For ALL the GAY Male's (need your advice)?

Question

I think I may have Married a either Down Low GUY or Can't seem to COME OUT OF THE CLOSET GUY, He is my friend, lover now Husband but Since he left out of the blue some years back we always stayed in touch, He found his way back to me, But I will say before he left me things are not the same with him and I feel this since he has returned, Although I have express this and ASK many questions Still I can't seem to SHAKE what I'm feeling, So PLEASE tell me How will I know for SURE that My husband could be GAY? Is there a WAY I CAN FIND OUT? Please understand I HAVE NO PROBLEMS WITH GAY PERSONS, I HAVE HAD GAY Freinds in my past that were gay, Although I wish they were still in my life because they I am sure would know the answer, But I have NO way of contacting them, I respect any indiviual who can STAND UP AND SAY I AM GAY. That Takes COURAGE, But What I do not understand is a Person who can live a LIE of DECEPTION, That is why I am turning to the gay community for your advice, THANKS

When husband dissapeared and we were apart I found out that he may have had an encounter with a group of males who hang out in hotels and their metion is turning straight men gay, I did my very own INVESTIGATION for self, When I shared what I had found with the police a female police officer told me that my boyfriend @ the time was not missing but had just needed to get away because of PRESSURE. And she told me that she was gay and that she see this sort of thing all the time. And that if he was to ever come back to me to make sure he be checked for those so called germs, well he did come back to me and he has been checked. We were apart 3-4 years.

Answer 1

This question appears to be a followup to your previous question concerning erection problems with your husband. I missed the opportunity to answer your initial question, so I will like to answer this question even though I am not oriented sexually as your target group.

A few years ago, during a game of 'Truth or Dare', one girl in the group recounted how - during sex with one of her boyfriends, her lover asked her "Whose kitty is it?" She retorted 'Mine of course!'. At that, her lover lost his erection.

The point of the story is this: A man is only as good as his woman. Period. Wondering whether your husband's sexual limitations could be because he may be gay is an attempt for you to pass the buck and blame your poor sexual experience together on him alone. After reading this answer, go to a mirror and strip naked.Then ask yourself how a man can possibly resist what you see! My guess is that there is possibly a combination of things blocking your husbands performance in bed. Even if it has nothing to do with you, you can always make a difference. You must believe that. I want to empower you to speak frankly with your mate about your concerns, making sure all appearances of competition is removed from your love life - in or out of bed. You can also reduce performance anxiety with a bit of alcohol, prolonged foreplay and making love fun. All all instances, your sexual confidence is best displayed in giving, without appearing to be dominant. While some men welcome the challenge and have their sex drives heightened by dominant women, some overly sensitive men tend to capitulate and recoil from the competition. If being in charge is part of your fortay, do so by submitting to his whims after you have had your licks. At all events, do not wait for him to satisfy you. Instead, ensure your satisfaction by aiding him towards your orgasm by deligting in your ability to sustain his passion. Give it all to him, with total abandon, joyfully. I used to live in Tennessee, and even now, several years later, I still believe Southern bells are some of the most primal and erotic lovers in the World. Regain that reputation with your husband. Happy bed bouncing.

Answer 2

one million. Hey whats up, cautious... at that age, you would now not be homosexual, simply harassed. Wait 'until you are no less than 17 earlier than telling anybody you are homosexual, except you are ABSOLUTELY definite. Even nonetheless, you would now not be. I have a buddy who dated homosexual all by way of prime university earlier than understanding in institution that he adored ladies and did not believe the identical approximately guys, lol. two. People will DEFINITELY pass judgement on you if you're out. Many humans are best and accepting, however a few is not going to free up the ones judgments and can assault you... it is a unhappy global however it is going to get higher with time. three. Sorry, no enjoy there, lol.

Answer 3

Things are not always the same after a break in a relationship. He may may or may not be hiding something from you. But that does not mean he is gay.

Answer 4

Man, that's just weird, why the hell don't you just find another guy?