Could anyone tell me how to get my man to do oral sex? Since we have been together, he has never done it. There is nothing grose about me... so dont even go there. I am just wondering how or what to use to get a man to do oral sex. I love oral sex, both giving it and getting it. I am to the point I am so frustrated... I am wondering if I am lezbian. Its to the point now when sex is going on... I have to think about a woman being down there or a man... and I have to stimulate myself... in order to get off and its only always one position... me on top. WTF? I dont understand this. I have talked to him about this... no good. He doesnt say a thing. I am shaved... I am CLEAN as hell, so I need some other pointers. Is there anything safe to put down there when prego? I just had a baby 6 mos ago and prego again. No, this is not due to pregnancy... because I had a c-section. At least I hope not... but he never did it before I got prego either. I am not fat either, but I am chubby from a baby??
2006-07-06 15:58:24 · 19 answers · asked by JOAN L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He doesnt drink and I have done the position of 69... he just plays with me a little bit. I AM SO FRUSTRATED. GOD! Can vitamins cause a bad taste. During sex... I come off him and go back down on him. I dont taste anything at all. NOTHING. I dont smell, so I just dont get it.
2006-07-06 16:11:52 · update #1
Tell him what you want. Plain and Simple, if he doesnt know how, then teach him how you like it.
2006-07-06 16:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Trenwar 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should try Oral sex with stuff like Whip cream choc sauce. It's pretty fun getting messy and dirty to spice it up. If he doesnt wanna do that tie him up and dominate it. There's lots of Flavoured lubricants to choose from. Ask him to practice a little hygiene get him to wash up before doing it. If you want you can get him to do it the traditional way which ive tested there's a thing called Dragon Fruit get him to eat it it looks alot like a dragons flesh on the outside with greenish pink and fiery red and looks like a kiwi on the inside. It makes semen become sweet. But the best way is from the above i mention easier to get. Dragon fruits hard to come by youd have to run all the way to china town to get em.
2006-07-06 23:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a shower or bath together first so you are definitely clean-there are many odors you may not know you have and the way a woman urinates does coat that area more thoroughly than when a man urinates so it isn't a pleasant thought for some guys plus guys don't have slumber parties and practice oral sex on fruit or anything so unless shown or coaxed or coached he's probably nervous for any of the reasons stated.hope the honesty helps!
2006-07-06 23:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by The Riddler 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know this may sound wierd, my mom and i are close. she has the same problem, her husband thinks it unhigenic, its just how he feels, and she respects it, even though she doesnt agree. as far as the one position...tell him to hop on you for once, or bend you over the sink or something my lord! reverse missionary is a pain if its all you ever do....same goes for any position, but when you are the one always doing the work, and wanting variety, it can take the enjoyment out of it. women need to feel persued at least sometimes, i think everyone does, so why you stuck doing all the work?! tell him this is very important to you...
2006-07-06 23:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it's a personal preference. Since it's not a cleanliness issue, and you had his baby, so you two are presumably monogamous, it may just be that he's uncomfortable with that act.
Suggest that he do it with a dental dam in case it's just a phobia. You can make a dental dam by cutting an unlubricated condom into a square and laying it over the vagina before oral.
2006-07-06 23:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by electroberry1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend that was the exact same way. I would do whatever for her and try to get her to be more involved in what was going on and she just wouldnt go for it. Turns out for her she was so worried about how she looked during all this that she couldnt bring herself to do anything but lay there which to me seemed completely ridiculous. I mean look what im doing for you right? Does it seem like I am really judging your looks at this point?
But I had to be understanding of what was going on for her and work her through it so she would enjoy it more.
So maybe there is something in the back of his mind causing him to be self conscious about performance or how he looks.
Seems like the best thing you can do is have a serious chat with him about whats going on for him. Dont rule out the self-centered possibility, some people are just that way, they want whats best for them only. Dont be afraid to put him on the spot about things like that.
2006-07-06 23:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lucas H 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love the little man in the boat. You need a new man one that will do something other than stick his dick in you. Especially when every time he does you wind up prego. Or go the lesbian route, but not all the way just bi.
2006-07-06 23:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by t1003 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Id say just tell him... Just come right out with it and say LOOK EAT ME!!!!!!!!!! OR ELSE! If you do it to him he should be more than willing to do it to you and if hes not then you need to sit him down and have a stern talking to him... Some guys dont like doing it but if you are willing to go down on him than he should do the same even if its just to make you happy!
2006-07-06 23:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men and women aren't into oral. The only thing you can do is talk to him and ask.
2006-07-07 00:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I too love giving and recieving oral sex. Have you tried playing witj yourself while he watches? Have you suggested 69? Clean shaved is good on your part, feels better that way. try using flavored oils, that helps too. lmk what happens................
2006-07-06 23:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by tornado 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u try shaveing every thing i love giving oral but if there is too much hair it gets in the way . and try flavored body gel .
2006-07-07 02:59:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋