2006-08-02 03:33:32 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO YOU DON'T.
2006-08-02 03:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
You're married so it's wrong. End of discussion. It's doesn't matter that your lover is probably as old or perhaps younger then some of your children. Actually, I'm not sure a 64 year old would use the word 'lover'. If true, then it isn't love your making.
2006-08-02 03:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are cheating on your husband is what makes this wrong. If you weren't married, then it may not be a problem but you are married. You have a commitment with this man, not your lover. If you are cheating on your husband with a 22 year old, you should feel ashamed of yourself. What does this 22 year old give you that your husband can't? If you are unhappy with your husband, then do something about it! I seriously cannot grip the fact your cheating on your husband for someone that young.....pathetic.
2006-08-02 03:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mean to sound nasty but me thinks yes its wrong! not so much cz of the age gap bt more of ur children, how do u think they would feel if they found out there mum was having an affair with someone old enough to be your grand son! i think age is nothing u cant help who u fall in love with and maybe your doing this just for the excitement but it will come to an end one day and then what? unless u two are serious, u dnt want to be wit your husband n e more and ur kids are old enuf to understand and not be as bothered id suggest to end it before someone, probably u gets hurt! x
2006-08-02 03:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be serious. If you are actually asking of this is wrong? The answer is YES! In some cases you are old enough to be his grandma. And you are not only hurting your husband and children, you are hurting him and yourself. Get over it and work on the commitment that you gave to your husband. Tell him the truth. If he forgives you then he is a good man and if he doesn't then you deserve it. This is the ultimate betrayal!
2006-08-02 03:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by vvvlambert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were not married then I would say go ahead. I dont think age matters and I would be a hypocrite if I did as my husband is 15 years younger then me. As you are married then I suggest you get out of this relationship before anyone gets hurt. Whatever it is your looking for you will not find it there. Try looking closer to home.
2006-08-02 07:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by ticktock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to have a lover of any age is wrong because you are married. if you love your husband, you have to end this. if you don't love him anymore, then get a divorce. you're 64 so i'm pretty sure your children are adults with their own lives. you have to live yours but you can't have your cake and eat it too.
2006-08-02 04:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by fungirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought at that age you are retired in the issues of sex, but I am glad you still hot and need someone energetic to keep riding you, but the only bad thing is that you are committing adultary when you have reached your end of the road and you need to be close to the Lord to prepare your everlasting life ahead of you or get divorced and marry the young man who is enjoying you too.
2006-08-02 03:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy girl you are getting yourself into hot water....
listen if you didn't have a husband i would tell you... you go girl. but sweetheart you are married. you have kids.... you are destroying your life...
also with a 22 year old kid... this is not going to last this kid lover of yours will eventually get sick of you and he will be looking for a younger victim... these things don't last at all guaranteed .. it will only bring you grief and sorrow. because eventually your husband will find out and kick your sorry *** out to the street...
he will end up with a pretty young thing while you will end up all alone in an empty bed.......
2006-08-02 03:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by lisa12345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong in what way? Morally? Spiritually? Intellectually? Physically? Can you keep up with him? Can he keep up with you? Is it only for the sex? Can you two talk? Does he want to do this, or did you coerce him into it? Do you have a hold over him or is he free? What would your children say? I'm in the same condition, but I have no children.
2006-08-02 03:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by Pandak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAM! how deesprate must the 22 year old be settling for a 64 years old?
2006-08-02 03:42:12 · answer #11 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋