Ok, my husband is occasionally using crack, he says he doesnt have a problem. I moved out, and think hes full of crap, I dont want to sound stupid, I'm not into drugs, so I dont know much about it. He "hid" crack in our home, and wouldnt tell me about it. Now that Ive moved out he seems to want to have nothing to do with me, I'm cute, and a good wife, so whats up??!! my husbands a weirdo huh u guys?
2006-07-06 16:01:21 · 15 answers · asked by kprice7122 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the first sign of addiction is saying that you can control it- you cant- crack is a very nasty habit to break- just know that if he gets busted with it in your house- you are looked at as guilty too- rise above it- be cute and find a new man that with be addicted to you!!!!
2006-07-06 16:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by aliester69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell it to you straight, from experience, if he hid it, denies it, he has a problem with it. No if and or buts about it. He dosen't want anything to do with you because he is addicted, he is choosing drugs over you. If you did the drug, he would choose both, but because you are against his using and he can't avoid using, you are out. Don't walk away, RUN! He very well could become violent if hasn't became emotionally or verbally abusive yet, those stages do come, it is just a matter of when. I would make only ONE attempt to talk to him about re-hab, if he is against it, then he isn't going to stop until he hits rock bottom, he is choosing drugs over the marriage. One last thing, pray for him, and pray for yourself, and do alot of it. You will need it for the strenghth to get you through this, for either way, no matter what decision you make, the results will not be pretty. I will keep you in my prayers. Been there, done that.
2006-07-06 17:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by authorunknown1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is an addict. Drugs come first to an addict and unless he's serious about giving it up, which he doesn't seem to be, you don't stand a ghost of chance. He's choosing crack over you. And you were right to leave.
Sorry that you have to go through that. I wish you the best.
2006-07-06 16:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Brooklynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crack is super addictive and once you start it takes professional help to quit. For him to say he doesn't have a problem shows just how much help he needs. The only thing he is going to do for you is drag you down with him, he is taking a huge chance bringing that into your home, Tell him to get help or you are gone.
2006-07-06 16:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that it starts out as an occasional thing but it never stays that way. It's a highly addictive drug. Be glad that you moved out, he he continues to use it will only get worse.
2006-07-06 16:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as occasionally smoking crack!!! If he is doing it at least once a week it is going to sneak up on him and snatch everything away from him. He may think that he is in control, but it really has him.... Oh, and another thing you might want to tell him that crack really kills!!!!
2006-07-06 17:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay married to him. If you do, you'll be dragged into a world that you don't want to know. You would either have police ransacking your house, waking up the kids and neighbors, while looking for drugs and paraphenilia. Or you might get a visit from Debo, his dealer, who might want to collect some payments. Divorce the bastard. You're worth more than that.
2006-07-06 16:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to divorce his worthless *** and get a job. You have children that need attention, love and shelter. Go to a womans shelter in that town or a nearby town. there are TONS of hotlines to call to find out where to seek help with drug addicted fam,ily members an so forth. You can NOT bring your children down in all this mess.... they dont realize whats going on and its not fair to them. **** him and get out of there NOW! At least for the childrens sake!
2016-03-27 07:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no My cousin did when i was about 12 or 13. I am 34 now and he is a bum. he is married and has a girlfriend. he wont settle down because he is just worried about he's drugs.
2006-07-06 16:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already is an addict. This stuff ruins lives and takes families down with it. Sorry but he needs to quit or else your relationship is completely over.
2006-07-06 16:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by odescent2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋