Like his guy. we've been 4 a few drinks and we text, sometimes quite romantic n full on but in person we are shy. I think hes waiting for me to act - how do i tell him how i feel and move things on while keeping my dignity incase he doesn't feel the same?
2006-07-27 10:08:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Gradually start to tell him how you feel. The only thing you can do is hope that you make a good judgement in knowing that the feelings are mutual. Good luck.
2006-07-27 10:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by TakingStock 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds super shy.....and that's cool because you don't want a jerk who is all over you like an octopus! But on the other hand you want somebody to pursue you and make the move. Well my dear there are sooo many different kinds of men that making a move or not making a move could spell disaster for this "relationship".
Some guys are turned off by girls who make the first move and feel emasculated and others dig it because they are so shy. The only thing that can work in this situation is to have communication in the sense that your not grilling him or pressuring him. Ask questions so you get a "feel" as to what he wants in a relationship or what he likes in a girl......and ask questions in regards to you! Play more the friend at this point and he will open up more. At this time you can evaluate the situation more and see if he sees you as a romantic interest or just a friend to hang with and joke around texting each other. Remember leave sexually charged questions out......it's the inquiring friend that you need to play at this point! Good luck and I hope this helps....it's worked for me.....plenty of times.
2006-07-27 17:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by devilishdame1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flat out tell him u feel, u say that u are both shy so he prolly does feel the same way about u, as far as telling him if ur too shy to tell him face to face maybe try writin him a poem or just simply writin a note, it sounds corny but ur never to hold for the love letter
2006-07-27 17:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go w/ the flow.enjoy each other's company first and get to know each other better.Then,show him little hints but leave more unpredictable acts so that he will be interested. Next thing you know,everything has fallen into place...Good Luck
2006-07-27 18:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsexything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til he turns you on. Dont do any moves that will hurt you. Everybody says there is always mutual understanding so maybe you r on that way. Keep on giving yourself excitement.
2006-07-27 17:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and give him card or a present which shows that u share the same feelings.
2006-07-27 17:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Alex007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure cuz itz usually us guys movin things along..and sometyms wen girls do it it seems kinda sluttish but i think u can do it without comin across that way...jus tell him u like him but wait for the rite moment and hopefully he'll do the rest
2006-07-27 17:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older you get, the less value diginity has.
Just ask him. He should be flattered.
2006-07-27 17:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it unfold naturally dont rush it
2006-07-27 17:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put it out there, either he is going to accept or reject it.
2006-07-27 17:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋