Marriage & Divorce - 6 July 2006

My wife and I have been married for two months, but we have been living together for over five years. Two weeks prior to the wedding we were on the verge of calling it off but decided to go through with it after the assurance that we would get into counseling immediately. To make a long story short, our relationship has consisted of many ups and downs from finances, mistrust, physical and verbal abuse. She recently told me that she has no desire anymore because I can't change for good. She says she loves me but she doesn't have it in her anymore to trust me or believe in me because everytime I change, it's short lived. I am taking different steps this time around, even prior to finding this out. I told her when we got married I let go of alot of things that caused so much pain and distance between us. I got into counseling, got put on meds for anxiety and depression, going back to church. We're living together but in seperate bedrooms. She just says it doesnt feel natural.

2006-07-06 02:06:45 · 40 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1

2006-07-06 01:39:30 · 14 answers · asked by SSc 1

most of the members uneducated

2006-07-06 01:38:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, here's the deal. Right now i am working as a secretary for $9.50 hr. My husband got laid off from his construction job. He's not sure how he feels about me doing this.We could really use the money.I'm not looking to screw around or anything like that,just dance.Esp. from the ladies......help!

2006-07-06 01:37:08 · 19 answers · asked by Judy L 4

2006-07-06 01:36:48 · 15 answers · asked by athira d 1

Please share your experiences as I really need some advice.
Thank you all.

2006-07-06 01:24:00 · 5 answers · asked by clarskies 1

I have 3 kids and my husband and I are like roommates. Get along ok but basically living alone in the same house. No romance or sex..just being parents. We've done counseling before, but it returns to the same stuff. I don't want to disrupt my family or most importantly let God down, but do I have to live like this forever? Is this normal or is everyone having great romance and sex even when they've been married this long? Can you get the passion back after years without it?

2006-07-06 01:19:00 · 26 answers · asked by Lucy 1

2006-07-06 01:17:36 · 10 answers · asked by roqueza marie d 1

2006-07-06 01:08:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 00:36:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

With all this divorce rates and live in relationships and cheatings and extra marital love affairs what do u think the future of marriage is going to be in next 50 years????

2006-07-06 00:35:33 · 24 answers · asked by gentle_cute_man 4

Cant professional women seek for some help from their men in the kitchen? Does male ego strike here?

2006-07-06 00:25:46 · 11 answers · asked by Zuby S. 1

started out cheating early and i stayed with her and just continued on till almost a dirvorce so how do you mend a broken heart i guess is what i need to know if there is a answer to that question? i love her but not in love like before now we have kids and its even harder but trying to work thru it. i would just like to hear the oponions of some other people. so what do you think?

2006-07-06 00:16:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

started out cheating early and i stayed with him and just continued on till almost a dirvorce so how do you mend a broken heart i guess is what i need to know if there is a answer to that question? i love him but not in love like before now we have kids and its even harder but trying to work thru it. i would just like to hear the oponions of some other people. so what do you think?

2006-07-06 00:07:30 · 11 answers · asked by blueeyed sexy blonde 2