He kept working hard for all of his life and dedicated his life of his sick wife and four kids. He said that he finally found a person that he really loves and wishes to continue his life with. I like his personality a lot. After knowing each other for one year we decided to merry. I am wondering if age will be a problem that will affect our future life.
2006-08-02 02:26:11 · 21 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Am not worry about money I already have my job, he is not rich any way. And all of his kids agree with his marriage.
2006-08-02 02:46:52 · update #1
yes, we are planning to have kids of our own
2006-08-02 11:33:47 · update #2
since he is 58yrs old, can we have healthy kids of our own?
2006-08-03 13:47:57 · update #3
Yeah good idea so that very young children can experience the death of their very old father.
Get someone your own age, and quit trolling in the nursing homes!
Are you that desperate?
2006-08-10 00:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean there's a pro and cons of dating someone whose old enough to be your mom/dad.
Pros:
1.He/she is experienced in more stuff than you.
Cons:
1. You go out kissing and someone will look at you like oh my god why is she kissing her dad.
2.You can't go partying with him because old people are just----old people, and they don't want to go to a club.
3.It's likely that if you have a kid then there will be complications.
4.He probably only has a few more years to live (about 10-12 years)
5. He would probably prefer a bingo hall then going to a party.
*********CONCLUSION*********
6. He'll end up like Hugh Hefner.
SO which one will YOU choose.
And to answer you question YES your age WILL affect your future.
So you should think about this before you guys get married. OR if you are married then sorrry Sweety you're already sucked into the hole.
2006-08-02 02:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Question? I Got An Answer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age will affect your relationship if you let it. Most people are going to see you together and think you are father and daughter. If you are bothered by what other people say, it will eventually take it's toll. Have you also taken into consideration that you may find yourself a young widow? That's a 30 year age difference there. Have you considered what happens 10, 20 years down the road as his health starts to decline and you are still a young, vital woman? Do the two of you plan to have kids of your own together?
2006-08-02 02:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 years gap? Not for me though. There is so much to live for now that you only 28 but then again....hey.... you may have the mentallity of a 58 too or he may feel like he is 28 to be connected to each other well.
Anyway, go do what your heart feels. Marriage is a gamble. It is no guarantee. If you dont try it, you'll never know if the two of you are meant for each other.
2006-08-02 03:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be OK for a few years, but what about when you're 60 and he's 90? And how do his kids feel about you? Have you worked out "inheritance" issues, or will you be in for a big surprise when he dies in 20 years and leaves everything to his kids?
Spend some time in a nursing home to see what you might be in for with regards to having to care for him in his declining years. It's bad enough to have to do it for a parent. For a husband too? I dont' know that I could.
2006-08-02 02:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been seeing an older guy, I'm 33 he's 61. People assume he's my dad or something, lots of funny looks. It's also odd b/c his kids are older than me and he even has great grandkids. I'm personally not real comfortable with it, especially thinking long term. But, you think about everything and decide what's best for you.
2006-08-02 02:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by lisacantcook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You will find somebody else and he knows this as well. If he Loves you he will understand that when you hit your peek he will be gone and you will need someone to fill the void. Don't ever stop loving this person but realize it is not going to be for the rest of your life only his. Good Luck!!!
2006-08-02 02:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by B P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the age difference is too great and your marriage will have little chance of success. Good luck.
2006-08-02 03:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS A 12 YEAR GAP BETWEEN MY HUSBAND AND I.
YES SOMETIMES I DO GET UPSET BECAUSE HE WANTS TO SIT AT HOME AND WATCH T.V.
AND I WANT TO GO.
HOWEVER THIS HAS'NT CHANGED MY LOVE FOR HIM.HE NEVER STOPS ME WHEN I DO WANT TO GO OUT ON THE TOWN.WHICH I DID.NOW WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 19 YEARS AND I CAN'T KEEP UP WITH HIM.LOL
MUST BE THE KELP
CAUSE HE EATS PLENTY OF IT.
2006-08-02 02:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by MISSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remeber when u r 35, u should be a nurse taking care of an old man.
2006-08-02 02:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋