Marriage & Divorce - 27 July 2006

It was two years ago.
He was a married man when we got together.
I've never gotten along better with anyone in my life.
He has done everything to try and make me trust him, but i don't seem to let it go.

2006-07-27 11:52:38 · 50 answers · asked by clevavenus 1

How long did your 1st marriage last? Or long term relationship? I was divorced before my 7th anniversary. I caught the 6 year itch.

2006-07-27 11:48:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im addicted to the taste of his tears, and make him cry as often as I can. He's so sensitive that it was easier to do in the beginning but is becoming harder and harder the more often I hurt him. Shouldnt he want to cry to make me happy and to avoid the violence that I sometimes need to resort to taste his tears?

2006-07-27 11:46:16 · 34 answers · asked by Lera 2

I am happily married for the last 5 years, but I masturbate sometimes thinking about my past and present girl friends. Is this wrong?

2006-07-27 11:35:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25 and my boyfriend 27,we have been together for 10 yrs. we have three kids and purchased a home a yr ago. our relationship has been getting worse since about 4 yrs ago. i was 8 mos. pregnant and found out he was cheating with a co-worker. I left him and he kept looking for me I had so many mixed emotions that i ended taking him back for our family's sake. My father died a yr later and he was not there for me. i went through depression and he was just so cold. now we are having financial and emotional problems and he doesn't help to find a way to make thing work. I'm so tired of it and theres been times when I have just stayed in the relationship just because of the kids. But now i've had it and want out but i'm so scared for my kids. Am i being selfish? should i just stay and keep my mouth shut? I have a good job and I can make it financially but I feel like I would be tearing the family apart, i don't know what to do?

2006-07-27 11:29:04 · 11 answers · asked by ♣suzie Q♣ 4

Its always said in case of suspecting your partner.........
that a women sixth sence is never wrong,and "if its in ur gut,it is there" etc etc,but how to know if u r being over suspecious or there is really something fishy?
Just wanna know........

2006-07-27 11:25:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I kicked my husband in his ya'ya's. He sleeps on his back and i waited for just the right position. It was about 3am so I stood between his legs, raised my leg, and dropped my foot as hard as I could. He woke screaming in the most delicious agony i've ever heard, and his tears were long and delicious. Whats the next thing that I can do to him to bring more tears?

2006-07-27 11:23:48 · 29 answers · asked by Lera 2

my husband has been gone for 8 months to iraq. he comes home on r&r for 2 weeks and everyday he wants us to spend with his family. everything that was done was with them. the only time that we done something alone was when i said something about it. then he would go back and tell his dad that i am bitching about him being around them! And when we were alone he wouldnt talk to me and he acted very misereable. is it just me being jelous or is he pushing me over when it comes to them?

2006-07-27 11:19:26 · 9 answers · asked by better_than_me 1

I have had my significant other telling me that they feel the urge to kill someone or something they love to cut on themselves and one day they told me that they wanted to slit my throat while I slept it was also stated that they wanted to kill the cat just to watch it die. This person has been in and out of the psych ward due to depression issues. And has a major drinking problem. Today I found a thin wire with a handle on each end. What should I do?

2006-07-27 11:09:28 · 10 answers · asked by shadow 3

2006-07-27 11:08:26 · 5 answers · asked by Val 1

I just read the most annoying question about a woman who wants to divorce what she called the "perfect man". I don't get it! I realize that marriage can suck sometimes, that it's difficult, and requires work- but whatever happened to commitment and taking things seriously???

2006-07-27 10:57:59 · 11 answers · asked by SBean_29 3

My honey is out of town looking for work in Indiana... when I call, he's a big grouch, but he seems to be getting along just great with our friends (who he's staying with). He does all the things I want him to do at home, with them. He willingly spends time with them, has long talks with the wife, is attentive, helps out with their kids, stayed home today to take care of the wife b/c she wasn't feeling well (even though he's on a time crunch, which WOULDN'T have happened here at home), and so on and so forth. It's making me very upset, and I don't get it. He doesn't want to hear about it, and just blows me off when I call, even though I just want to touch base with him, and chit-chat about whatever. And, no, there isn't a chance that there's a thing with the wife, before anybody puts that out there... it's just irritating and hurtful that he's more attentive and patient with them than with his own family. I just need some advise... PLEASE NO BASHING THOUGH, seriously...Thanks All

2006-07-27 10:52:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for five years now, and since year two I knew in my heart it was a mistake. My husband is perfect and any women would be happy to have him. I on the other hand just want him to leave (which he never would dream of) do I tell him I want to leave and how do I do it, neither one of us can afford anything we have on our own, and the house will never sell for what we owe.
Should I just deal with it even though it just hurts us both in the long run? Our biggest problems is 1.) he wants kids and I don't and he begs for them all the time. 2.) he is not in love with me he is obsessed, which is also why I am debating, I think it would kill him.

2006-07-27 10:45:53 · 24 answers · asked by hul2297 1

2006-07-27 10:42:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

does your partner have that sparkle you desire?

2006-07-27 10:37:15 · 18 answers · asked by cre8or 2

2006-07-27 10:36:50 · 13 answers · asked by lila 1

The last time I heard from him was in 1997 and him and his new girlfriend where living in New Brunswick

2006-07-27 10:34:23 · 6 answers · asked by nina r 1

I keep telling yall she is fat. I hate her fat!!!!!!
I really do..i am going to cheat on her... what do you think?

2006-07-27 10:34:17 · 17 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1

2006-07-27 10:24:54 · 36 answers · asked by dvmasina 1

I am tired of my fat wife getting mad cause my best friend is a thin black woman. I am an attractive white man.

2006-07-27 10:21:43 · 22 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1

to kill me for putting in 85 octane in the tank. The engine is knocking and she thinks we won't make it to Idaho. I've got the pedal down and it's knocking and stalling. Do you think this will be the final straw that makes her file for divorce?

2006-07-27 10:18:20 · 9 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

he doesn't talk much generally but he refuses to say anything about past.....it's hard for me to understand why,now is what matters anyways but he seems so secretive about it..and gets annoied and upset telling me there is nothing to tell....i need help to soften his defense...should i be worried or just leave it be...?that is way when he talked to his ex(that he never mentioned) and got busted (i checked his phone)i assumed he is cheating...he is denying,and still never told me anything about her.if i ask him aything about her or the past he gets passive agressive and waits till i stop asking about it...i fell resentment.....now i have urge to check his phone everyday and see if i can learn more what is going on in his life without me around.i'm home with our baby and spend too much time thinking about this...if i check his phone and he find out he'll yell and say that is invading privacy....but how will i know when he doesn't tell me...what do you think?

2006-07-27 10:13:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my gf told me that i am a soft guy , she said i am not like a tough guy. i am handsome , slender.

I care about her a lot.
i pay attention to her , i treat her nicely and i use romantic words when i talk to her. also i never talk loud with her , kind of treating her politly.

but today she told me the way i act and the way i talk is not like a tough guy. she knows i am not gay but she things i am too soft as a guy.

what should i do to be a tough guy ?
how can i change ?
what are the aspects of a tough guy in female's perspective ?

2006-07-27 10:09:35 · 13 answers · asked by Alex Sexy 1

Like his guy. we've been 4 a few drinks and we text, sometimes quite romantic n full on but in person we are shy. I think hes waiting for me to act - how do i tell him how i feel and move things on while keeping my dignity incase he doesn't feel the same?

2006-07-27 10:08:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few days ago we were at her family's house and she was like she always is, verbally and physically abusive. Putting me down over small trivial stuff. She is always punching and kicking and biting (lord knows i have enough scars from THAT), but what finally happened is she slapped me in the face with a scorching hot spatula. I dont remember doing it, i was so mad, but i punched her and broke her nose. I do remember beating up her dad cause he jumped me for hitting her. I was arrested for what I did, but she wasnt?? Ive put up with her abuse because I love her to death and I dont believe in hitting a woman no matter what she does. I dont know why I did it that time cause i dont remember anything but pure anger for a few seconds, and I agree with the decision to arrest me, and whatever punishment that will now follow in court. What should I do? I love her more than life itself, but I may have ruined it between us. I dont want to leave her, I took a vow to be with her until death.

2006-07-27 09:58:20 · 23 answers · asked by schnewschnew 1

2006-07-27 09:54:54 · 29 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1

I feel so unattractive to him. We get along great, other than the fact that his video games and reading takes presidence over paying me any attention. I try to "spice" things up a little, but all he does is look around me, or push (not violently) me away. It's breaking my heart.

2006-07-27 09:54:41 · 15 answers · asked by Désireé 1

My Husband likes to stay gone. He will come home at 4:00am or 6:00am. I use to complain but then I finally stopped and start going on about my business. I don't call him unless he calls me and i don't bother him when he goes out. I have gotten fed up and stopped caring. But last night he decides to come home early and I wasn't there. So now he is accusing me of cheating on him. Which I am not. I just have given him the space he has always asked for. So whats His problem he wants space I give it to him now its me who is causing the problems. Im confused I dont know what he wants. One second he wants to be with me and then the next he is evil. Then last night he tells me if i want him to leave just say so. So I told him to go. And he is still there?Whats wrong with him? Am I doing something wrong?I think he is cheating thats why he is questioning me so much.

2006-07-27 09:50:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant stand having sex with her..she is really a bog woman, hard to get turned on.

2006-07-27 09:44:55 · 21 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1

I took my husband back after he had an affair. I was wondering if there are other people out there who went through the same thing. Did your marriage survive the affair or did the affair forever ruin your marriage? What was the hardest part about taking back your spouse? Did you ever trust your spouse again? If you tried to fix your marriage but it failed, what happened the second time? How long did it take before it ended?

2006-07-27 09:39:53 · 8 answers · asked by blue eyes 2