My husband has stopped having sex with me. I try every nite to get alittle and i get denyied. What do i do?

Question

We have only been married two years. I have tried bringing in kinky stuff to the bedroom. Nothing works.

Answer 1

Dont push. women make the mistake to keep at it. But i guarentee that if you show nothing no kissing or hugs he will crawl under you for it. Ive done it with my hubby. If he stops givin me attention i think nothing about it and go on with my day no super kisses included. by the end of the day he is beggin for it litterally. Try it if u fail try and try again. or he may be gettin booty some where else. luck to you. kristen.

Answer 2

It looks like there is a problem that needs to be resolved. The lack of sex is only a symptom. You two need to talk about your relationship outside of the bedroom, preferably during a quiet time when your clothes are on and you won't be interrupted. Don't panic, but a loss of sexual interest can mean he's met someone else, no longer finds you sexually attractive, or is upset with you. But you need to talk to find out what's going on.

Answer 3

1. he's getting it somewhere else.
2. do you show him that he totally satisfies you?
3. is he suffering from erectile dysfunction?
4. discuss the possibilty of being in a open relationship so you don't need to sneek around to get some.
5. if you opt for # 4 remember that truthfulness and honesty are a must. we look at it like this if you get permission its not cheating.

Answer 4

how long you been married?
if you are a new couples this is very bad , if you has a child that is affects , Are you shore that he is honest?
is there any bad situations with him?
no money or no job?
if the answers r no then try to talk with him about WHY?
or jst take a vacation with your mam or some relatives for one week or so and see the results

good luck

Answer 5

Talk with him. Ask him if he is having issues or if there is something that you need to talk about. I thought that my husband was denying me until I asked him. Comes to find out, he was confused by my signals and was unsure as to what to do. Issue fixed - now I tell him instead of trying to make a move. Dudes hear words... Not always actions...

Answer 6

you only try to get a little? how is that possible! you deserve to have it being his wife unless he don't like it anymore with you because he get it better somewhere else.
get what you wanna get. every woman knows even her husband is tired he can still make you happy. talk to him what is going on and be ready of his answer it can be good or bad for your relationship.
Good Luck!

Answer 7

Ask him how long will SHE be in the picture to take care of him or if he still wants to be married to you? Let him know that you don't need him as a roommate, and don't appreciate being taking for granted.

Answer 8

find some one to have sex with,or have allot of sex by your self,or if you really want your husband to have sex with you you have to understand its not you ,there s something wrong with the relation ship that might not have anything to with sex,little that have build up over time something deeper you have to open communications ,that the root of the prob got to talk again,the only way to have better sex or any sex is to talk about whats really wrong

Answer 9

Tell him you are going out to find someone else. Then ask him if he wants to watch while you do it with the other guy. Maybe that will make him jealous!

Answer 10

He is having an affair...
a) buy a Dildo and stay with him
b) have an affair too
c) leave him and find someone else
d) try new and crazy things with him

Answer 11

there's probably something on his mind thats bugging him, so be patient talk to him and ask him what can you do to help or whatever. My husband the same thing, there's something on his mind so I just let him be....istopped asking and he s the one that comes around now to me.