OK, here's the deal. Right now i am working as a secretary for $9.50 hr. My husband got laid off from his construction job. He's not sure how he feels about me doing this.We could really use the money.I'm not looking to screw around or anything like that,just dance.Esp. from the ladies......help!
2006-07-06 01:37:08 · 19 answers · asked by Judy L 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hi Hun
this is a question only you could answer i feel for you as i no you want to get extra cash for a more comfortable life
But you have a husband who loves you dearly who more than lightly would live of egg and beans for a year than to see you dance for other men
if you are a secretary could you do private work instead of office work ?you might find your self earning more per hour if you advertise in you local we have yellow pages here i don't no what advertising book you would have or agency work ?
but what ever you do i wish you luck
respect
shaz
2006-07-06 01:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by sharon B 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You may need the money, but don't you need your self respect and your marriage more? Other men looking, gawking, sweating over his wife...yeah, that helps a marriage out! Not. It's your decision, ultimately, and if you're not looking to screw around, why not keep the job you have, he can get a fill-in job until he's called back, and save the sanctity of marriage. Hey, I did try that when we needed the money and my marriage didn't last. The other 32 girls I worked with had bad marriages or divorces going on. Hon, it isn't worth it.
2006-07-06 08:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends..........we would need to see some pics. If you've got some moves and look good, you'll make tons of cash. If you're a pig, stick with the 9.50 per hour.
2006-07-06 08:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by jeff15116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think twice before doing it, but I have a very sweet massage therapist that also works in a strip club. I believe she is a very decent young lady and I have a lot of respect for her.
2006-07-06 08:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say talk it over with your husband. Also, if you do decide to do it, try and find a nicer place. I've heard some of those places are pretty sleazy. Its all a matter of what you feel comfortable with. Just be careful.
2006-07-06 08:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by jon_k1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey do u think money is all the things in life?
And if ur husband is laid off from job, is he going to be the same?
I dont think so. So you need not strip there dear.........
Talk to your man, and ask him to be a man.
He just cant sit at home and **** asking you to go and strip......
Can he?
2006-07-06 08:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by boom9849 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do, be sure to keep ur hubby away! or it will not work out. You have to flirt to make $$$ and if he is there, you will not make any $$$. He might even get mad, it could split you 2 up. Just be sure the law is set before you do it.
2006-07-06 08:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I can't see anyting wrong if you don't mind the work. It is part of the entertainment industry. If you feel safe working in the establishment you want work in, then go for it...especially if your husband does not disagree.
2006-07-06 09:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, respect yourself enough not to do that. You would be entering a world you might not be able to handle, and believe it or not, trouble would find you. Your husband will find another job, but it may take time.
2006-07-06 08:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something I thought about doing then i got pregnant and my body went to hell so if you still have the body and you know once your husband gets back on his feet you will stop then i say go for it
2006-07-06 08:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋