I'm sorry but he has absolutely NO respect for you and you can do better. You don't need him to love you.
And yes, if you had to defend yourself from someone that could have hospitalized or killed you, and the only way you had to defend youself was to kick him in the nuts, you go girl. Kick him so hard he can taste it, pack your bags, and get out, and file for a divorce tomorrow.
2006-08-05 22:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Sarah Bear ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were right. No one has the right to hit their spouse. I grew up in an abusive house and once they hit you and know your afraid of them it will continue. Good for you! you stood up to him. Make him respect you first then work on your love growing. You can't make someone love you but you can become closer. And let it go from there. Good Luck and don't take his abuse verbal or physical. Debbie
2006-08-05 22:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by nlusluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?
Gee lets see if I have this correct? your husband beats you. You kick him in his privates, he is crying and you want to know if you did the right thing and how you can make him love you more.
If he loved you more, would he beat you more? or would he cry less?
Did you do the right thing? Will it make him love you more?
Do you love yourself? I doubt it.
2006-08-05 22:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anybody love you. When you do it will normally make them love you less. Leave him now, cause if he hit you once he WILL do it again. Before you leave give him one more good kick in the nuts.
2006-08-05 22:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop kicking him in the nuts would be a great place to start. I would find it very hard to love someone who is kicking me in the nuts.
2006-08-05 22:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you weren't right. Now you are guilty of an assault same as he is. Two wrongs do not make it right. It sounds as if your relationship is in serious trouble and you need to get away before it gets worse, or you let him take you down with him. Have you told him to get help?
2006-08-05 22:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by cstudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you did the right thing know you need to go up to him and kick him twice as hard a gain make it really hurt really bad bring him down to his knee intil his ball are blue no man has the right to hit any women
2006-08-06 00:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you are asking how to make him love you more and he is hitting you? ummm guess what he is NOT GOING TO LOVE YOU more, he just needs you for different reasons that you need and want, he also cant love you, for one he doesn't even love himself if he is hitting you . i say leave , till he gets anger management. before some one gets hurt . even worse, so i say let him cry , you are still hurting emotionally and he is trying the reverse phsycology on you. CALLED GUILT, which he has none
2006-08-05 22:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by flowerlegz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep you sure did the right thing you kicked the jackpot if any man hit you just kick him in the nuts as you saw when you kicked your husband its game over ...Do me a favour kick him harder if he trys it again ha ha..
2006-08-07 18:27:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋