Its always said in case of suspecting your partner.........
that a women sixth sence is never wrong,and "if its in ur gut,it is there" etc etc,but how to know if u r being over suspecious or there is really something fishy?
Just wanna know........
2006-07-27 11:25:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So you're suspicious of your partner's faithfulness?
Hire a PI and find out.
2006-07-27 11:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by DD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u have been cheated on alot in the past it kinda becomes an instinct to think ur being cheated on, so if thats the situation then u might be a lil too suspicous
if u have been cheated on before try to remember the signs that made it seem like that he was cheating on you
but the whole gut feeling thin gis not true, women tend to be to over suspicious about things, all u can do is pay attention to the way he acts,
truth and trust are the main points in a relationship...........
2006-07-27 18:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This writer was on Oprah--he wrote the book called 'On the Down Low' about men who cheat on thier men. He told Oprah that women have a 6th sense and they usally know that something is wrong and they suppress their felings. Oprah always says that women tend to ignore their gut and it gets them into real trouble, because their gut is usually right. I'm 30, and I've lived a bit, so I think I can help you out..I mean, have you ALWAYS had these feelings--or did it just start? If it just started out of nowhere, there may truly be something to it. But if you are the insecure type who always feels insecure because if a bad childhood or bad relationship with your dad (which tears down a woman's self esteem)--then maybe its you. In my experience, when you pray and ask God to show you the Truth, He always show it. Always. And, if you truly truly have these instincts, maybe that is God telling you something..
PLEASE rent this movie called the "Joy Luck Club". Excellent movie. Its a movie about women's relationship with their daughters and how they try to teach their daghters about marriage and men. Please watch it--it will change your life. My mom made me watch it when I was 18, it changed my life.
2006-07-27 21:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By knowing yourself and by using common sense. If you are a hyper sensitive or unjustifiably jealous person you know it. If there are real things staring you in the face and he's coming up with lame explanations for it you know you are right, even though he will never admit it. For example if you are accusing and suspecting your husband or bf BUT you always know where he is and is always home when he's supposed to be then you are just being an idiot. However, if like the woman yesterday, your husband comes home from a business trip with a couple of condoms in his computer bag you know something is up.
2006-07-27 18:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, a woman's suspicion doesn't come out of nowhere. So in the first place, if you have reason to be suspicious, you should definately look into it. If he's acting differently than he normally would, thats a sign as well.
If you guys don't share a car, check his out. Guys are so stupid most of the time that they forget to get rid of evidence. So check random areas if you sense something is awry. A lot of girls also check pockets, cell phones...but all of that I believe is an invasion of privacy. If you trust him and love him just talk to him.
2006-07-27 18:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by ashley.steele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if you are feeling like he is doing something, then he is. That is just how women are made. We have this sixth sense and men always get caught. What ever happens in the night, eventually comes to light... He will screw up eventually. If you feel he is cheating, change cell phones with him and see who calls him.
2006-07-27 18:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by chihuahuas2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, just be easy and think. Like my dad told me, if there is somethiing going on that shouldnt be, you dont have to go looking for it. IT will find you! I have lived by that for some time now. If I have doubts, I dont disregard them but I dont drive myself crazy over them either. Sometimes you think too hard on things and things that arent there arise. So my advise is to just be calm. Ignorance is not bliss but dont make yourself sick over things you cant control, like a cheating man or woman.
2006-07-27 18:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just know. Can't explain. Something is different and you can sense it. I tried to ignore it, knew something was up, but my gut instinct was right.
2006-07-27 18:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any reasons to be suspicious then you are probably right about it. It is something that just hits you. You seem to know when things have somehow changed.
2006-07-27 18:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My instincts know way more than I do. Follow your gut.
2006-07-27 18:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jill P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋