Marriage & Divorce - 6 July 2006

2006-07-06 10:47:51 · 26 answers · asked by Lynda T 1

2006-07-06 10:41:53 · 25 answers · asked by BrooklynBrizz 2

2006-07-06 10:37:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anna Q 1

I've been in a relationship for 21/2 years.We live together and we both have 4 kids each (his live with their Mom).I love him dearly (as he says he does me) and I would like to get married. He tells me he's not ready, when I ask why he simply says that he does not want to yet....We agreed that I would leave my job to spend more time with my kids, I now work part time...We live as a married couple, he introduces me as his wife, but he will not get married, "YET"....On heinsight he doesn't have a lot to do with my kids, he supports them but that's about it which is a lot but not enough. we talked with a counselor, the conclusion was that he needed to form a family relationship with his new family and decide to take the plunge or not but the whole package....I think the problem is that he is not sure about the whole package (kids) so i told him that I could no longer live this way.He asked me for some time ('till Dec.) to see if he can do it, this feels like an insult, HELP!

2006-07-06 10:32:48 · 4 answers · asked by madams7575 1

Why do some men scare from marriage or use the excuse that it's just a piece of paper??? What can I do to express to my man just how much it would mean to be married? (once we get a few issues straight)

2006-07-06 10:31:51 · 23 answers · asked by kajunattitude 2

I have been married for almost nine years to a guy that is soo good to me. I love him so much, and I know that he feels the same about me. I just went and saw him on his lunch break just to hug and kiss him a little, I know that he likes that. We both have to work on our relationship every day, it is not easy, but it is worth it. I could not have it any better with anybody else.

2006-07-06 10:29:45 · 13 answers · asked by stickan8 3

I a with a guy that used to lie to me, sit on his a** while I worked, go behind my back and call his ex (who wouldnt have anything to do with him), is verbally abusive to me and my whole family loves him to death! I have told them what a liar he is and how lazy he is and how mean he is to me and they think that I am being mean and making this things up! They have told me that if I leave him I am on my own because I should have been loving and understanding to him and I can't leave on my own because he has financially drained me. What should I do?

2006-07-06 10:29:05 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah K 4

i am 30 years old hubby is 44 been married since i was 14 age not a factor here but 16years is a long time wif 1 person. would it b cheating if i talked to males on line? even got flirty?maybr more but with no contact?

2006-07-06 10:23:01 · 35 answers · asked by raysmaid1 2

2006-07-06 10:15:05 · 21 answers · asked by racing180mph 1

I spend about a hour or so while doing work, she could easily spend up to 8 hours or more a day, or is this becoming more normal?

2006-07-06 10:14:14 · 10 answers · asked by brian h 3

I'm just wondering how they do it....I'm going to be married for 2 years on the 13th, and I'm having a hard time trying to figure how to make our marriage work better....Any advice???
p.s. I would love to be married to him forever but we have problems already...

2006-07-06 10:12:39 · 28 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

HE IS MARRIED BUT SEPARATED> HE SAYS THAT HE NEEDS TO SELL THE HOUSE AND THEN FILE FOR DIVORCE> ITS BEEN SIX MONTHS SINCE HE LEFT HIS WIFE AND HE KEEPS TELLING ME THAT HE NEEDS TO GET THE HOUSE READY TO SELL AND HE IS GOING THROUGH A LOT OF STRESS RIGHT NOW> SOMETIMES I DONT FEEL COMFORTABLE BRINGING UP THE SUBJECT BECAUSE I AM AFRAID HE WILL FEEL OVERWHELMED WITH EVRYTHING AND WANT ME TO LEAVE HIM ALONE> WHAT SHOULD I DO> HE SAYS THAT HE LOVES ME A LOT AND WANTS A FUTURE WITH ME> I LOVE HIM TOO> WHAT SHOULD I DO

2006-07-06 10:10:10 · 22 answers · asked by Alexa 1

Are they anything else out there that will help my marriage,,,, I have always had a real low sex drive and I think my husband has been very patient with me but I know he is super frustrated and I don't want to lose him. Are they any wonder shots that you can get at the doctor.

2006-07-06 10:03:35 · 6 answers · asked by suzy19712003 1

My husband is into video games, so much till we do not spend quality time together. I have talked to him about this but he still plays his games. I know he loves me. I have met an attractive guy and he comes to my job daily. I don’t know what to do? I am feeling really lonely, this guy tells me how attractive I am and he says all the right things that my husband does not. In fact Guys always come on to me, but my husband treats me like I don’t exist sometimes. I love him but I don’t understand why I want to see this other guy.

2006-07-06 09:52:52 · 26 answers · asked by PYT 1

I used to be crazy about my husband when I first met him. I chased him for the first 2 years I knew him until I finally caught him. Over the past 2 1/2 years though I have lost that burning desire. I dont find his body attractive anymore because he has gained weight, but so have I. I dont have a desire to have sex with him very often. I have been told that it is my age (29) and stress in my life and that as my children get older and so do I that this spark and desire will come back. I wish I had that "Im so crazy in love with this guy that I cant wait to jump his bones" feeling that I used to have. I hate feeling this way. And divorce is not an option for me, so dont suggest it.

2006-07-06 09:41:24 · 12 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5

iv been with my husband for 3 years we got married last october and i love him so much and he say's he loves me but how do i know that he does coz all he say's he i love u and i ask him does he mean it and he say's yes but i dont know if he does

2006-07-06 09:37:53 · 14 answers · asked by kirsty_jones_2000 2

2006-07-06 09:37:08 · 18 answers · asked by JR 2

We have been living in separate residences for nearly six months now and are almost positive we will be divorcing eventually. What are the advantages/disadvantages--if any--of making the separation "legal"? We have been in a relationship for 19 years, married for 4 of those years, and have two children together. Where would I go to file? We live in Ohio.

2006-07-06 09:36:43 · 8 answers · asked by stillwaters 2

I am 20 yrs old and my husband is 30 years old and he has a tendency to treat me like I am a child and tell me what to do. I have talked to him about it but he doesnt see where he is being that way. I dont want this to cause a divorce but I dont know what else to do...

2006-07-06 09:34:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know men do it too, but why do women run so easily

2006-07-06 09:33:35 · 22 answers · asked by Iron Rider 6

there is a girl that my husband had a sexual relationship in the past...then my husband and I started a relationship the other girl caused problems and he stopped talking with her until just about a week ago...then he contacted her during a fight...so now do I try to be her friend even though i don't like her morals..she knows she is causing problems and don't care because they are friends...or do I just try to deal with them two talking and if I can't leave...my husband told me if she didn't want to be friend then he wouldn't talk to her...but if i can't deal with it too bad....what should i do....leave him...try to deal with it eventhough it hurts....or try to be her friend??

2006-07-06 09:32:31 · 14 answers · asked by C.Lou 1

2006-07-06 09:28:10 · 3 answers · asked by aleem a 1

2006-07-06 09:27:33 · 34 answers · asked by Quban_stem 1

2006-07-06 09:25:23 · 13 answers · asked by Kashay 1

How soon after you are officially divorced in VA when can you get married again? How bout in MD or DC?

2006-07-06 09:24:22 · 7 answers · asked by lanena 2

Met her online 5 years ago. She was separated at the time and had her kids. Yeah, I know, red flags but I was lonely and fell for her. We met and things were great for 2 years then circumstances happened and she was forced to move back with him. She cant stand him and only moved back in because of the kids. It has been 3 years now back with him and she still is in the same situation. The only correspodence is via email now . Am I a fool for dragging this out with her?

2006-07-06 09:19:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have my step-daughter for the summer, she lives in another state. Her and my daughter have their conversations and my step-daughter happens to talk about when her mom and dad where together, and it just seems to bother me alot. She's only 11 yrs old, I don't think she does it to bother me. It's just conversations they have as little girls. But it just gets me so MAD. I don't show it to anybody. I know it has to do because of the way his ex is. I can't stand her, she makes it look like since they have a daughter together and due to her being the first wife, she still has power over him. He dosen't let her do it, but she wants to show that to me. My husband is good about it though. He dosen't talk to her unless I'm around to hear what they have to say. I know he has to talk to her because of their daughter. Is it normal to feel this way or do I have issues?

2006-07-06 09:17:40 · 17 answers · asked by yo_010180 2

2006-07-06 09:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if they want to be with you they will the certificate is 40 bucks the wedding a freakin fortune what is the point. so everyone else can eat free and be cheap with their gifts?

2006-07-06 09:12:37 · 5 answers · asked by lilladyt34 2

dont want to go into details but just a question for anyone with opinions

2006-07-06 09:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by scard4lif 1