Married ladies do you find yo always have to make the first move to have sex with your husband?

Question

If so how does it make you feel?

Answer 1

I did for years. It made me feel unattractive, frustrated, and bitterly disappointed. My husband told me I was "obsessed with sex", because I wanted it more than once a week! I think it actually caused me to become very depressed, and ruined my self-esteem.
Don't let him make you feel that way. Tell him you aren't satisfied with things that way, and insist on counseling if he can't manage to approach you. It's a lot more important than many people think.

Answer 2

Ive been with my husband for 6 years and we've been married for almost 2 of those years. He hasn't initiated sex in years. And I stopped doing it about 2 years ago. It hurts. I'd rather not have sex than feel I'm pushing myself on him. He tells me I'm hot and beautiful. Other guys hit on me all the time when we're out. You'd think he felt lucky to be with someone he loved so much, and want to express that love. It just doesn't work that way. We don't have sex. I buy alot of batteries.

Answer 3

My husband and I have been together for 12 years, 10 of those we have married. He almost always makes the first move, but, on special occasions, I will. He has told me that he really likes it when I come after him. There is something very sexy about a woman who knows what she wants, and knows how to get it!!!! I have to also admit, it turns me on to see him "under my spell"

Answer 4

i wouldn't know, because most of the time he is all over me.