my gf told me that i am a soft guy , she said i am not like a tough guy. i am handsome , slender.
I care about her a lot.
i pay attention to her , i treat her nicely and i use romantic words when i talk to her. also i never talk loud with her , kind of treating her politly.
but today she told me the way i act and the way i talk is not like a tough guy. she knows i am not gay but she things i am too soft as a guy.
what should i do to be a tough guy ?
how can i change ?
what are the aspects of a tough guy in female's perspective ?
2006-07-27 10:09:35 · 13 answers · asked by Alex Sexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pick a fight with a guy twice your size for "disrespecting you woman" and break his nose, then spit on him turn around and walk out of the room, no matter what don't turn back around just keep walking until you disappear into the horizon- that is the mark of a true bad a$$
2006-07-27 10:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Don’t Tread On Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her.
I'm a muay thai fighter and I can tell you from experience that most tough guys doesn't look like one at all!
So your girlfriend have a unrealistic expectation and don't deserve you. May you should start to make remark about her such as tell her that her body doesn't look like yourfavorite movie star, she don't fix her hair way she like, etc... That will throw whole thing back into her face.
However my suggestion is to dump her. I was with a girl who doesn't like how I dress because I alway wear black, brown, khaki, and white. She want me to wear bright color like orange, yellow, blue, and list goes on. She want me to grow a goatee when I absolute hate it, she want me to change. So I finally realize that if I stay with her, she will keep on nag me and use me as her barbie. So I leave her. It really hurt at first but it was the best decision I ever made.
2006-07-27 11:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see. Trash talk around her, be rude to her parents, borrow money from her and don't pay it back, ignore her in favor of football, or better yet, wrestling, pick fights in bars with guys who look at her for 2 seconds or longer, yell at her if she objects at all, hit her if she doesn't stop when you yell at her.
I'm with the other answer person. dump her and get a woman who appreciates you for your qualities. You are a rare and wonderful thing. Don't let her change you.
2006-07-27 10:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude u got all the rite moves goin on all u gotta do is act tough umm lemme see if i can b of some assistance....dont always do wat ur doin jus play it kool kinda ignore her but dont make it obvious jus kinda stay to urself and let her come look for u and wen she says certain stuff act like it aint no big deal wat shes worryin about and b a lil agressive but not wid her jus about situations and wen she says dat ur ignorin her and she wants to talk then u get all romantic and sh*t...and if dat doesnt work get in a fight but if u know ur gonna lose dont bother and if she aint all dat hott dump her for some1 else cause ur only watsin ur time but if shes hott and u dont wanna lose her u better toughen up son
2006-07-27 10:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Matthew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it actually relies upon on precisely who the lady is. I under no circumstances loved humorous adult males, properly, because each and every in certain situations they crack jokes about me in college. i don't think of you need to %. the cruel one, except he has an conceited mindset and hits on the lady plenty to make her fall for him. I continually loved shy adult males (properly, i'm shy myself). perchance you need to judge this one. yet shy adult males are a touch cliche so chosen the humorous one. perchance he can't take a relationship heavily and the lady and him split.
2016-11-26 19:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very rare! So many girls would die for a guy like you! They are all searching for somebody like this and your girlfriend can't even appreciate you! Leave her and find somebody who will appreciate you!
2006-07-27 10:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by lila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like every woman's dream man. I would dump her and find a more appreciative woman.
2006-07-27 10:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never change for anybody, they should love you for who you are. There are not enough men like you in this world, be proud of who you are.
2006-07-27 10:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pam is correct - dump her like a cat on fire!
2006-07-27 10:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow her off. Don't kiss her but anymore maybe even cheat on her of at least flirt with other girls.
2006-07-27 10:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋