I am tired of my fat wife getting mad cause my best friend is a thin black woman. I am an attractive white man.
2006-07-27 10:21:43 · 22 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she isnt racist, Maybe she's insecure about her weight and he fact that you're friends with a woman. It isnt nice that you call her fat either. Does she have a relationship with your friend at all, or is your friend someone that you flaunt in your wifes face, It sounds a little fishy, that you're on here asking ?'s about your wife loosing weight and then throwing this girl in the mix............What are you up too?
2006-07-27 10:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by saraidan 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How long has this thin black girl been your best friend? If she was your best friend and your wife hated her why did you get married? There isn't enough detail here to really say whats going on but from your description here you think a lot more of your friend than you do your wife and THAT is the problem. Not white or black or fat or thin, she knows that and it makes her feel like crap so she gets angry. Hope that clears it up for you. If you don't like your wife leave so she can find someone that thinks SHE should be his best friend (because she should be).
2006-07-27 10:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the problem that the friend is black? thin? or a woman? Sounds like maybe there are some respect issues here. You just called your wife fat! There is more to this than meets the eye. Has this woman been a friend longer than your wife has been your wife? How was the relationship before this thin, black friend came into the picture? Racism is NEVER to be tolerated, but ask yourself if that is the real issue before you do or say anything you'll regret(like calling your wife fat).
2006-07-27 10:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's because the woman's black? It may be that she's just insecure that you have this thin woman in your life. She may have said racist things in her anger toward you, but you need to make sure that you've correctly identified the problem. If this is all it is then all you have to do is probably pay more attention to your wife. You'll probably have to talk to her about your friend and how much you value her friendship. If she is not willing to let you be friends with her then you may very well need to re-evaluate your marriage. You should probably go to marriage counseling.
2006-07-27 10:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you quite sure she's racist and not just upset that your best friend is a woman? Or that she's a thin woman? And if she is racist and that's a problem for you, then why on earth would you marry her? If you haven't already, you should try asking your wife why she dislikes your best friend.
2006-07-27 10:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may not be a racist .. she saw that u are liking your best friend and she may be more attractive than ur white fat wife .. she sees that the love is coming out .. If u love her . help her to lose weight , simple! Ims ure ur best freind may looks or sounds delicious but is it worth for an ugly divorce ?? I think ur wife is soo jealous of her .. thats the simplest thing i can think of ... So are u doing this to hurt her or what?
2006-07-27 10:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to move it or lose it! And also remind her this is 2006 and not 1956! My best friend is a white male and I am a black female. My husband wasn't crazy about it either, but once he stopped acting like a child, he got over it.
CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?
2006-07-27 10:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows that she is overweight, and is not pleased with herself. She sees ur friend as a threat: one she's female, two she' s a Nubian, three she is thinner.She is nothing like your friend and probably feels she can't compete. She is not happy with her own apperance, so the only way she can retaliate or feel above anyone is to put your friend down in anyway possible. Be kind to her help her lose weight, and then if she continues with that rogues mentality, dump her !!!
2006-07-27 10:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by 1broWnMermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
other than do not try to out run the police in a Hyundai, didn't we learn anything from Rodney King. CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG!!! and if u stop referring to ur wife as fat & ur bestfriend as thin maybe just maybe u can sit down and talk things out with her.
2006-07-27 10:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's more worried about you being attracted to your best friend....and since you refer to her as your fat wife vs your thin best friend..I think she is right...Better move on so she can find someone else....
2006-07-27 10:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by All I Hear Is Blah Blah Blah... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋