Married seven years, a great provider, paying for wife schooling, she has a clothing store she has always wanted, she seems to rather be away than home, do not take care of home and do not spend quality time with me.
2006-08-02 02:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Goodguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you are a great guy and great husband. I'm wondering if there is something she is not telling you. Maybe she is depressed but cannot express her feelings to you. I went through that with my husband and did not want anything to do with him. But he stuck by me and helped me through it. We are closer than ever. Really talk to her and let her know you are there for her and whatever is bothering her she can tell you. Maybe you can go to counseling together cause she may tell them rather than you.
2006-08-02 02:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that's what you are! Great provider but where's the great romancer??
You sound more like a father than a husband. If I were her, over time, I see you as my father who loves me. Nothing more than that. I wouldnt want to make love to my father!! You may be a good husband but you are not a GREAT husband.
Think back of the time when you were wooing her. If there was a time you both did make love together, there must be some kind of thing that you did to make her wanna do you. What did you not do that you did then?
Good luck !
2006-08-02 09:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it guys always say, "I gave her everything she wanted and still......."? Apparently not.
Not knowing the whole story it's hard to give you a solid answer.
You need to talk with your wife. See what's going on in her head. It may be that she has these goals and is trying to stay focused on them, not realizing what she's doing to you & the marriage....that you understand.
It may be that love has started to wane, but if that's all it is, it can be rekindled.
Only an honest, open discussion will give you the answer.
2006-08-02 10:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, seem that you don't show real love. but you buy her things send to college, has her own store.... so If you want to tell her how much you love her but you couldn't tell her so you buy her a Hummer to show how much you love her. ....... it always money i see everything is money you giving her but you don't show the quality of true love.
I did buy my wife jerwery every year. and she said "honey I know you really love me so much and I just want you to tell me Honey Ilove you so much...something not cost so much money." She made me think and SO I did and every day I tell her how much I love her and how much I care so much. she love to hear it and i even took her in bed and she even love the most knowing that man really truly in love with her.
You know buying things for her somuch what if you lost your job and you don't have the money? Wife left you...because knowing that you don't know how to express true love to her. it free not cost anything by telling her how much you love her and take her to bedroom or romatic... believe me ask her this.
Honey, I didn't show true love and stuff like that HUH? I kept on buying you things and notice you not happy. Want me to do something better and she will say I hopeing that someday you will be able to tell me this. Answer is yes.
Believe me, it can happen or not you make the choice. Don't think it will last long in this marriage. anything happen the store she run she can take care of herself ...
2006-08-02 10:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had the same happen thing happen to me dude women now don't know how to be wives or mothers or anything but daddys little girl. the best thing to do is drop the cu-nt and save your pride. date and find someone that has had a sh-itty husband and live happly unmarried everyafter that is what i did.
PS when you find a chick that has had a crackhead they treat you like a GOD
2006-08-02 09:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by SLICK77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not want to hear this but she is not in love with you any more or she has found someone else. It is best that you talk to her to find out. You need to get this resolved ASAP.
2006-08-02 09:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes a woman dont want good husband on bed but rather a wild and sexy hubby
2006-08-02 11:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by iris joy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to talk. Share with her how you are feeling and see how she responds. She may not even realize that you are feeling this way.
2006-08-02 10:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up and smell the coffee,, she obviously has gotten what she wanted from you,, when you were supportig her asperations, i am willing to bet you had no trouble banging her.. now she is doing well , she has no problem banging someone else.. find out what is going on, then move on..
2006-08-02 10:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by jon b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad....you should really tell her how you feel. It sounds like she's not appreciating you and your efforts to support her both financially and emotionally.
2006-08-02 09:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋