if he ignore household responsibilities and duties to wife what should she do?

Question

he comes and goes at any given time giving no explanation.

Answer 1

stop doing them, and do the same thing to him... when he's there just get up and leave. see how he likes it.

Answer 2

If I understand you right, he doesn't help you in the house but also is ignoring you in bed ??
Well, you are not alone in this world, many men are taking their women as furnitures, if possible a nice one to go once a year to a company's party and show off about his beautiful wife.
Who said that working at home is not a heavy and neverending task??? I wonder if somebody that has kids, a house and the duty to keep herself in nice shape doesn't have one of the most ungrateful works in the world.
Sure, he is bringing the money, but how much cost to pay for everything you have to do 7/7 365 days per year??
About the more delicate but not less important issue of the duties to a wife...one more time abuse. Neglecting a woman produces so much pain and shame that is difficult to find somebody talking openly about it. But is more frequent that what you think.
Everytime that a woman stops working and stays at home puts herself in a vulnerable position that might lead her to depend and accept any possible humillatiion just because the more dependant she is, the less chances to go away she has. Economical; emotional and social pressures certainly won't help.
If that is your case, try to get stronger through your family or friends, save as much money as you can and make or update your CV. Only when you have everything ready for a soft landing get the hell out of there...not without having visited a good attorney.

I wish you the best , cheer up. Life never ends because of a man.

Answer 3

He does this because you have allowed this behavior from the word go. You need to have a calm sit down talk with him and explain to him your feelings and what you expect out of a husband. You and he need to come to some sort of agreement or you start living a married life separate from him. This is not acceptable behavior of a responsible husband, and if he values your respect, then he needs to be a willing participant of this much needed way over due talk.

Answer 4

Ask youself 2 things: What does he do all day, and What do I do all day. If he works like a dog to bring home money to pay for your house, your car, your clotheswasher, dishwasher, vacuum sweeper, food, and everything else, then you may understand why he's tired. If all you do all day is a little housework (and let's face it, washing the clothes and dishes doesn't take THAT long) and watch TV, then it sounds like you got the better part of the deal. Give him some space and some lovin.

Answer 5

It sounds like the two of you aren't talking. Ask him nicely were he is going. Tell him you miss him, and would like to spend some time with him. If he doesn't stay home, I would suspect he is having a afair. Get him alone at a good time and ask him straight out.

Answer 6

Doesn't sound like much of a relationship, much less a marriage. Try talking to him, but if he isn't interested, try talking to an attorney instead. Don't waste your life on a man who hasn't made a commitment to you or your marriage.

Answer 7

When he comes back home let him pick his things up from the curb and find out the locks have been changed.

Answer 8

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Good luck

Answer 9

Stop everything.... and tell him that you will start being a wife when starts being a husband..

Answer 10

I know what i tell my husband the "candy shop"is closed,no treats for you!!!