Marriage & Divorce - 6 July 2006

me and my wife are going through a seperation. Its been 3 weeks, the first 2 weeks were bad but this last week has been great. When we seperated its like all this weight was lifted from our shoulders...in a good way. She calls me, I call her, we both tell eachother last week that we look really good. She gets upset when i talk about friends or she asks me if ive been with any women since. I love her very much and she was the best to me but i wasnt giving it 100 percent these last 7 months. We are meeting tommorrow and i want to be a really good friend to her, and maybe we can be together again. I have changed for the best and im the man she fell in love with again..i just know it. Does she still care for me, we talk, see eachother and look on eachother myspace...i used to hate that website. she is being strong by not showing how she is feeling, will she open up. she is waiting to see the real change in me, and i know i have it. What should i say tommorow. I LOVE U LEA WITH ALL MY HEART

2006-07-06 17:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by abyss5069 1

if you are married with someone for 20yrs and you happen to get a divorce and kids are already married and out of the house what is she entitled to? what is alimony? what happens to his retirement does she get it or new wife gets it if he was a good government job?

2006-07-06 17:41:50 · 5 answers · asked by cherrie j 1

2006-07-06 17:36:55 · 17 answers · asked by ms janice 2

What could be wrong with a man who does not really care about sex. We are still young. In our early 40's. We have been married for 21yrs and he really does not get into sex....I have always been the hot one, but now that we are older he acts like he wants to give sex up. He act like its not important and if there is anything wrong with him why would he hide it.....I am really stressed out because he is not being fair. I do everything for him whatever he wants he gets. I am not a bad looking women because there are many guys who are trying to get with me. I have a great personality. I get along with everyone. So could someone please tell me what the **** is wrong with my husband

2006-07-06 17:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anastacia 2

I m into a lust relation, married Indian with a daughter 4 year old, second one is on the way. I had a GF before marriage with whom I broke and then got married to my wife. With regret I have to say, even I used to keep the intimacy with this lady after marriage bcoz somewhere I was not fully happy with my wife’s looks, but her character is good for which I fall for her and can never leave her.3 month back I had some arguments with my GF and we had enough fights and she even called my wife on the phone but did not reveal anything. My wife never mistakes me as I give her the best. Now after we broke up for the past 3months, I still have her thoughts and I sometimes wish I could meet her again….I tried controlling myself but temptations take Control of me. She, the GF is not too honest with me I know, as far as I know she wants sex and someone to take care. I used to pass by her work place and residence just to see her from far…should I go to physiatrist?

2006-07-06 17:35:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

instead of hers. why does she even buy womens razors if mens are so much better?

2006-07-06 17:33:53 · 8 answers · asked by dc5halcyon 2

2006-07-06 17:23:31 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Adoarable Butt 2

My boyfriend of 10 months was just recently sent to a boot camp for 6 month due to parole violation. I've helped him through everything. Before this occured, he claimed he told me the truth about everything but as time progressed, the truth came out. I have strong feelings for him even though he lied to me. His family is now against me and vice versa. There are feelings there even though there should'nt be because hge said hurtful things to me. He claims that it was my fault that he was sent to bootcamp because of parole violations. He has yet to contact me but I still have strong feelings for him even though I should not. Should I dare move on ? or shoul I wait for him?

2006-07-06 17:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by jen m 1

why is it that most dads get the back end of the deal when it comes to children? My daughter's mother is a great parent just as i am, but a terrible wife. i pay voluntary child support, not because of court or anything, but because my daughter is my responsibility, for i brought her into this world and it's my job to take care of her. She's only 10 months, and i let her mother take her to another continent for a job while we figure out how we are going to share responsibilities. I wanted to keep her here, but listening to how much her mother is complaining how she does not see herself being that far away from her child, plus using the "i want to breast feed her for a whole year before stopping." For the health of the baby i had to make that hard choice. I don't want to be away from my child either, so how come it's the dads who mostly get the back end of that deal?

2006-07-06 17:17:30 · 12 answers · asked by DaNewGuy 6

he comes and goes at any given time giving no explanation.

2006-07-06 17:13:24 · 13 answers · asked by twofourme 1

do u have a good marriage? how can u say so?

2006-07-06 17:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm gonna take up jogging to lose just a little tummy that has been creeping up on me...bought an outfit today... long bodyglove bottoms and a matching shortsleeved bodyglove top (tight as in sticks to the skin). Never bought or wore something like that to go jogging before but I tried it on and it looks quite okay actually...it feels pretty comfy as well... don't get me wrong I WILL GO jogging in it (**** costed me 130 bucks!) but honestly I am still a bit on edge when it comes to the possible public's perception... So here's the question...Guys.. would you go jogging in full speedo type outfit.. if no why? (& please no gay bullshit answers cause i'm a high sex drive HETEROSEXUAL male) OR do you stick to your shorts and t-shirt? LADIES... what do you think? Good Or Bad idea? Also what do you think would be your probable reaction seeing a guy with a pretty formed body jogging past in a full body glove outfit??? let's just say, an inquiring mind wants to know... Thanx!!!

2006-07-06 17:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by The Thinker 2

I have moved on since our relationship (ended two years ago) but he has not. Me and my new boyfriend are extremely accomodating with him in regards to access to his son but he is inconsistent in his visits, rude on the phone, and even ruder in person. (he has even threatened physical harm, just to give you an idea he has been charged with assault 3X in the past year) Yet he still tells me that he loves me and that he wants me back blah blah. The guy was abusive and Im not going back. Anyways I recently heard that he has begun employment and to date he has given me no financial support for the child. (actually he stole $ from me on several occasions) In our court order it is stated that he pay me. should I even try to collect monies from him... This would probably worsen our relationship and may even make him quit his job and go back on welfare to be a bum for the rest of his life. I am having financial difficulties and could use the money but maybe I should just stick it out?

2006-07-06 17:00:21 · 18 answers · asked by PHD-NDN 2

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2006-07-06 16:57:38 · 9 answers · asked by Becca B-ball Babe! 1

2006-07-06 16:55:42 · 19 answers · asked by twofourme 1

2006-07-06 16:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 16:53:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancé?? and I have been together for 3 years and have been engaged almost 2 years. We bought a house together in October 2005. The problem–he’s still legally married to his wife. When we started dating I thought that he and his wife were divorced, and he never stated otherwise. What really makes me want to strangle him is that now he insists that he told me that he was still married. I'm like wtf... are you kidding me? He told me that she was just about to get all of her stuff out of the house and that he was happy that it was finally going to be over. I admit; I was naïve..stupid even. Even after I found out he was still married (from her), I accepted his proposal, thinking that he'd get divorced really soon after if he wasn’t already in the process. I wasn't even a question in my mind at the time. I gave him back his engagement ring almost 3 mos. ago, he went to the courthouse to get divorce papers just 2 weeks ago and they are still sitting on the coffee table barely touched.

2006-07-06 16:49:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 16:48:10 · 10 answers · asked by Cate C 1

As our teacher is very stuck and do not allow for free mixing and talking. and also i want to marry her not just love.

2006-07-06 16:46:56 · 3 answers · asked by MKH 1

My husband and I are seperated. He refuses to go to counseling or discuss our problems. Whenever I try to talk he RUNS. He recently took off his ring. Should I keep trying to get through, wait him out or take off my ring. I have the child.

2006-07-06 16:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by vicky l 1

Like how they will think or feel? Do you think this could be a key to a lasting relationship?

2006-07-06 16:42:39 · 8 answers · asked by jaded 3

our anniversary is coming and I don't know what to get him any ideas?

2006-07-06 16:34:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 months? 6 months? A year? More? Less?

2006-07-06 16:31:07 · 14 answers · asked by Chris 4

2006-07-06 16:18:50 · 34 answers · asked by baby-boo 2

2006-07-06 16:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by Colleen 1

My wife has a very good figure. She can eat more than two large men and she doesn't gain weight, at least not yet. But if she doesn't start exercising soon, I'm sure she will get pontoon thighs and start looking like a beached whale.
p.s. I'm a health nut and I work out everyday

2006-07-06 16:03:22 · 32 answers · asked by Billy 2

My hubby spends every minute at home on the computer. I can't even have a conversation with him...I will say something to him and then he will just make up a few words to say back that have nothing to do with what I was saying to him. Does anyone have any comment about this? I am just about to my breaking point. This has been going on for over a year. Thanks

2006-07-06 16:01:47 · 23 answers · asked by a_snowe 2

Am looking for a long term relationship, but, I can't even get to know a women before she starts talking about her x and crying.

2006-07-06 16:01:26 · 2 answers · asked by Leather 5

Ok, my husband is occasionally using crack, he says he doesnt have a problem. I moved out, and think hes full of crap, I dont want to sound stupid, I'm not into drugs, so I dont know much about it. He "hid" crack in our home, and wouldnt tell me about it. Now that Ive moved out he seems to want to have nothing to do with me, I'm cute, and a good wife, so whats up??!! my husbands a weirdo huh u guys?

2006-07-06 16:01:21 · 15 answers · asked by kprice7122 2