Will I ever forget what happened and live a happy life with him again? Will I be able to love him again? Please help this is killing me inside!!!
2006-08-02 06:41:40 · 8 answers · asked by deva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After about 6 months or less, you'll feel like you did the stupidest thing in your life, except for when you married him in the first place. Everything he did to make you unhappy the first time will resume, only worse, because hey! he got by with it once and you came back.
Don't even consider it!
2006-08-02 06:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I separated twice in 9 years. Both times he cheated on me, once a child was conceived whom is 4 months younger then our eldest daughter. Anyways, I can relate you your question. You will never forget what happened, but new memories and good times can evolve when your relationship starts again. There is a reason for the two of you to still be attracted to each other in such a way. My husband and I separated for 3 years and then got back together... so we are proof that it can work. I am not saying that it won't be rocky or those doubts for separation will not be there, but give him a chance if you believe he is worth your time.
2006-08-02 13:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Vander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I and my husband would separate and get back together I never felt the same for him. He would change for just a week or so and go back to how he was. To be very frank my husband was a very verbal abuser and played mind games, it was handy for him to break up and have affairs and tell me about them. If your husband has any of what I mentioned, then don't stay with him for another minute get out now. Otherwise I really wish you much happiness and hope things work out for you. ak
2006-08-02 13:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from ur question its clear that u want to join him again, if iam not wrong. then what makes u to hesitate. it maybe tough at starting but u will get through it.
All the Best
2006-08-02 13:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can, but it's not going to be the same, my personal experience was that we tried and tried and it was just destroying both of us no matter how hard we tried.
2006-08-02 13:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know there's a saying,''if ur love wants to go then let him go, if he comes back to u then he's truely ur's''
i think u got the messege...
all the best.....
2006-08-02 13:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lost and found again...I think it is a nice feeling ...but I don know ya ,im single ya
2006-08-02 13:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will never work I promise...been there done that
2006-08-02 13:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋