after making a confessoinal last night my priest ask me to go to his chambers. we talked about my confession about being transgender. I am male to female now. as he held me while I was sobbing he whispered in my ear that he was turned on by my confessoin...we ended up having sex. I feel worse than ever now. BY THE WAY I AM ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED ALSO. i feel so guilty. pls help thank you
2006-07-06 15:28:57 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if that's your picture then thank god for that angle of a priest.
if not then don't ever go back to that church. i would say report it. the problem is that if you're a trans-gender then they will completely tear you apart and make you look like the worst person in the world. not to mention put your ...LMAO... sorry excuse me for that. as i was saying put your marriage ... dam i just can't keep laughing for some reason. Put your marriage at risk. i wish it wasn't that way but because of who you are this situation will not do any good if exposed just move on. i feel bad for having to say that but it's the reality of the situation.
sorry about making fun of this but at the same time i have a hard time taking it serious with the pic and story you have presented.
2006-07-06 15:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by cesar g 3 · 7⤊ 2⤋
I don't usually believe stuff on here but for some strange reason, I believe this. Maybe it's your picture but I believe it.
First of all, you should report the priest because he is a priest and they are supposed to be celibate or if you can not report him because frankly I don't think anything would be done, but you should at least let him know that he needs to go to confession and that he should give up his position. Next, you should get on your knees and confess your sins to the Lord. Don't you have a direct line? Why do you think you need to go through channels especially if the channels are not doing what they are supposed to do.
I'm not judging you but you need to practice self restraint. If you are going to be married and you allowed yourself to sleep with a priest, you will allow yourself to sleep with anyone even after you are married.
Good Luck, cause you're going to need it.
2006-07-06 15:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by nellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your priest should not be a priest....You confessed to this pervert and fell prey to his lustful priestly hands. YEWWWWWWW......You shouldn't be engaged if you're that easily lead by another man. You're a liar and a cheat not only to yourself but think about the man you're supposed to marry. Put the shoe on the other foot. How would you feel if your fiance' confessed something like that to you.
I would say change religions....Catholic priests...just look at them...they molest little boys and now....you've fallen into their perverted hands too.!!!!
2006-07-06 15:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should rethink your marriage. Is this something you really want to do? You need to sit and way out what you really want in life. Do you plan on seeing the priest again? What would your fiance think? Are you rushing this? You have a lot of questions! But you need time alone and think them all out. Consider the other people envolved
2006-07-06 15:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by D NICE! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. u need to ask Jesus Christ for forgiveness and relise that u are in the wrong and that no priest will help u get a personal relationship with Christ
2. Live in the way that Jesus Did and does and read your bible and pray
3. first of all u need to ask ur self why u are getting married , if its because u love him then its not good enough cause as we can see u dnt.
2006-07-06 15:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lianne D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and your priest sound like two VERY mixed up people. Counseling is probably a good idea for both of you.
And you could each go back to confession, but not to each other.
2006-07-06 15:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama. Pure Drama. I would not get married. You will only get divorced. This is the sign. You made a mistake that I do not think you will want to repeat. Do you really want to belong to this Chuch anymore? Doesn't this change the way you feel about your priest and how he took advantage of his authority.
2006-07-06 15:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW..now THERES A STORY HUH?...well hmmm..let me think about this one..its a hard one to answer.......To tell you the ttruth sweety...it was kinda wrong of you for letting him take advantage of you? He probably knew you were very vulnerable at the time...sneaky sneaky...Dont do it again! You dont need a problem in you life like that. He should feel ashamed for it...and you should tell him that!Tell him that a miss kylie sais " AND YOU WONDER WHY US TEENS DONT BELEIVE IN GOD AND PRIESTS...how does he expect us to trust priests when you hear things like this.."Hes a disapointment.
2006-07-06 15:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by ky_tothe_lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet the boys in the chorus are happy to get a night off. But I agree with the rest. This is bull crap. I can come up with a better fake story then this.
2006-07-06 15:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone makes mistakes. this might be the biggest mistake you made especially because you are engaged and you are about to be married to a man you love. you may be confused or maybe you just made a stupid mistake. you need to confess now to your fiance so you will have trust and whatever happens so fourth you will regret. if he really love you he will do whats right, maybe forgive you.
2006-07-06 15:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋