In my previous question people were calling me selfish....I never thought about leaving him because of this...
Any ideas on how I can spice up my sex life? When I have sex with my husband it can take me extremely long to orgasm or I just don't orgasm at all. But when I watch a porno it takes just a few short minutes to orgasm. Outside of the bedroom life is great and we truly love each other. But this one issue is bothering me.
2006-07-27 06:13:33 · 10 answers · asked by kiddingasusual 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get some orgasm enhancer. It'll help. Other than that figure out what turns you on about the movies and then try to incorporate that into your sex life.
2006-07-27 06:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by capbarrow2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to go on a vacation...just the weekend and just fall in love again.
Oh, and it takes more than one person to spice up a sex life. Try talking to him. He may be feeling the same way. And then you can both work on it together. What else could be better?
2006-07-27 06:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both need to see a sex therapist,she will answer all your question about your sex life and maybe give tips about how to spice up your moment of pleasure with your husband.good luck
2006-07-27 06:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a sex therapist, is he open to suggestions, buy him books on sex so he can read and learn, but do not pressure him, go tot the local adult bookstore buy some games, toys whatever turns you on.
2006-07-27 06:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by draken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two could get try to get away for a nice romantic trip and use the time away together to "reconnect".
2006-07-27 06:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a sex therapist or when watching porn then have sex with him.
2006-07-27 06:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try laying on your side while your husband ***** you doggy style like this __ l . have one leg up toward your breast . he should stick it in and **** like a rabbit on drugs. you should *** multiple times, like 27 times or more, the best position.
2006-07-27 06:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should either call me to pump you and bang his *** or calll someone else urgently
2006-07-27 06:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by loverindia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
role play....like nurse and patient....stuff like that is always fun :)
or buy sexy lingerie and strip for him...that always seems to work for us....it makes me feel sexy and allows me to get more into sex when we are actually doing it
2006-07-27 06:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by aagee1003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to AMSTERDAM and buy a lot of sextoys and stuff, you will enjoy it...so as your HB.
2006-07-27 06:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by Fernando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋