2006-07-06 15:06:13 · 14 answers · asked by tru-maverick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it was a conversation i had with a guy friend. not anything really, a meaningless talk ,but she dosn't like the guy and ask me what we talked about and i left a detail out that i knew would make her mad " he said something stupid and i corrected him for it"but weve been married for 10 years and i know it would have led to an arguement between her and i
2006-07-06 15:27:17 · update #1
also ive caught her doing the same thing and i understand why. if it is meaningless why even metion it if you know it will lead to a stupid arguement?
2006-07-06 15:29:56 · update #2
Don't mention it, but don't do it again.
2006-07-06 16:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends... is that small and harmless thing a midget with which you've been having it off? If so, then yes.
Seriously though, if its that small and harmless and she doesn't need to know about it - then why are you going to the trouble of asking this question? Only you know if you need to tell her but my advice would be to tell her before it gets out of hand. These things always do...
2006-07-06 22:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a touchy subject with some people. The really small and harmless thing to you, could be something that is a big deal to her. Since you are deciding whether or not to tell her and you haven't already makes me think she WOULD want to know. You might want to tell her.
2006-07-06 22:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by texricki26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly it is not so small or harmless to your wife it it would cause a fight. What is wrong is to have that small and harmless thing in the first place.
Only you have the right answer here.
2006-07-06 22:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty harmless to me. I don't tell my husband every detail of every conversation I have. And if my family or one of my friends says something I know he won't like, I usually don't tell him because then he'll not want to see that person.
2006-07-06 23:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by tianjingabi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it Depends on what it is. Will it her hurt will she leave you for it. or is it something that if you do or dont tell her it wont make a differnce. What did you do? But married is about begin with someone you love and you should be honest with her that why you gotmarried so you wont have to lie.
2006-07-06 22:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One should never keep an secret from there spouse, your saying it's harmless so do it and get it over with.
2006-07-06 22:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its sooooooo small, why keep it from her ? You obviously dont think its so small that she wont get upset, right ? So why not just tell her because when she eventually finds out it will only get worse.
2006-07-06 22:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it i like forgeting to pay a bill or something like that no it isn't wrong
if it is like i skipped work to hang out with buddies or a gal kissed me at the bar last night then yes it is wrong
2006-07-06 22:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes It Is. We do enough stupid things to start an argument, why do it on purpose?
2006-07-06 22:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, if it's so small and harmless, then it really isnt a big deal to tell it, now is it?.....
2006-07-06 22:13:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋