2006-07-06 16:55:42 · 19 answers · asked by twofourme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
even if the man waited 7 years for the reconciliation.
2006-07-06 17:06:28 · update #1
They should really be sure that's what they wanted! No expectations other than what you're getting into. Have some trust, but make sure it's right before remarrying. Good luck :)
2006-07-06 17:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actual, a woman who's been married and elevating a kin for 2 many years merely famous out her husband is a cheater (because of the fact cheaters are fairly prolific liars, to the two the different woman and the spouse) and in one day she will become a entire drama junkie, a glutton for punishment and loves the soreness! you think of? supply us a ruin. Naive, possibly. merely as naive because of the fact the area beef who believes that she is the affection of this guy's existence and could carry close on for costly existence to the scraps he throws her. Naive because of the fact she, the spouse, believes her husband of many years while he tells her he loves her and is remorseful? Naive because of the fact she took vows and believed that her husband who became status there beside her, took an identical? Naive, possibly. Betrayed, genuinely. not each guy or woman will cheat back. often times while they hit the wall (and generally sure, that would take getting caught) they lose the honour of kin, toddlers, coworkers and friends. often times they even lose their jobs. we've seen this happen many times interior the information at present. often times they don't easily "get" it till they are caught and are confronted with the idiocy of their strikes and the soreness they have led to. specific, many wait slightly and sneak back obtainable finding for some much less costly thrills back. They fix blunders and get greater sinister, cover their tracks better and warn their beef to maintain the down-low. often times. this is not cut back and dried. you're making judgments on women persons's judgements considering you're sitting there residing vicariously via a "chum" that of course has approximately as lots ethical fiber as a peanut. till you have walked the walk and lived contained in direction of the devastation and the aftermath from a betrayed companion's journey you're unlikely to comprehend his or her reactions to the region to any extent further than i will comprehend why a woman might enable herself be some guy's grimy little secret. *****
2016-12-08 16:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say no on this one. If you feel that he has truly changed and that you can trust him, then go for it. But you do need to remember that this is the man who cheated on you in the past.
It is very hard sometimes for people to forget the wrongs that have been done to them and if for some reason you get mad at him, the first thing that will come into your mind, is how he cheated and lied to you.
Take sometime to really think this over. But if you think that he changed then I say go for. But remember, if he cheats again, you have no one to blame but yourself for taking him back!
2006-07-06 18:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no cause once he cheated the first time who is to say he will not cheat again in the future. As the saying goes once a cheater always a cheater
2006-07-06 17:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard call...not. He cheated on you once. There was a reason. Dump him.
Check out the following website. It can answer your questions better than I can. Also it will give you a "bird's eye view" of a guy's psyche.
http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/
Good luck
2006-07-06 17:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly.....my boyfriend cheated on me when we first got together(weve been together three years now)and honestly i dont know why i stuck with him after he did it but i did. i finally gave him an ultimatum he could either straighten his s*** up and realize what he has or im walking away no matter how bad it hurts. and he actually changed alot for me. he used to drink alot and be an *** but he quit drinking basically for me and got it together and we are fabulous now. and people can change!!!!! you just need to go with your heart and that should lead you in the right place
2006-07-06 17:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by sarisle77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I would not re marry my cheating ex of 10 years again, found out he cheated on his ex gf with me, and he cheated on me with his new wife
2006-07-06 16:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by twistedsingle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that depends on the people involved. I do believe that some people can change however, there is just no hope for some people, some men are just dogs
2006-07-06 17:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by machelle6691 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no unless she wants to be played again and again.remember these words once a cheated always a cheater they never change
2006-07-06 17:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless she wants a second dose of it, once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-07-06 16:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by nighttimewkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋