Marriage & Divorce - 2 August 2006

Six years and I hate this situation. There are no children or properties involved. I don't mind him being poor but he is so money-hungry and petty. Help

2006-08-02 08:01:16 · 5 answers · asked by Jacks036 5

2006-08-02 07:59:56 · 23 answers · asked by dharma_claire 4

I found my ex fiance cheating on me! We had been dating for 3 years, we got engaged and moved in about six month ago. Within the fifth month, the day after his birthday he went out with his brothers and friend to celebrate his birthday with the guy. Well that night a girl came up to him and gave him her number. Within a week he call her back they started dating. Within that month he slept with her 3 time with unprotected sex. I figure out there was something going because he only has one best guy friend and his younger bro which he chills with, which I very close too. The night I found out he had another girl he came home at 7am, He never did that! He was knock out by 8am I quickly look for his phone found the girls name and text mess. I quick confront him and left. I so hurt right now he want me back, I want he back! BUT WHAT HE DID IS THE TOTAL BETRAYL. Now the girl is calling me to tell me she pregnant, but that not my problem.

2006-08-02 07:57:05 · 48 answers · asked by vp 2

What do you suggest I do for her?

2006-08-02 07:54:59 · 11 answers · asked by wolf1ibm 2

Okay, I have been married for about 4 years and I have been best friends with a male for almost 7 years. We are very close, some say "too close". When we are around each other, I sense that he is very uncomfortable around me, like wise for me. He calls me during his breaks at work, it's a shame when I know his break times. We talk almost 5 times a day. I talk to him more than my husband and we live in the same house. My male bf recently had a tradegy and he broke down crying on the phone with me. He pretty much told me how much he love me and that he didn't know what he would do if he didn't have me in his life. I pretty much confessed my love to him and we were both crying on the phone together. He is fine, no doubt, and he likes smaller frame girls. I am not his type, yet we are like brother and sister. He has been with alot of women, and he can't seem to stay in a relationship. He said that he would choose me over a girl anyday. Is he in love with me, or just loves me as a friend?

2006-08-02 07:54:36 · 18 answers · asked by MovingOnWithMyLife..Your Loss! 1

2006-08-02 07:49:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 07:46:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 2 1/2 months is a fabulous guy. Hard-working, sweet, romantic, and a great father to both his and my daughter. He also, at one time, had a drug problem, but has been clean for almost 10 years. A couple of weeks ago he didn't come home one night and I couldn't find him. He came home the next morning, honest about where he'd been and who he'd been with. Turns out an old (druggie) friend looked him up and they spent the night partying. No cheating involved. I am so hurt and disappointed. He swears it's the first time it's happened and won't ever happen again. I threatened the guy he was with with the police, so hopefully we won't ever hear from him again-but, I'm nervous whenever I can't reach him, or if he's late from work. How do I get past this?

2006-08-02 07:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by But Inside I'm Screaming 7

My husband rejects to have sex with me for 5 years. (sexless) He was financially irresponsible as a husband. He wasn't nice to my family. We had good times as well despite of our problems. Over the years, because of these problems, I asked, begged, cried, pursuaded to solve the problems in our marriage. He didn't want to go see doctors or therapist. Many times, his neglect and failure to do anything to solve our problems angered me that I started yelling, screaming, threatening to get through him. But it still didn't work. My problem was not because of what he is doing but what he is NOT doing as a responsible husband. Now that I am in the process of divorce, I am doing soul searching. First I thought, he is being abusive neglecting, ignoring my pain. But now I wonder I was being abusive ( to get through him) because he didn't put any effort to solve problems. All my family is angry at him for what he put me through but why do I feel guilty ?

2006-08-02 07:36:48 · 25 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

My husband and i have been toghether for 5yrs but married 2yrs. he is a recovering drug addict and has cheated on me twice the 1st year we were toghether. he has recently come off of drugs for the 6th time and is trying his hardest to stay clean and he says that i keep bringing him down bc i don't trust him and always question him but my pain is still there bc of everything he has put me through. it has only been 7 weeks since he last did drugs and i am still very insecure about where he goes and who he is with so we argue and i do not want to argue but my pain is deep and he wants me to hurry and get over it.

2006-08-02 07:35:24 · 12 answers · asked by needanswers 1

when he started working he was happy that I could pick him up. Now he says I don't have to. Am I over-reacting?

2006-08-02 07:30:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 07:28:51 · 9 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1

I had the baby a month ago, but he hasn't said anything for a while. I think he's afraid of rejection. We have been living together for a little over a year.

2006-08-02 07:25:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 07:23:25 · 13 answers · asked by HOTsxyPROFdoc 1

Yesterday I got a ticket at a STOP intersection for not yielding to the police car at the intersection. However i believe it was just a money making trick becuase I was driving really slow and there was not a single car at the intersection when I stopped at the intersection!! He initially harrassed me ... i guess just to gain control of the situaution...i tried to argue but he said he will arrest me... i want to know if I can plead in the court?? I do not know how this can be proved! I want to plead in court becuase i got 2 points on my DMV and insurance increased by aroung 600$ per year....

Has anyone got a false traffic ticket? Do you feel like these police officcers just do this to generate revenue?

i did stop at the STOP sign and waited for about 3 seconds. There were no cars at the intersection. My husband was sitting in the passenger seat. He did not see any car at the intersection either...
Can i take my husband as proof while pleading in the court?

2006-08-02 07:23:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

no, she is not banging the poolboy....also not sexually molested, or any kind of such history. her explanation....I dont like sex , but she wants the marraige to continue on the same base...I have even given an ultimatum that if she dont share her part of the marraige, we have to end it. Softy me....gave her time to fix this but still NOTHING.
should I just stay married and get sex somewhere else or just make a plain stop to it all? I dont want to hurt her but I am hurt for the last 5 years.

2006-08-02 07:15:42 · 11 answers · asked by spookie 1

there is an illegal alien from ukraine who is trying to get my 20 yr old son to marry her.She is married to ukrainian husband,is it legal for her to marry someone else? Does that then make my son legally responsible for her kids over in ukraine??

2006-08-02 07:12:09 · 49 answers · asked by Betty U 1

2006-08-02 07:07:31 · 13 answers · asked by juhicdm 1

I've been married three weeks. We've been together for a year and a half. I want to do something sexually that will blow his ever lovin' mind. He's not really the make love type of guy. I want to do something that will make him want more and more and more. Someting he'll never forget. Before me, he had lot's of experience so it has to be something really great! Please help! I'll do anything!

2006-08-02 07:03:52 · 11 answers · asked by Amelia 2

2006-08-02 06:56:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend's husband is going to walk away from 23 years of marriage. It's almost as if he's lost his mind. He acts like a teenager and refuses to be responsible about anything. He is convinced that he's going to take off and be a country music star (he's not that good) and is hanging out with a buch of Hooter's bimbos (he's a good tipper) and refuses to meet with a marriage counselor. My friend is an emotional wreck and can't eat or sleep. She cries all the time and I feel so bad for her. Her husband used to be the most wonderful, sensitive, caring man, but now he's acting like a teenager. I keep telling her to hang in there and "weather the storm", but he is hurting her so much. Any tips from women who have been in a similar situation or from men who have made it through the other side of a mid-life crisis?

2006-08-02 06:53:09 · 6 answers · asked by nunya 2

If you found out your sister in law and her husband that have 2 beautiful baby girls are swingers??

2006-08-02 06:51:55 · 21 answers · asked by DesertGirlie 2

I'm just being curious... I've fall out of love once and next time i wanna be prepared. I believe that if u have alot of bad experience, u might not wanna love again.It might become a phobia for me.So... pls be honest. Thx for sharing.

2006-08-02 06:49:46 · 17 answers · asked by lost 2

i like women with lots of physical strength, who can beat men at wrestling, arm wrestling etc.
how many women do actually like this? they like to dominate men or be submissive?

2006-08-02 06:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by TruthIsGod 2

my wife and I are married for 6 years. we had only 10 x sex in that time.no change after getting help. and she refuse to talk about the issue. should I proceed with a divorce?

2006-08-02 06:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by spookie 1

I think I may have Married a either Down Low GUY or Can't seem to COME OUT OF THE CLOSET GUY, He is my friend, lover now Husband but Since he left out of the blue some years back we always stayed in touch, He found his way back to me, But I will say before he left me things are not the same with him and I feel this since he has returned, Although I have express this and ASK many questions Still I can't seem to SHAKE what I'm feeling, So PLEASE tell me How will I know for SURE that My husband could be GAY? Is there a WAY I CAN FIND OUT? Please understand I HAVE NO PROBLEMS WITH GAY PERSONS, I HAVE HAD GAY Freinds in my past that were gay, Although I wish they were still in my life because they I am sure would know the answer, But I have NO way of contacting them, I respect any indiviual who can STAND UP AND SAY I AM GAY. That Takes COURAGE, But What I do not understand is a Person who can live a LIE of DECEPTION, That is why I am turning to the gay community for your advice, THANKS

2006-08-02 06:45:20 · 4 answers · asked by sweettoni37 4

i want to hear from an actual abuser

2006-08-02 06:44:05 · 4 answers · asked by girlie girl 1

Will I ever forget what happened and live a happy life with him again? Will I be able to love him again? Please help this is killing me inside!!!

2006-08-02 06:41:40 · 8 answers · asked by deva 1

What would you prefer?
1. Have the traditional wedding OR
2. Go to a tropical island and elope (immediate family and a couple of close friends in attendance), then send out a "surprise...we're married!!!" invitation to guests for a party afterwards?

2006-08-02 06:35:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I have been together for 4 yrs. he asked me to marry him after he had left me for 2 1/2 mo. We have a 2 yr old son that is very close to both of us. I decided to take him back and then in Dec I found out that he had been having an affair for 4 mo. I tried to get even with him by having a 1 nite stand but all that did was make me look bad. He is a good man in every other way. but can't seem to be faithful. I love him more than I thought possible. I have tried to forgive him. some days are easier then others. I have thought about leaving but I don't want to hurt our son and I really want our relationship to work but I don't think he is going to stop cheating. I have since caught him asking for other womens phone numbers and telling another women that he is moving to Texas next year which I know nothing about.He said he was just playing. When I ask why he has to talk to women like that he says he feels bad about himself. What do you think?"

2006-08-02 06:33:55 · 11 answers · asked by mystic4624 2