My husband will leave me for a 23 Year old chinese girl he is 49 Years old. He says that he loves me because he loves her more.
What could i do ?
2006-08-02 04:17:52 · 11 answers · asked by bgut 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing dont beg men get off on that,just make your life that much better with out him.I am sorry
2006-08-02 04:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Briana's mum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing looks like a 23 year old like a 23 year old, Men suck and a good one is hard to find. Problem is; theres cake and theres icing, he had the cake, and now wants his icing. and so on and on....There isn't a damn thing you can do about it. He may come crawling back, then the balls in your court.
Let me ask you this - what do you look like at 49 or whatever age you are? did you let yourself go? I know this is a shallow question, but we are talking about men here aren't we?
There are men who will - stay with there wife no matter what, who will leave no matter what, leave when wives get fat, leave when something better comes along. I don't know your situation, but I can tell you this, if you keep yourself looking the same as you did when you were married and keep the fire hot in the bedroom, you have increased your chances of keeping your man.
If you marry a best friend looks will matter less, I know this is hindsight, but MARRY YOUR BEST FRIEND. someone who likes you and likes to hang out with you, not someone who views you as a wife.
there are only a few men who realize:
I had my shot, I now have a wife kids, etc. and I'm here for the long haul.
2006-08-02 05:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Franklin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me say I am sorry for what you are going through. You should probably talk to the Chinese girl and maybe talk some sense into her.
The other option is accept to accept it and move on. It will hurt for sometime but nothing that counselling, friends and family can't overcome.
All the best.
2006-08-02 04:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to remember that if it is yours, you can let it go and it will come back. Most men that make these decisions, alway regret them, and they always want to go back to their wives. If he does leave, improve you, spend time on you, because you are the only important person in your life. If he is still undecided, get to marriage councilling as fast as you can and see if you can work out a solution, it could save a lot of heart ache.
2006-08-02 04:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by nothing anymore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a hard one just exprese to him ur feelings and just tell him you love him soo much and that you would do anything jsut always be truthfull and fight for him and dont ever do anything to piss him off or if he is having as relashinship with that gurl get a devorce do not be afraid do what you have to do.
2006-08-02 04:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_n_sourchika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. Try to grieve, join a divorce group, take yoga, take up some hobbies. If he doesn't want you then you don't want to be with him. It's no fun being with a partner that doesn't really want you. Go find one that does.
2006-08-02 04:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for that. Your husband is crazy, ask him to go counselling. If he refuses, there is nothing to do. He is on the crave of lost times...
2006-08-02 04:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is LOVE which binds two hearts. I am sure he wold not leave you, if you really love him. Try, there is still time.
2006-08-02 04:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by NATIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him,theres plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-08-02 04:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go girl..................49 ans shes 23......lol...............he wants something new and when hes done he will want to come back............dont give him that opportunity.........divorce him.......get him for desertion and take it all from him............tough love
2006-08-02 04:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by msladybug17268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋