Have you had an experience with a cheating spouse and what were the signs you saw.?

Question

what were some of the lies they told to cover it up.

Answer 1

Working late...going out with his friends...the cell phone did not work in that area...going to the store and was going a LONG time...as for signs anything odd...now he/she is taking care of them self...working out...being gone lone periods of time...hang up phone calls...anything odd...but always trust your instinct it is normally right on the money

Answer 2

Oh yeah... He would say he was going to play basketball and he did but his little girlfriend was out there waiting on him. He used to ask me to go with him all the time and then when that stopped i knew something was up... he would say he had to go help his cousin with something at his house and I was friends with his cousins girlfriend so i KNEW thats not what was going on... Him and his cousin were running game and covering for each other! If he comes home late and doesnt want to tell you where he was be suspicious. OR if he suddenly wants to have sex either alot more or alot less some guys dont want to at all if they are messing around others its like a major turnon to cheat and they want it more so any varience... Missing money that cant be explained. A Number of things are signs... If your gut is telling you hes cheating then most likely he probably is!

Answer 3

First of all, when he stops leaving his cell phone out, sometimes on edge, says he's working late, or going to his parents. When he is asleep check his phone, vehicle and wallet. Your not invading his privacy it's your right to know. Also, pray that anything done in darkness and lies will come out. It always works for me. My husband has cheated more than once and I'm a hell of alot better than he is. Be Strong.

Answer 4

I didn't really notice any signs. I was away on military assignment. I had received the news from my brother, shortly after we had an intimate night after four months of separation. I thought it strange that she was visiting her parents in her hometown and staying in a motel room. It turns out she did him the night before while I was on a flight home. She told me that the motel room was used so that her parents wouldn't have to clean up after our son. (Her parents were about to move because of job reasons.) She told me that the constant phone calls were to his mom, because she was once a military spouse and she needed someone to listen to her. She told me that the reason that he left from that motel room the night before was that she wouldn't take him all the way home after a night of bowling. She had his friend Larry pick him up. The only thing is Larry is my sister in law's exhusband. He sees my brother all the time when picking up his kids. My brother knew exactly which room she was in because he asked Larry. Larry has had to pick him up several times. The other man has no car, no job, and lives with his parents. Oh and he's thirty one. My brother met me outside the motel as I was coming out; he convinced me to leave with him where he told everything. He took my car keys from me first. Thank god. I'd probably be facing murder charges if he hadn't.

Answer 5

my husband cheated on me. the signs were he would want to know what time i was leaving home and what time i was coming home. he told me to call before i come home.my friends told me that they saw him out with another woman. he told so many lies. he was coming home later than usual. he was always tired. he also told so many other lies. also a strange woman was calling the house and his cell phone.

Answer 6

Mine weren't so much questions as they were accusations on his part. As soon as he started cheating on me, his trust in me went in the toilet. The biggest sign that I saw was that all of the sudden he was interested in everything that I did and where I went. When I would tell him I was at lunch, or at the store, then I'd get the whole, "what's his name?, are you cheating on me? speech.

Answer 7

he will always tell you he was with some buddy of his and be able to have his buddy vouch for him! (he'd tell his buddy ahead of time that you might ask about that night)
also, he'll come home and head straight to the shower!!!
he's not into having sex as much anymore!
check his cell phone for text messages and call list!

when he calls the conversation is very general no names or opts to call you right back..

Answer 8

He just got really defensive over anything i asked him. He became distant and withdrawn, and accused me of things to take the focus off himself.

Also, his lies were way too detailed. Too many details = lie.

Answer 9

acuseing you of cheating, saying out later wareing differant colone, anything out of the normal ,puting you down exc. gotta go see someone about work,car broke down,i needed some alone time,you trust me don't you,i left something a work my car got towed, out of town work

Answer 10

He said the company sent him away for a week.Yet,i had no forwarding phone number.He stayed out all night cuz he got drunk and passed out.