when he started working he was happy that I could pick him up. Now he says I don't have to. Am I over-reacting?
2006-08-02 07:30:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes.
If you don't trust him, then it's time to move on.
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2006-08-02 07:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if the only thing he's doing thats making you suspicious is that he doesn't need you to pick him up from work anymore than you are definatley over-reacting. BUT if he has shown other signs of infidelity than maybe you should dig a little and figure it out. Otherwise stop over analyzing, women all do that. Or maybe its your own insecurity.
2006-08-02 14:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why does he not want you to pick him up anymore? Ask him why not pick you up? See what he says. Is it because he didnt have a car before and now he does?
If he needs a ride home and is getting it from someone else then SHOW UP at his work unannounced. Show up to pick him up and secretly watch him to see if another woman is driving him home or if he is going someone secretly after work. He may be cheating or he may just be able to get a ride from a coworker (male or female).
You need to investigate yourself after you ask him why he doesnt want you to pick him up.
If he sees you in the parking lot when you are there secrectly, tell him you forgot he didnt want you to pick him up and ask if he wants a ride since you are already there.
2006-08-02 15:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. He could be thinking to ease the burden on you, in which you can reassure him that you don't mind and actually look forward to picking him up. Or you could go the "down low" way and see what happens after work. Just wait and it will all be revealed in time.. Take care and good luck...
2006-08-02 14:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out first of all whats going on i had a similar situation going on with me check credit cards or his cell to see if you doing recognize ones of the numbers call it to find out i like to know what going on before it blows up in my face it makes it easier to deal with or you might be able to prevent something that might happen and no you are not over reacting.......Like my mother always says its better to know than look stupid and end up crying :(
2006-08-02 14:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by BRENDA L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have all info here. If you have been late picking him up or complaining to him about it then I wouldn't be worried. If you have always been on time, nice conversation on the ride home from work then be on the look out.
How is he getting home now? You might check out who is giving him a ride or who he is ridding.
2006-08-02 14:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm you might be over reacting and you might have every reason to assume...have you asked him why he doesn't need you to pick him up anymore....it could be that he is with someone else or it could be that he is giving you a break ask ant see what he says
2006-08-02 14:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not overreacting. When a guy changes a routine like that something is up. Just drop by after work unannounced and see what's going on. There's trust and there's stupidity.
2006-08-02 14:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well did u ask him how he will be getting home ? did he buy a new car ?did he make friends with a coworker that lives in the same direction and he just does not want you to have to go out of your way ?,did he buy a bus pass cause he is trying to help you out with gas? ask questions ......but if it is none of these then yea something is up...good luck
2006-08-02 14:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by tinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are pridefull creatures maybe the guys at work bust his arsh for you wheeling him around like a soccor mom , you never know . Your within your own right to have suspision lurking about .
2006-08-02 14:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is he getting home from work then?
You may be overreacting but I would investigate
it more.Figure out how he's getting home and
why the sudden change.Then again,he could
be getting a ride from a family member,a bus,
or a guy friend.But,I would follow you instincts
and look further into it.
2006-08-02 14:34:52 · answer #11 · answered by lostgrandma1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋