i will do anything my husband wants. anything. as long as its legal, nothing is off limits. some of my friends say i shouldnt be so accomidating? some also think i give it up too easily because i let my husband have it wenever he wants which is usually 2 or 3 times a day. weve been happily married 4 20 years so i think im doing something right. wat do u think?
2006-08-02 02:27:58 · 38 answers · asked by scooter trash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That lucky bastard! If you ever break up please let me know I love you! You are a great example for all women!
2006-08-02 02:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by howardfan35 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are comfortable with this type of relationship then no one has the right to try and change it .As it sounds to me like you just want to keep your hubby happy and not wandering around looking for another woman then good on you it is your life and if it has been so good to this point why try and change it just because other people say it is not right .What might not be right for some may be just right for others.So don't let anyone tell you what you should and shouldn't be doing to keep your hubby happy.
2006-08-02 02:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key Words here....
"Your Husband"
You're friends need to stay out of your marital affairs. Stop filling them in on your sex life. It's inappropriate and destructive. Sharing that kind of information with them can lead to jealousy, envy, and convetousness. That's how mess gets started. Next thing you know you'll start listening to them and you're relationship will be ruined. Then one of your so called friends will be right up under YOUR husband pleasing him 3 or 4 times a day. Come on now... act like you know!
Matter of fact, I'm sure your husband wouldn't be happy if he knew you were sharing that kind of information with your girlfriends. If that is how you and your husband flow... and it's fine and wonderful for you.. don't change that. If anything you're doing (sexually) is causing you pain, embarassment, or stopping you from normal day to day responsibilities.. then you and your husband (only) should communicate and work that out.
You've be married for a long time and apparently seem to be doing just fine. KEEP YOUR GIRLFRIENDS OUT OF YOUR BEDROOM BUSINESS! Absolutely no need to share that kind of info with them. In the future when they ask you anything concerning your Marital Business (no matter what it is).. Let them know. "I'm not in the mood to share, but thanks for asking" or "Everything is Cool and that's all you need to know" Say it kind but say it firm.
2006-08-02 02:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the question is how do you feel? do enjoy giving it to him all the time? If you do then there is no problem. If you don't then there is a problem, and you need to sit down and have talk with him to let him know how you feel. Talk to ur husband about these things not ur friends. This should be a private issue between husband and wife.
2006-08-02 02:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe back off just a little. So give him everything all the time. Just start to back off a little a t a time. He will never notice it then when you do it slowly. If you are doing "it" 2-3 times a day, then on one of those times just tell him not now or i am kind of tired etc. Giving him everything he wants all the time is just spoiling him and he will and is taking advantage of you.
2006-08-02 02:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me right now? First of all, do u like doing these things for him and do u get enjoyment out of it? If you say yes to both of these questions then what is the problem???!!!! Why are you so concerned with what your friends have to say when they are not married to ur husband. Hunny come on, if its workin, why rock the boat. Now if you dont like doing these things and you dont like having sex with him, then u have a problem. But to me it doesnt seem that way, so stop listening to your friends and listen to your heart.And why are you wasting time online asking this question..you should be having sex right now! haha.
2006-08-02 02:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by dlite1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been married for 20 years and your asking this question?????? What do you care what people think, you and your husband are ONE FLESH!
Geez, you guys have been making it work for 20 years, you obviously don't need our advise on your sex life. And you don't need any so called "friends" opinions either.
2006-08-02 03:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go girl **** they r just jealous. stop telling them about ur sex life someone is gonna get courious n go after ur hubby (take it from someone who has been there) stop talking n start jumpin his bones ull be so busy n happy u will forget all about ur friends jealousy n cattiness.
crap u have a 20 year marriage u should be giving advice chick n not listen 2 bs.
lol u r lucky
2006-08-02 02:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats nice to hear!!! Nice Relationship!!!
A relationship to workout, it must be balance, your way, his way..But i think what matters most is what the two of you is doing to make your relationship works for you.If that is the secret ingridient you have, then go on (as long as legal as you say). Our lives need something to spice up after all...
2006-08-02 02:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 years? Your grammar seems like a 13 year old writing on instant messenger.
Anywho, I think you should keep your sexual behaviors to yourself. Don't let others judge your sexual actions. If you deel comfortable with what you are doing, then go ahead and do it.
2006-08-02 02:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by punkakski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are happy too. You are doing a good job at keeping the intimate part of your relationship alive.
2006-08-02 02:32:53 · answer #11 · answered by cuttur2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋