Marriage & Divorce - 27 July 2006

2006-07-27 07:09:20 · 19 answers · asked by thin 1

Is it expensive? How does it work?

2006-07-27 07:09:17 · 5 answers · asked by Naomi M 1

She left me and went back to her X that beat her up, cheated on her, and gave her a wedding ring and told her to wear it while she was out so that no guys would hit on her. I showed her love, made it where she did not have to work, bought her a new car, new clothing and loved her to no end. She told me that all she wanted was a place in the country and a man that took care of her so that she could be a good mother and wife. I gave it to her I even asked her to marry me and put a ring on her finger when she said yes. Her family tells me that she has a commitment problem but she will be back. This is probabbly true because she has went back to him seveal times on and off over the past 10 years. She is saying that I was mean but when asked how I was mean she cannot answer. The day she left she had may plans with me for dinner that night. When I got home a couple hours later all I had left was her ring, cell phone and a note telling me that the car would be back in a couple of days

2006-07-27 07:05:05 · 23 answers · asked by John P 1

I am the only one that cleans , cooks , does laundry , takes care of the animals and our child. I wanted to get 2 kittens , but my husband told me no. Should I get them anyways ?

2006-07-27 07:01:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-27 06:57:11 · 9 answers · asked by George Costanza 1

the real insurance quote on the floor in front of me and my wife, and she was overcharging us by nearly $500. We found a new agent, and my wife was very happy to say the least. Does your wife or sig. other appreciate you?

2006-07-27 06:56:00 · 7 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I travel a lot for work. I am usually gone 3 out of 4 weeks during a month. A lot of times when I call my wife while on the road, I feel like I am bothering her. It's the tone of her voice that makes me think this. I ask her if I caught her at a bad time and she always snaps at me.

What should I make of this?

2006-07-27 06:54:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am at a cross road. I need to make some decisions...I'm in counselling. I need to find reasons to stay or go. Any suggestions?

2006-07-27 06:54:11 · 16 answers · asked by windthatawakens 1

My husband is deployed overseas for the last 2 years, coming home for only 5 month visit and then go back. Iam left alone here w/ our kid. I've always been faithfull, never cheated. When I have an urge i just use my toy & watch movies, or go out w/ my g/fs and flirt @ the club nothing more. Lately I went on i-net dating site, just to get some new spark in my life, some excitement. So I met a guy, we have the same situations w/ our families, have so much in common, we got the vibe, the juices flowing, the passion is in the air. We went on a real date - he was soooo romantic, no pressure on me etc. Now I want to get closer to him, we call each other everyday, email etc.. we got some chemistry going on. Please tell me should I get intimate w/ him, cus we both want it so much! My hubby will be back by next year, I am hoping I'll settle by that time, cus now i can't even think rationaly, I'm so into this new affair. Dont want to ruin the family,but I need loving & spark on my life right now

2006-07-27 06:51:53 · 31 answers · asked by sexy lady 1

I am recently divorced. He walked away from our marriage in order to be single, party, never having to answer to anyone. It was a harsh experience. I never once imagined my marriage ending. I loved my ex with all my heart, and that's what made the entire experience even worse. I won't lie, I think of him nearly every day. I think of the good and bad. I consider if I'd ever take him back. It's hard to just forget something you gave your whole heart to. My family and Church has helped keep me grounded and sane. But two weeks ago, one of the older couples at church- their grand daughter and her husband started attending services where I go. When I first saw him, I just stopped. I took a second look. He's tall, slim, blonde (even styles his hair the same), dresses the same. It's so surreal. I don't mean to stare or look to often. But when I see him, my ex is all I see. I have found myself wishing that it indeed is Zach. How can I cope or deal with this new situation?

2006-07-27 06:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by ridersinthesky11 2

My kids are afraid to go to their dad about things cause all he does is yell at them. This has been going on for ALONG time I'm tired of it and I think it is time we split up.He never thinks he is wrong and never says sorry about anything he does. If we fight it is ALWAYS me who has to say sorry and take the blame. I've been doing this for 6 years. I think I have worked hard enough??

2006-07-27 06:38:03 · 11 answers · asked by Colleen C 1

I have an ex husband and I absolutely despise him. He's caused nothing but problems since we've been divorced. He was a lousy husband, and the cheapest b@stard you've ever known, and so pathetic in bed, it was laughable. We have 2 kids, so I still have to deal with the creep a lot more than I want to. He just makes life so miserable, that I've decided not to speak to him again unless absolutely necessary. He just makes me upset and cry every time. God I hate him. How do I deal with this? How do I get over this..and let the anger go? Are there ways to learn to deal with and handle bad feelings like this towards someone? I just want him out of my life forever, and once my kids are grown, I'm hoping that will be the case..I never want to speak to him again as it is after how he made me feel the last time. How do you cope with really hating someone and not let it consume you?

2006-07-27 06:33:12 · 23 answers · asked by Catherine n 2

We have sex every night, unless I'm tired from work or she is too, I don't do anything wrong in my eyes such as look at porn sometimes, but she do too, I don't "rub off one" or nothing like that. I got my co workers # before she sd no. I just forgot it was in my car, it even had tint my windows for $250 under the #. She don't kiss me anymore, she don't tell me she Love me unless I say it first, it's like I feel like the female. I love to cook, I have to clean up after her, which I don't mind but all she do is complain because she just want's to go out and party and drink and wear little clothes that I don't like her to. I just work and play basketball in my free time. I love to go out but we have two kids and only time for the weekend that we don't even plan for. So Sat. comes and here we go again, " I'm bored, I'm tired of sitting here w/ the kids" I married the wrong person. And that hurts my feelings so much I just want to leave. My dad left, and I don't want to leave my family...

2006-07-27 06:32:44 · 18 answers · asked by marc ace 2

If yes plz say why u ll & if no plz say why not

2006-07-27 06:31:52 · 14 answers · asked by sduhbls 2

I do not know what to do anymore. I have been with my husband for 4 years married 1 and I feel so depressed. He is a very controlling person, I feel like I can not do anything! Sometimes when I do some stuff to irritate him or offend him he gets violent and I feel worse. I sometimes think about divorcing him but I think that maybe I cannot get anyone better and will never find anyone else who will make me happy. I have given up on love and am sad about 95% of the time. We do not have any kids so what is tying him to me. I also do not want to go through the embarrassment of my family telling me I told you so because I went through so much to be with him. I gave up a lot and could have been living differently I changed so much but he has not. I am not trying to say I have no fault but I cannot even communicate with him. He is very thickheaded and always has an excuse or comeback pointing out my faults. He never admits he does anything wrong, he is in denial and blind...what should I do?

2006-07-27 06:30:43 · 39 answers · asked by Naomi M 1

If so how does it make you feel?

2006-07-27 06:29:43 · 4 answers · asked by Chris 1

My husband was thrilled to find out we were having a baby, but now needs to get stuff out of his system. He has since then started treating me poorley, not coming home till 5 or 6 in the morning after working all day. I am now staying at my parents and have not taked to him nore has he contacted me. Did i mention I am a high risk pregnancy and I'm on bed rest? I never beleived in divorce, and I don't want my son to not have his parents together. When do you say enough is enough though?

2006-07-27 06:28:58 · 42 answers · asked by Neffie 1

I made this for my ex girlfriend a few months ago. I still love her more then ever and just want her to know. Im just wondering if you think it's a good idea to show it to her?
here's the link to watch it...
http://youtube.com/watch?v=dppqolgtiya...

2006-07-27 06:26:56 · 27 answers · asked by Acknutz 2

my husband and i just moved to cali about a year ago...and we have been married for 2 years...we have been having problems in our marriage to the point of we are about to get separated.....well while i went down to visit my hometown recently and met up with a guy i used to work with ....and we went out to dinner ...and everything...and i really started to fall head over heels for this guy......and i am extremely confused...i don't know if i should tell this guy how i feel or if i should get a divorce or separate and move back down with my family or what? it is driving me crazy

2006-07-27 06:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by aagee1003 2

Especially if the reason is that you have fallen in love with someone else. No cheating is going on. This is not sneaking around to see what you can get "on the side". Which is worse, pretending to still feel the same towards your spouse when you really know it's over, or being honest about how you feel, and asking for a divorce? Keep in mind, I am not talking about having an affair, and then leaving. I AM talking about wanting to have an affair, and realizing this means you shouldn't be married anymore. What matters more--being honest, or staying married?

2006-07-27 06:25:03 · 9 answers · asked by homebuyer 3

2006-07-27 06:24:24 · 6 answers · asked by mommabear 1

I'm getting divorced and have three boys, I'm pretty, 36 years old. Everyone tells me my life isn't over and there are guys out there that would go out with me even though I have my boys. Is that true? Or are they going to run the other way as soon as they find out I'm a Mom.

2006-07-27 06:20:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-27 06:15:13 · 24 answers · asked by babeusahot 2

In my previous question people were calling me selfish....I never thought about leaving him because of this...

Any ideas on how I can spice up my sex life? When I have sex with my husband it can take me extremely long to orgasm or I just don't orgasm at all. But when I watch a porno it takes just a few short minutes to orgasm. Outside of the bedroom life is great and we truly love each other. But this one issue is bothering me.

2006-07-27 06:13:33 · 10 answers · asked by kiddingasusual 1

i live in the same town as my 2 ex husbands one talks badly to my children about me the other is always stalking me,i'm considering moving to another state away from both of them, i feel i need a fresh start what do you think

2006-07-27 06:11:32 · 5 answers · asked by smilieme203 1

there is a service on e-bay that will send dog poop to anybody anonomously.should i do it ? it's only about 10 dollars.
thanks-k
the person with the best response will get 10 points.

2006-07-27 06:10:39 · 43 answers · asked by justrite_mama 1

We both look at porn, I take care of the kids during the day and work overnight, she work's during the day. She's upset because I looked at pics online, white women. I looked one time, and she went crazy. I never cheated and never will. Honestly black men have a rep for leaving their family and kids and I don't want to do that because I Love the family I have. She don't let me watch a certain music video because I told her that Ciara was cute or even listen to her music on the radio. She actually hits me, but I allow her to because she won't "hook up" with none of them. Once, I got a # from a coworker to tint her windows for $250 and she said no when we needed the money. I called and asked from my job and she sd no. But I got the girls # and put it in my car & she flipped out. She gets upset and throw things and have a keylogger on the computer. I chatted online once and asked if ** had a BF,I was wrong, but I found out it was a robot or a continous pop-up and she didn't believeme

2006-07-27 06:09:15 · 20 answers · asked by marc ace 2

to stuff more foam into our patio furniture cushions. That crap is expensive, do you think my wife is wasting our money? Should I care?

2006-07-27 06:03:36 · 9 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

We had our dog put to sleep 2 days ago and I know it's depressing, but I want to know if I was "trapped and set up".

As she was driving home from work Wednesday, she calls me. She says that when she sees the hair in the car from our dear departed dog it makes her cry. Could I please have the car washed sometime this week?

I said, "Sure, that's no problem, I'll do it Friday when I drive in". (I usually take the train 4 days a week for convenience) She comes back with, "Why can't it be Thursday? Gee Thanks, it's more important to you to ride the f-ing train than to give up a day and actually drive in so I wouldn't have to see this one more day. Why do you want to wait until Friday?"

Well, that ticked me off. If she wanted me to wash the car the very next day, I sure would have in a heartbeat. But her question was, "Sometime this week". So I complied. I felt I was set up.

Why can't she say, "Can you wash the car tomorrow"?

I want to wack her with a baseball bat.

2006-07-27 05:55:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-27 05:50:19 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous