Marriage & Divorce - 6 July 2006

ok my wife and i have been together for almost 3 years. 3 weeks ago she left me for reasons i didnt know at the time. I am a changed man, and realized what i put my wife through( emotionally lazy) she told me that when we left eachother that its not goodbye its see u later. We used to be madly in love but it has slipped away these last 7 months. She calls me every now and then, but she has no emotion when we talk(I know now why) She said last time that we meet that i looked really good and i made her laugh. She always ask if Ive been with any girls on dates. (jealousy?)We both said tonight that we were both stood up for dates. I call her every now and then but i give her the space that we need. we are still legally married, and i can feel a small shift on how we see eachother now. She has been giving me money to help me out. I told her tonight that i now know what she was going through bc shes sort of doing it to me. Does she still care for me. What do I talk, look for when we talk tm

2006-07-06 15:58:44 · 15 answers · asked by abyss5069 1

My wife and I (both attractive and in our mid 30's) are a little on the kinky side. We've done a lot together but when I mention exhibitionism she gets a little nervous. She is a very attractive lady and we are both deep in love. Are there any helpful hints out there from other experienced couples or anyone else that might be able to help us ease into "showing off" a little?

2006-07-06 15:58:41 · 4 answers · asked by Razor 1

Could anyone tell me how to get my man to do oral sex? Since we have been together, he has never done it. There is nothing grose about me... so dont even go there. I am just wondering how or what to use to get a man to do oral sex. I love oral sex, both giving it and getting it. I am to the point I am so frustrated... I am wondering if I am lezbian. Its to the point now when sex is going on... I have to think about a woman being down there or a man... and I have to stimulate myself... in order to get off and its only always one position... me on top. WTF? I dont understand this. I have talked to him about this... no good. He doesnt say a thing. I am shaved... I am CLEAN as hell, so I need some other pointers. Is there anything safe to put down there when prego? I just had a baby 6 mos ago and prego again. No, this is not due to pregnancy... because I had a c-section. At least I hope not... but he never did it before I got prego either. I am not fat either, but I am chubby from a baby??

2006-07-06 15:58:24 · 19 answers · asked by JOAN L 1

my problem is that my husband and I had a big problem 2 todays ago. it resulted in domestic violence. I called the police and he went to jail. This is not the first time this has happen but the thing is that in the past we have both been both verbally and physically abused. I know that there is absolutely no excuse for this and I won't make one. My question is really should I have done what I did by calling the police. In the past it has never resulted to bringing a knife in the situation. He broke the TV the fan the dining table and the DVD and he had a knife. But his family thinks that I should have not gone to that extreme because of the past that we had. This is the first time that the police were involved. But i am really on this **** list becuase they think that i could have handled it different but its too late. Whats done is done but i want honest opinions that is not from the family. What should i have done?

2006-07-06 15:57:05 · 26 answers · asked by mrs_igartua 2

If you are in a relationship and have been living together for over 6 yrs.. and you find out your spouse is cheating on you. You cry over it .. i mean boo hoo!!! but you dont want to leave them. Why? and Why is it so hard to get to that point?

2006-07-06 15:45:35 · 35 answers · asked by deepthoughts38 2

2006-07-06 15:43:58 · 15 answers · asked by Billy 2

2006-07-06 15:41:27 · 10 answers · asked by BuffyFan 2

i mean sometime he is with his friend and i just stay home with the kids so what can i do

2006-07-06 15:32:49 · 31 answers · asked by jamie p 1

What kind?

2006-07-06 15:30:00 · 13 answers · asked by BuffyFan 2

after making a confessoinal last night my priest ask me to go to his chambers. we talked about my confession about being transgender. I am male to female now. as he held me while I was sobbing he whispered in my ear that he was turned on by my confessoin...we ended up having sex. I feel worse than ever now. BY THE WAY I AM ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED ALSO. i feel so guilty. pls help thank you

2006-07-06 15:28:57 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous

what were some of the lies they told to cover it up.

2006-07-06 15:21:36 · 15 answers · asked by sexysadie71 1

Me and my husband are 1 year married and 6 years together. He is the best father the best husband. But he doesn't like the things I like to do he doesn't like to go out and have a drink with me. doesnt like to go out at all except to go to the movies. doesnt like to go to parties wedding carnivals festivals ect. this is starting to aggreviate me and is causing for us to have a lot of problems what should I do?

2006-07-06 15:18:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY 2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER FOUND HER DADS SKIN MAGAZINES AND I THREW THEM AWAY AND NOW HE IS PISSED OFF AT ME. I DO NOT CARE IF HE HAS THEM BUT I TOLD HIM BEFORE TO KEEP THEM WHERE MY DAUGHTER COULD NOT FIND THEM AND HE DID NOT LISTEN SO I THINK I HAD THE RIGHT TO THROW THEM AWAY AND HIS COME BACK WAS IF A MAN CAN NOT HAVE SKIN BOOKS TO LOOK AT THEN WHAT DOES HE HAVE TO LOOK FORWARD TO IN LIFE.

2006-07-06 15:16:36 · 7 answers · asked by penn state fan 1

I have been with my mate for 8 1/2 years and I'm still waiting.

2006-07-06 15:16:35 · 8 answers · asked by tashanthoy 1

2006-07-06 15:10:53 · 61 answers · asked by Just a guy 2

OR should I keep my confessional sins for my priest?
#1 sin...had complete operaton in europe to go from male to female.

2006-07-06 15:07:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 15:06:13 · 14 answers · asked by tru-maverick 1

2006-07-06 15:04:50 · 4 answers · asked by ray 5

did you have success with a russian women? why not?

2006-07-06 15:04:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 14:59:24 · 24 answers · asked by Billy 2

2006-07-06 14:48:52 · 6 answers · asked by lexi 2

Okay...I stayed with this female friend over the 4th of July weekend (4 days straight) but I wasn't interested in her sexually....For one she really wasn't my type ( I was just filling in the empty void my future ex wife left me with...Yes I am separated & has filed for divorce) ...For Two she kept walking around in her T-shirt, socks and panties & I wasn't turned on by that because it felt to me she wasn't being enticing at all...and I wanted energy and excitement with my nookie-cookie!
I figure if I have waited for 2 and half months for some lovemaking I should at least get the royal treatment because I am ready to give the same.....So do women not dress up in something exotic or entice their men anymore? If so what special things have you done for your man?....A Brother wants to know!

2006-07-06 14:48:34 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

She worked at a bank and they need a car loan. He suggested they go to the bank where she worked and she said they could go see "Brian" (name has been changed) because he used to like her. Her husband got all pouty and took off for the evening. Should she have shared this kind of thing with her best friend, her husband, or whould she be wise to keep this kind of stuff to herself? Does the answer depend on what kind of guy her husband is?

2006-07-06 14:44:56 · 6 answers · asked by icu812 3

I was in marriage of 5 years. I was abused emotionally by my husband, the marriage was sexless (not at all), he was financially, mentally irresponsible. After I told him I want divorce, now he is crying, begging, trying to show what I was arguing about last 5 years. He said he realizes he was doing all those painful things to me and now he promises that he will make it better. But I think he is suffering from psychological disorder, such as peter pan syndrome as well as narcissistic personality disorder. He says he will also go see doctor for his sexual problem as well as therapist for his mental problem. He hasn't put any effort or tried anything in last 5 years. He said he didn't take what I was saying seriously. Now that he is begging, I sort of feel bad, yet, I can't believe he treated me like that last 5 years. I don't think his mental problem is easy to fix since he was abused as a child (emotionally, mentally, physically). Should I give another chance?

2006-07-06 14:43:53 · 43 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

At my First marriage ceremony the Priest forgot to pronounce the man I was marrying and myself...
"Man and Wife". Being a Roman Catholic means that if I was considered to be married.. It means I am STILL married to him, even though we were, in Law,technically Divorced! I have personal reasons for asking this question,which are too complicated and too personal to describe, publicly.

Can anyone help?!!

"tottie-for-lol" E-mail: leah_keen35@yahoo.co.uk

2006-07-06 14:36:52 · 17 answers · asked by tottie-for-lol 2

2006-07-06 14:35:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 14:27:27 · 4 answers · asked by Dorene 1

2006-07-06 14:21:35 · 25 answers · asked by karlesha p 1

2006-07-06 14:20:51 · 51 answers · asked by canibus 2

Is old a state of mind or age? My husband says we are getting old.
I am still so active and into everything. I love rollercoasters and theme parks and all those kind of things. We are grand parents but I just do not feel "old"

2006-07-06 14:20:31 · 16 answers · asked by Shari S 1