Please share your experiences as I really need some advice.
Thank you all.
2006-07-06 01:24:00 · 5 answers · asked by clarskies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would agree with most of you here. Sometimes it is not fighting for.
However, when a loved one looks around it is a sign that something is missing in our relationship. I would look to find that missing bit before I give him up to another girl.
Besides, as some grannies say... men are weak when it comes to women. They do confuse sex or lust with love easily. In this respect, I would wait and "fight".
Why should I let sex with someone destroy my good relationship?
2006-07-10 22:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by artisan222006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest.......don't do the fight. You shouldn't have to fight for a loved one. I imagine that this is a spouse, or future spouse.....not a child. Now for a child, I would fight, physically if I had to. But a spouse........then they'll have an option...me or them. And they'll have to make that choice then. Fighting over a man or woman isn't worth it...because even if you would win, there's always a chance they could leave anyway. So give them a choice to make........and the choice would have to be made now......and the choice would be a permanent choice.......no going from one to the other. Think about this........best of luck to you......
2006-07-06 12:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't - after a brief battle I let her have him. Shortly after our divorce ( ending a 20 year marriage) he started gaining weight, lost most of his hair and ditched her after she was no longer "forbidden". I started going to the gym at the age of 42 - shaped up and married a man six years younger who could double for Tom Selleck. After 9 years of marriage he treats me like a queen. Sometimes living well is the best revenge. Seriously - If your mate truly thinks they want to be with someone else - there is no stopping them. Keep in mind that statistics show relationships that start this way almost never succeed.
2006-07-06 08:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the biggest thing is, does he love you back? If so, then you shouldn't have to worry about him/her leaving you for another woman/man. There's really nothing you can do to win "the fight". If he's the "right one" he won't allow the other person to win.
2006-07-06 09:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one dares take my love away from me.
They havent and i wont let them to anyways........
2006-07-06 08:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by boom9849 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋