What should I do ?

Question

I am the only one that cleans , cooks , does laundry , takes care of the animals and our child. I wanted to get 2 kittens , but my husband told me no. Should I get them anyways ?

Answer 1

he leaves soon might as well get them anyway.

Answer 2

So, you want to start a fight with him over these kittens when you are really mad about all the things that you do and feel unappreciated for. Grow up. It's time to talk honestly with your husband about your frustrations as well as your hopes and dreams. If you need his help, ask him how he might be willing to help you around the house. If what you need is appreciation and encouragement, then tell him. Contrary to what so many women seem to believe, husbands can't read minds. A little KIND straight talk can go a long ways towards a happier marriage.

Answer 3

You have to everything in the house anyway.So if you wanna add 2 kittens to the mix go ahead and do it.Whats he care he dosent cook,clean or help take care of kids.I know exactly how you feel i have 2 young kids 3 birds and 2 dogs my hubbys same way

Answer 4

No, you shouldn't get the kittens anyways unless you want to start an argument. Did he give any reason for saying no? Find out the reasons. Try to compromise.

Answer 5

If you take care of the house hold I see no reason why you shouldn't get the kittens.

Answer 6

No! Too many mouths to feed - it cost money! Do you work and help your husband pay the bills. Getting up every day to go to work is not fun!!!!

Answer 7

only if u want more cleaning, feeding, taking care of duties..i think ur just gonna be more tired lol but if u are truly the one who does everything annd they will be your responsibilty then i say go for it, if he helped u he could have a say but since he doesnt...lol

Answer 8

You already do everything anyway...it's not as though he's gonna have to be cleaning up after them. Go for it.

Answer 9

Do what your told

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Answer 10

You will be taking care of them along with everything else, I would. You shouldn't have to ask permission!!

Answer 11

i wouldn't get them when he said no, but i would ask him why he said no...compromise