A man that....
Makes a lot of money and buys you whatever you want, but works all the time
OR
Makes just enough to live on but spends all the time he can with you and the kids
I know you want a man that does BOTH...but the question is one or the other?
2006-08-02 04:41:43 · 37 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
definitely the second one. money can only go so far. but time spent with your family is priceless.
2006-08-02 04:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by onehot_mama23 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I choose the second. But, it doesnt mean that's the best choice. 'cause I'm a man, I will also have to work hard and earn lots of money to make sure my family can live in a good condition. We cant just say love is only being together. Have to think about how to make my wife and my kids happy in every fields.
2006-08-02 04:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by nguyenthanhtungtinbk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'll take the first one. After a couple of years with guy number 2 and the kids all the time you'll get tired of the routine of it all. The romance will fade and then what? No money for family vacations, and all the really fun stuff in life. Struggling, no thanks,A Hubby that is faithful and works allot is fine with me. As long as he enjoys his work and is happy too.. " Baby, Send me to the spa and I'll take the kids out for dinner when I get out....Make sure to wake me up when you get home from work for some lovin...." Guy no#1 no doubt about it.
2006-08-02 05:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely the man that's wants to spend time with you and your kids, cause in the long run when the kids are gone and your all alone you will want someone to spend his time with you to comfort you and be supportive not someone who is never going to be there an is too busy to take the time for you !
Money doesn't buy happiness!
2006-08-02 04:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Pompin Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that in order to spend a quality time with your family you have to try to offer them the best you can get! It doesn't matter if isn't the ultimate car or the trend's new clothes...you only need a place to live, some food add some friends...and a men by your side...guess love solves all the problem...
2006-08-02 04:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a man who makes a moderate amount of money (not just enough because that's keeping his family in poverty) and spends time with his family while allowing to have their own interests?
2006-08-02 05:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..personally, I'd rather choose- Makes just enough to love on but spends all the time he can with you and the kids.
For the fact that.. he may not always be into work, and there could be something else on the side.
I'd personally rather have someone there by my side, and my children's side :)
2006-08-02 04:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by xx_ladyxluck_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enough to live. I would rather spend a lot of time with my husband. Life is short.
2006-08-02 04:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes just enough to live on but spends all the time he can with you and the kids definately.
2006-08-02 04:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll take the 2nd. There is no point in being married if you don't spend time together. Marriage isn't always about money, it's more about being a family.
2006-08-02 04:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by Motherof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old am I Mike!? {maturity wise} I want my man around! Especially if I have kids!{ they need "both" parents!} You know I just might have to give up some of the things for me but everything in this life doesn't revolve around me me me! And I get "him", shouldn't that be worth it!?
2006-08-02 04:54:30 · answer #11 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋