Marriage & Divorce - 2 August 2006

2006-08-02 09:09:21 · 8 answers · asked by raspberrynaledo 1

Does anyone know if you have a child that is disabled and will not be able to provide for themselves once turning 18 if you can request the father to have to continue to pay child support for that child untill they become capable of financially supporting themselves?

2006-08-02 09:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by Bre B 1

If you've been holding back from asking something of your spouse, what is it? What would you ask if you could be sure of not hurting their feelings or making them angry?

2006-08-02 09:00:26 · 16 answers · asked by byama 2

I am unhappy in my marriage, although my husband is a nice guy, he always wants the best for me, and a veeeery good father. But unfortunately I realised during the years that he is not the man I thought he would be, he is not as smart and not as interesting, and he is reeeeeally bad in the bed.
Yes we could go to counseling, but I am afraid it won't help me to fall in love with him again as I did 8 years ago.
Should I stay in my marriage and be unhappy deep in my heart, or should I divorse and let 3 other people suffer because of my selfishness?

2006-08-02 08:59:37 · 20 answers · asked by memyselfandi 1

Let me explain,my ex and I have come to a mutual agreement between ourselves that he will provide £200 a month support for our 22 month old son.He asked for my bank details and said he would set up a standing order out of his account into mine.He claims he has done this but can't remember what date he set it up for each month.Told me Monday he thought it was the 1st or 2nd of the month.Have checked my account and the money is not there so when he text me to let me know how our son is(he has him overnight tonight)I text him back and said it still wasn't in my account but I would keep checking over the next few days.He knows his son and I are reliant on this money at the moment as I have to wait for any other financial assistance ie (tax credits etc) to be awarded.What should I do.He has not text me back.

2006-08-02 08:54:43 · 20 answers · asked by rhieanon6108 2

Same problem:
I really like sex. But the thing is my husband doesn't lust for it. I'm always the one who jump on him, start kissing him all over until we could "do it". He's only lie there and enjoy my kisses.
He never cuddle me, touching me, feeling me...i like those a lot. I tried to tell him in many ways...but it doesn;t change.
I want to see him wanting me. I want to see him jump on me and sex me like crazy, but it never be that way.
He only want to "do it". After that, he wipe it out, and sleep...or play his computer.
I talked to him about this so many times...he just said 'im a lil tired now...' and it's been 1 year since then.
I asked him to come to a doctor...i think he doesn't want to face it..he refused.
He has high cholesterol too..but i don't think it's a problem.
and now..I'm still the one who do every work...play with him...dance sexily around him...flirt with him...but he still just hold me and kiss me on my cheek. Everything else between us is great.

2006-08-02 08:51:09 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for seven yrs, one child. I cheated on my husband 4 1/2 yrs ago while we were seperated. He forgave me and we stayed together all this time, but now lately (for about a year) we haven't been able to get along, mainly because he still doesn't trust me. I love him and I want to be with him, but now he's telling that we should seperate. I have to give him reason, but I don't know if I should stay and put up with him being the way that he is with me (mean, not affectionate) or leave and give him some space. Not sure?

2006-08-02 08:50:12 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs. G 1

2006-08-02 08:49:14 · 8 answers · asked by gottaife32@sbcglobal.net 1

2006-08-02 08:48:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out 2 1/2 years ago that my husband, then of 10 years, inappropriately touched my child, his step child. It happend 4 times. 3 years prior to that, he was physically abusive, but I had forgiven him and we worked past the issues. But when I discovered worse had happened, it opened up the past wounds all over again. We had seperated for almost two years but are back together. He has gone to counseling and seems like he put much effort into changing. He wants to do anything to make it better. While we were seperated, I started seeing someone else, which made him bitterly angry and revengeful. We were not divorced, but seperated. Now, back together, I am bitter and felt he guilted me into coming back to him since I was 'living in sin' after he tried making changes. How can I get past the resentment and give our marriage a fair chance for recovery, if we actually can. Please be gentle and people in this position are the best to respond to my question since they've been there. T

2006-08-02 08:47:19 · 13 answers · asked by Bella 1

2006-08-02 08:46:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 15 yrs . 3 Beautiful kids.
We most of the time have $ problems and it gets very frustrating at times.
The question I have for the married ladies is if you were me and quite often , would get asked out buy very wealthy men, (I meet them in my line of work)Would you start to wonder what life could have been like?I find myself doing that a lot latley but than thinking of my 3 boys it brings me back home.It dosent however stop my angry feeling towards my husband.I start to feel like he should support me better .And I deserve so much more .And for reasons he does not know I start arguments .
Were would you go w/ these feeling?

2006-08-02 08:44:07 · 18 answers · asked by suiki 3

2006-08-02 08:38:07 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently within the past few years lost a bunch of weight. My self esteem shot through the roof. I love my husband unconditionally and he loves me. We do have a wonderful life together. I wasn't thinking right. I was going through a real hard time and ended up in an ex's bed. This was a regular thing for about 5 months until I realized what I was doing. I have not told him and I am so scared to. I have not cheated since. Our 11th anniversary is coming up. I want us to renew our vowels and move on. If he finds out, I know he will file for divorce. Any advice.

2006-08-02 08:37:16 · 15 answers · asked by Lucyintheskywithdiamonds 1

someone sees you , and then he asks u to get engaged and u know him during the engagement

2006-08-02 08:30:06 · 36 answers · asked by FlashBack 2

Girls ,has someone tried having sex with you when you were asleep? How do you find it ? Annoying or enjoyable? what's your comment on that?

2006-08-02 08:29:57 · 21 answers · asked by deamer boy 2

How could you hold that against someone?? I've divorced twice but I was the one who filed and I was the one who was cheated on. One time for over a year and because I put total trust in her and she took total advantage and tried to blame me for her actions. Could you hold that against me?

2006-08-02 08:29:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for 3 years now to a man that i didnt love since. We just live together in one roof for a year now since I got here, US. I thought love can be learn when you are with the person already but I was mistaken. He is 52 and I am 28. During our first year of marriage I fall for somebody else through internet dating. We are much inlove to each other and so we end up meeting each othere after a year of communication . He knows that I am married and he was asking me leave my marriage and go with him but I am scared and feel pity to the person I married because he is so nice. He give me everything I need: love, security and precious things in life even my family when they need something. I love the other person but what I do with the person I married. Please help!!!

2006-08-02 08:28:03 · 20 answers · asked by sweety 1

Her eyes ? Her lips ? Her face ? Her breasts ? Her waist ? Her overall figure ?

2006-08-02 08:27:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband agreed to start trying for a baby in 9 months. We have been together for 5 years.

He wants to wait so that we will pay off our mortgage while we are trying for a baby. The house will be paid off 3 months after we start trying.

He refuses to start earlier because we don’t have the extra cash for a baby now because our mortgage payments are so high.

I think about having a baby everyday and it makes me sad when I see babies, baby clothes, etc.

What makes it worse is that a friend of mine is pregnant after knowing her boyfriend for a year.

Its hard to be happy for her when I have been looking forward to having a child with my husband for years.

How do I pass time so I am not bummed out?

How do I get the idea of having a child out of my head?

2006-08-02 08:26:21 · 12 answers · asked by WannaBeMom 2

again"? "Yeah" she said, "You don't grease the pole for me to do my pole dancing exercises, I can't grab onto it".
Another day, another screw up on my part. I'm surprised my wife stays with me. Do you think your significant other is a dork, but you love them anyway?

2006-08-02 08:25:58 · 6 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Thanks Maggie for the true imput of me being a jerk , should i decide to have sex with someone else. this was mere a suggestion to get my wife's attention, which however is not the way I should go. But sometimes "shock therapy"helps.
No she dont want to see a sex therapist or head doctor, and it's not me being rough.....she simply dont like sex.
next q? how do I break the news to her as I am a sucker for tears and always give in the moment she starts to cry. But so have I cried in my heart and cannot continue like this, for this is not what life is about. I am no sex freak but i'm only human.

2006-08-02 08:15:15 · 8 answers · asked by spookie 1

1.good breakfast 2. all meals must be served to him lunch,dinner,no nagging,lots of sex,no working around the house,and she must be quiet,in his presents..HUSBAND ASK HIS WIFE WHAT DID THE DOCTOR SAY....YOUR GOING TO DIE

2006-08-02 08:12:37 · 16 answers · asked by har 3

I just got back from two years in Japan with my husband and we are now living with my family here in my home town. I haven't seen any of these people in a long time and coming out of no where just to see me and see how I have been. I'm glad that they care but it seems like my husband is more bothered by this then I am. I truely don't if they come and see me or not. I'm just happy to be back home with my husband, but he sees it as all of these guys are coming to get me while he is at work. I don't go anywhere out of the house without him unless I go to town with my mother. I have told him several times that I'm not interested in anyone else but him but he doesn't believe me. Hell, most of these guys are married or have kids and here I am trying to inform a brick wall of the fact that I'm better then that. The one person that I love that I don't want thinking of me like that. I told all of my friends to stay clear and it makes me unhappy and I feel jailed. I want friends as well.

2006-08-02 08:11:02 · 5 answers · asked by trying2keepittogether 2

her husband is in Iraq. we work in an office together. I know for a fact that she is grinding a guy in the office. To make it even
more insulting, the guy she's doing it with is black. Not only that,
he's a total sleeze ball although he probably refers to it as
a "player". I feel sorry for the guy in iraq. I have met him, and he would be devastated if he knew,
one, that his wife was cheating, and two, that she's doing a black guy. I suppose I should just mind my own business. should I say anything to her?

2006-08-02 08:10:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not married, but believe it would be both challenging and rewarding (hopefully more rewarding than challenging). As I get older, I try to remain optimistic that one day I will be "happily" married, but the more I look around the more I wonder how realistic that truly is. Would anyone care to share what common misconceptions they had before marriage, and what they learned (or wish they knew earlier) after divorce?

2006-08-02 08:06:41 · 11 answers · asked by aj 3

my husband and i have been married for 4 months now. cutting to the chase i love him with all my heart and know he loves me too. he cheated on me just a kiss with another woman. alright that's over and done wih ( I thought the hard part was over) Ok now he told me about a past girlfriend with a baby and he didn't know that it was his or not. Fine. alright now he had contacted her and the baby 2 months ago. he still says the baby is not his but yet assumes responsiblity for him. now the mother has contacted him again asking for his help to step up in a divorce that she is going through currently so she won't lose the baby. my husband has seen this child once and the man caring for the baby wants the child. I don't think my husband has told her about me and our marriage.. he says that he did though, but my trust in my husband is limited now. he lied before and is still lieing now and i don't know how to handle everything. i don't want to leave him.

2006-08-02 08:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by charmedwu 1

What do you get when you lose that spark between husband and wife? I love him to death but we fight all of the time and we know eachother so well and we don't want to fight so we avoid each thing that could be bugging us and it doesn't help with communitcation when the both of us are not wanting to talk things out. I try and do my best with being out of work but he comes in from work and thinks that I have all the time in the world to do what he wants done. I don't. We are living with my family and we have a cat and a dog that need caring for as well. I'm trying my best but it never seems good enough and having my family needing help doesn't help much with anything. I'm sick of being ordered what to do by my husband that doesn't understand that I have to help my family as well considering we aren't paying them any rent at all. I also know that the only reason why I do as much as I do is also because I respect our relationship and don't want to just sit on my *** all day. What can I do?

2006-08-02 08:02:47 · 12 answers · asked by trying2keepittogether 2

there woman to do to them to make them really happy.

2006-08-02 08:01:37 · 21 answers · asked by bugdifino 2

My husband does not want me to work. It's not like he's controling, he believes that they woman should not work, because it is the man's responsibility to be the bread winner and he feels extreamly guilty that I am working now. He's an investor and makes pretty good money, so that is not really the issue, also I wouldn't mind being a housewife, but we already have someone right now that comes in and cleans, and there are no kids yet, so what do ladies do who are housewives with no kids? I was thinking about going back to school to get my MA/PHD, I am pretty young as well ( 23)

2006-08-02 08:01:26 · 14 answers · asked by Rose 4