My boyfriend of 10 months was just recently sent to a boot camp for 6 month due to parole violation. I've helped him through everything. Before this occured, he claimed he told me the truth about everything but as time progressed, the truth came out. I have strong feelings for him even though he lied to me. His family is now against me and vice versa. There are feelings there even though there should'nt be because hge said hurtful things to me. He claims that it was my fault that he was sent to bootcamp because of parole violations. He has yet to contact me but I still have strong feelings for him even though I should not. Should I dare move on ? or shoul I wait for him?
2006-07-06 17:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by jen m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move on. He is not worth waiting for.He lies to you and blames you for his mistakes. You deserve better.
2006-07-06 17:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by J S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should absolutely dump him. Why do you want a man who lies to you? Are you seriously worth so little in your own eyes that you don't even merit authenticity from the man whose children you're probably already having? Do you seriously expect that this guy is going to provide for his children? For you? He'll be in prison, and you'll be on welfare. Is that the life you want? Is that really all you think you deserve?
Here's some advice: cold turkey the men for a while, and get confident and comfortable being on your own. When you have the confidence to know you can support yourself and be happy for yourself by yourself, THEN think about finding a man again. I can promise you that by then you won't be looking for a felon as a boyfriend.
2006-07-06 17:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you deserve better than this lying snake???? He will continue to lie to you, that won't change. And the criminal behavior is something to look at also. Do you know that if he commits a criminal act while you are with him that you are an accessory to a crime and you will be prosecuted and probably jailed??!!! Is he really worth it??? Don't just walk....RUN away from this man and do not look back!!!!!!!!! Don't wait for him...don't acknowledge his existence...you don't need this kind of trouble in your life.
2006-07-07 02:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this opportunity to start stepping. if he places blame on yu for no reason then he obviously doesn't care for you. the only reason you would be to blame is if he did something for you to have him sent there so it isn't worth it. your definitely leaving something out but for a man to pass the blame on to someone he loves and he's fully at fault the maybe you should be asking yourself what's next and what he will do when he get's out.
2006-07-06 17:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by naztman2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the boot!
2006-07-06 17:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on....find someone who can behave himself!
2006-07-06 17:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your loses and move on...
2006-07-06 17:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Boss Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋