Marriage & Divorce - 2 August 2006

his friends tell me i look great and he freaks out and says what are you looking at mf..... that makes me feel like dirt, he isn't proud to have me on his arm. WHY!!! I'm 41 & don't look like it at all maybe 34 (I've been told=) ) i left again recently after he hurt me, again. I just want to be happy now either w/ or w/o him I have too much to look forward to in life....I'm just getting started i wish he would wake up and just apologize but i think it has gone too far for that now. we have said things that you would never repeat to anyone, and sooooo hurtful. YOU CANT TAKE WORDS BACK, And when you drink the truth comes out. i'm really worried about him, but maybe i just shouldn't care but he can be a good person...whatever...a good person doesn't treat someone the way he has treated me.. take care jon

2006-08-02 04:47:03 · 33 answers · asked by agreatgift41 1

A man that....

Makes a lot of money and buys you whatever you want, but works all the time

OR

Makes just enough to live on but spends all the time he can with you and the kids

I know you want a man that does BOTH...but the question is one or the other?

2006-08-02 04:41:43 · 37 answers · asked by Mike 2

I have been married for 10years, my husband has wanted to move where he was origianlly from, and I finally agreed, I have lived here for 1 year and a half and I hate it. I have epilepsy which keeps me from driving, and three children and I hae not had a break in 10 months, I have not had a romantic dinner, a night out with the girls nothing, I know 2 people here, and I never get to see them because I have no one to watch the kids, my husband however goes to play poker, once a week, gets to go out to have dinner with the guys, and have a beer, normal things that give him a break. I have bit my tongue about this and tried to be the good wife, and I feel like I am going insane!! I have tried to discuss this with my husband, but his response is why do you want to whine and complain about it, I can't change the situation and you wanted the kids, so deal with it. I really don't think I am being crazy, or selfish, any suggestions or answers would be great!!!!

2006-08-02 04:26:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have tried for 2 years to get her to a place to help her with her problems with no luck. I have made appointments with her and she won't go. Anyway after 2 years of dealing with this I am feeling resentful toward her,my temper is getting short from inaducate rest ( I work 60 plus hours a week do all the shopping, cooking and cleaning ect) and am getting to the point where I don't care about anything. What can I do to help myself? My boss won't let me go to see a shrink, I figure it might be worth it but not at the cost of my job. My friends and family say to leave her as it is really starting to drag me down, but I do deeply love her and the childern. I have been reminded repeatedly they aren't my childern ( she had all 5 before I met her 4 live at home) but to me they are My childern and there is no way I will leave them alone with her and she would never agree to let me have custody. What can I do to avoid feeling trapped and losing hope with the situation ? Help!!!

2006-08-02 04:19:42 · 19 answers · asked by uniroyalfan 3

I spent all my money on getting the car through inspection. I don't have any skirts/dresses. My "dress" pants aren't really dressy. Can I wear capris and a nice top? The people getting married are in their mid-20's. The groom works with my bf and the bride I've met a couple of times. She has piercings in her nose and eyebrow.

2006-08-02 04:18:06 · 6 answers · asked by Dellajoy 6

My husband will leave me for a 23 Year old chinese girl he is 49 Years old. He says that he loves me because he loves her more.
What could i do ?

2006-08-02 04:17:52 · 11 answers · asked by bgut 1

What is so wrong about living the single life and enjoying it?

2006-08-02 04:17:03 · 10 answers · asked by Cledus 1

other than sex..
what are the things that u mostly love if your wife do it for you??
please lsay

2006-08-02 04:16:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

being home pertending that everything is ok with her husband, does she really love & care for him? why make love,sleep together, show affection towards him?

2006-08-02 04:08:51 · 14 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

mail slot, with a note that says, "You're a tool". Do you think they will give me a violation for this? My wife says I'm getting worked up over nothing, do you agree?

2006-08-02 03:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Married for 7 years together for 10. 2001 he came in contact w/friend whom he had sexual relationship with. I didn't have a problem w/it until she bagan calling him at "odd" hours I advsd him of my feelings, then found out he lied about speaking to her, she even showd up at our house unannounced-forgave him for this.2nd time 2003 he told me he was at class -a evening class, I happened to ride past the house of one of my girlfriends friends house- and his car in her driveway- said nothing going on he just needed someone to talk to--didn't believe him but anyway -after a long time forgave him. This time I was snooping I admit- cause I still don't believe he is faithful, I found e-mails to a former co worker talking about sexual stuff they want to do to each other- when kept asking me what was wrong I told him what I found he said it was all a joke and that he's not attracted to this woman. I have really tried to forgive and forget but the same scenarios keep happening.

2006-08-02 03:54:35 · 21 answers · asked by jaynikhole 1

with her husband to go with me and my wife to dinner? My love of her is strictly platonic, I understand why she is my wife's best friend. I'd like to see if she is capable of writing jokes for my act.

2006-08-02 03:42:50 · 25 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

OK so my husband asked me to mail something from work to a female we are both kinda friends with she was friends with him first and I thought she had a thing for him before we got together 4 years ago. She doesn't live near us.. I asked what it was and he said he owed her like $20 from a long time ago. I forgot to mail it and just now it is sitting on my inbox at work and so I couldn't help but open it to see if he was lying about what he sent because we have had issues lately about him "omitting the truth". Well i found a $100 bill. Should I tell him I opened it and confront him? Or just let it go and stew? I'm going to reseal it and mail it but I just don't know what to do I'm pretty mad.

2006-08-02 03:35:35 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 03:33:37 · 6 answers · asked by southforty1961 3

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2006-08-02 03:26:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 03:25:21 · 21 answers · asked by nothing anymore 1

My boyfriend who I have lived with for 3 years has suddenly just ended our relationship. He swears blind that there's nobody else and just seems to have become caught up in a couple of mundane problems that we should have solved a while ago and have blown up in his head - running from 'us' rather than solving them. I'm devastated and never saw this coming - we always did everything together, right until a few days ago. Do you think I'm deluding myself to have hope that he's going to come back? No silly answers please as I'm pretty upset right now.

2006-08-02 03:21:14 · 22 answers · asked by Lou 2

I want to be in a serious relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage. I'm not sure he wants the same with me. I've brought up the question of marriage before, and yes he someday wants to get married and have kids, but he's quite paranoid, coz marriages are 'boring'. I'm 25. He's 32. We're different races and his parents wouldn't approve of me. Should I walk?

2006-08-02 03:05:24 · 17 answers · asked by lori 1

We have 9! pillows on our bed, and there are only 3 that I use;an almost flat regular pillow, a feather pillow that is lightly stuffed (I custom made this one) so that I can put it under my neck, and a big fluffy one that I either snuggle with or put under my shoulder blade. That leaves six, yes count 'em folks, six pillows for my hubby-and most of them end up on the floor or I wake up with them pushed in my face, yet almost every night he tries to steal one of mine. It has resulted in some funny pillow fights and a couple of inside jokes. Anyone else have a funny/qwerky night-time story/ritual/habit that they would like to share? Please keep it clean and amusing.

2006-08-02 02:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by munesliver 6

2006-08-02 02:49:20 · 24 answers · asked by petes2084 1

maine divorce

2006-08-02 02:41:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married seven years, a great provider, paying for wife schooling, she has a clothing store she has always wanted, she seems to rather be away than home, do not take care of home and do not spend quality time with me.

2006-08-02 02:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Goodguy 1

2006-08-02 02:39:04 · 33 answers · asked by love28 1

2006-08-02 02:33:11 · 19 answers · asked by Echo 4

2006-08-02 02:31:24 · 13 answers · asked by lizdouglas_liz 2

2006-08-02 02:30:11 · 14 answers · asked by petes2084 1

2006-08-02 02:29:20 · 3 answers · asked by Sh 1

i will do anything my husband wants. anything. as long as its legal, nothing is off limits. some of my friends say i shouldnt be so accomidating? some also think i give it up too easily because i let my husband have it wenever he wants which is usually 2 or 3 times a day. weve been happily married 4 20 years so i think im doing something right. wat do u think?

2006-08-02 02:27:58 · 38 answers · asked by scooter trash 2

He kept working hard for all of his life and dedicated his life of his sick wife and four kids. He said that he finally found a person that he really loves and wishes to continue his life with. I like his personality a lot. After knowing each other for one year we decided to merry. I am wondering if age will be a problem that will affect our future life.

2006-08-02 02:26:11 · 21 answers · asked by Lola 1