What could be wrong with a man who does not really care about sex. We are still young. In our early 40's. We have been married for 21yrs and he really does not get into sex....I have always been the hot one, but now that we are older he acts like he wants to give sex up. He act like its not important and if there is anything wrong with him why would he hide it.....I am really stressed out because he is not being fair. I do everything for him whatever he wants he gets. I am not a bad looking women because there are many guys who are trying to get with me. I have a great personality. I get along with everyone. So could someone please tell me what the **** is wrong with my husband
2006-07-06 17:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anastacia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He might be having some sort of medical problem and may be too embarrassed to admit it, so he pretends that sex is not important. I've heard that men with impotence problems often behave this way. Try to get him to see his doctor for a complete physical checkup. If there's nothing wrong physically, maybe there's something else going on with him emotionally. In that case, I'd suggest marriage counseling.
2006-07-06 17:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Either the Guy is under STRESS you don't know about, Don't get defensive on this next bit of advise But maybe you either NAG him to much or Badger him to much. Also believe it or not Men can go through Male Menopause. It's not called Menopause But I don't rememmebr the actual terminology.Also he may be going through MID LIFE Crisis. Which is common from the ages 40 and forward. And last of all and this is Probbably not the problem BUT the worst case scenerio for some reason he is Looking elsewhere Good Luck Stay marrried the divorce rate for second marriages is 86%
2006-07-07 01:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by HENNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a guy...but i thought i'd add my 2 cents anyway.
i've been married for three years, and all but the first few months of our marriage, my husband has not been interested in sex. he explained to me, that after awhile you just don't need it anymore. when something is available to you 24/7, you get used to it, it isn't as fun and spontaneous as it was before.
i understand this..it doesn't bother me. i have learned that sex is not everything, and have discovered that i enjoy other things better.
2006-07-07 00:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently for reasons I could never imagine...guys can have low libidos...and that stems from not doing it very much...
I just read the words to Bob Marley's song "Stir It Up" read this with him...it is pretty impressive(by that I mean..if you haven't yet..you'll be surprised how seductively intuitive it is)..ask him if you guys could play around...and do what is in the song...maybe dance with him and then maybe more..
I am thinking that while there could be medical issues abound..it is worth trying to seduce him..or try and find out what's eating him..romance him wine and dine...try to get under his skin...
2006-07-07 01:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are several possibilities. he may be gay. enough said about that. he may realize that you are still in your sexual prime and his prime ended when he was about 30 or so. he knows that nature is taking over desires, they don't come around as often as they used to. i don't think anything is wrong with him. you might send him to dr. to get some viagra or another brand of enhancement. good luck babe.
2006-07-07 00:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he needs to see a doctor so people tend to lose their sex drive when they get around 36, its not you i think, his horomones just arnt as active as they used to be.
2006-07-07 01:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by fate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some Viagra
2006-07-07 00:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋