OR should I keep my confessional sins for my priest?
#1 sin...had complete operaton in europe to go from male to female.
2006-07-06 15:07:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Better to bless your priest with this. Answer questions honestly if asked but don't feel compelled to overwhelm the person. You should however inform about the sex change pretty much up front. Lead up to this over a few times rather than dumping the bucket all at once. Maybe find out how she feels about people who have had sex changes first?
2006-07-06 15:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Elwood 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you really feel sinful that you had this done? I always hear that most people feel wonderful once this very painful operation is done, and so proud of their new looks. Anyway, only you know what your guilt/comfort level is with this person, and how much your willing to risk by telling all, or by losing them anyway if the truth comes out by some other means. One of those damned if you do, damned if you don't kinda situations. Sounds like He loves you tho.
2006-07-06 22:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from ur pic (and I swear I am not trying to be rude at all) I think he knows 'that' part. I guess, just figure it this way, honesty is the best policy. You may not have to necessarily divulge all of ur most inner feelings and experiences but the important ones you should.
2006-07-06 22:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your fiance! You will not be able to keep it from them and, quite frankly, if you're at the stage of getting married then you've kept it a secret too long already! That is really unfair of you. If you love someone, you inform them of who you truly are... Get in there and tell them!
2006-07-06 22:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!, let your fiancee discover you over time. throwing everything at your fiancee all at once would certainly be like forcing yourself on to them, and that's not necessarily nice. In fact it is even more interesting when your fiancee through there own emotional desire is able to discover what they need to know about you especially impressive ones. It can be romantic also if they do this at their own pace.
2006-07-06 22:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Leunamme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no you shouldn't have to tell him anything... if its going to make you feel better than do so..
But if your fiance can't tell that you were born a man... he should go check his eye sight!
2006-07-06 22:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by PROMISCUOUS SEDUCTION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! that makes a very good way to communicate with the one you love.
2006-07-06 22:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be honest if you expect the relationship to go anywere
2006-07-06 22:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by nclonewolf1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no some secrets are best left unsaid. and it would make the next years boring. do you really think you know everything about him
2006-07-06 22:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by girlnextdoor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya you should go back to being a shemale. He likes that better I saw him in a porno.
2006-07-06 22:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋