me and my wife are going through a seperation. Its been 3 weeks, the first 2 weeks were bad but this last week has been great. When we seperated its like all this weight was lifted from our shoulders...in a good way. She calls me, I call her, we both tell eachother last week that we look really good. She gets upset when i talk about friends or she asks me if ive been with any women since. I love her very much and she was the best to me but i wasnt giving it 100 percent these last 7 months. We are meeting tommorrow and i want to be a really good friend to her, and maybe we can be together again. I have changed for the best and im the man she fell in love with again..i just know it. Does she still care for me, we talk, see eachother and look on eachother myspace...i used to hate that website. she is being strong by not showing how she is feeling, will she open up. she is waiting to see the real change in me, and i know i have it. What should i say tommorow. I LOVE U LEA WITH ALL MY HEART
2006-07-06 17:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by abyss5069 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her exactly that! So sweet.... Remind her of the reasons you were together so long and give her the attention and praise she deserves! Good luck:)
2006-07-06 17:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to say to her exactly what you told all of us. Then be that man. Prove it to her daily. Earn the trust and respect back and keep proving it. Healing takes time, don't push. Show her this declaration that you made to everyone. It is an honor when a man tells the world that he loves you and how much as well as admit to the world the mistakes he has made in the relationship. I will say a prayer for you both.
2006-07-07 00:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by authorunknown1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow and if you guys have too start over. like live separate but go out on dates and take turns having dinner for each other.find out exactly how you both feel and what it is you both are looking for etc., my husband and me did this a couple of years ago and ever since then we have been awesome together, we love each other more now than when we got married, just a suggestion
2006-07-07 00:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y r u telling us this? y dont u just go and tell her what u just said here. or u can email her this "question".
u dont seem to b asking anything, just expressing your feelings for her. u should let her know that u still love her. thats wats best for both of u
good luck
2006-07-07 00:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, tell her!!!! omg, please!!! send her an email with this link, shout it out the moment you see her!!!! idc, just please tell her, you dont dare want to miss out on the love of your life!!! what a shame it would be to have two lost souls missing out on love bc of the fear of telling each other how u feel.... sometimes it just takes a lil' more to finally see how it is... you both made the change, and it worked, so, yes, i believe it can last... oh, stop reading this and tell her already!!!
2006-07-07 00:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHHH! I wish my husband would do this for me. We have just seperated and I LOVE HIM! I hope that he comes to his senses.Good Luck!
2006-07-07 01:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by cdsmiles024 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! If you mean it go for it. If you don't stop dragging your feet and get on with the divorce. Stop putting her through pain so you can stroke your ego,
2006-07-07 00:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know what to do and dont need help from us. probably you felt like sharing ur feelings with the world. Gr8, go ahead!!!!
2006-07-07 01:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not really sure what your question is, this seems to be more like a statement that you want to say to your wife.
2006-07-07 00:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by steven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋