iv been with my husband for 3 years we got married last october and i love him so much and he say's he loves me but how do i know that he does coz all he say's he i love u and i ask him does he mean it and he say's yes but i dont know if he does
2006-07-06 09:37:53 · 14 answers · asked by kirsty_jones_2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, let's see.
- He tells you he loves you.
- He married you.
- He doesn't do anything to give you reason to think he doesn't love you.
Trust him, unless you have a reason not to -- and your own insecurity is not a good reason. Have faith in him; there's no reason to go looking for trouble if there isn't any to be found.
And anyway, at the end of the day you never really KNOW; you just have faith that they're being honest, and trust that they love you. If you make it to the end of your lives and you're still together, then you know.
2006-07-06 09:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You know by his actions. Words get in the way it is showing that means so much more. Does he treat you like the queen you are or does he throw you in the wind? Asking him over and over will get him agitated and just make it worse. If he gives you the world with out any hesitation, he loves you!
2006-07-06 17:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by lilgreygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read this book and there are 5 different ways to love, each person has his or her way. Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, which one are you? The Five Love Languages is the title of this book, he has probably all ready told you a million and one times that he loves you;)
2006-07-06 16:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, since you felt the need to ask this question, I feel obligated to tell you that you may have a rather large issue on your hands. If you doubt in any way that your own husband loves you.....well, you may need to rethink why you got married and if you should stay married.
2006-07-06 16:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he do anything around the house? Does he take you out? If you ask him for something does he get it for you? Ask him if he loves you when he says he does give him some ideas how he can SHOW YOU his love.
2006-07-06 17:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he married you - that right there means quite a bit to a guy - then if he says he loves you - believe him and trust in his words - if you keep questioning him - he'll think he isn't showing you love good enough and start doubting himself or will think you don't trust him - neither is a good idea... so just relax and know he loves you ....
2006-07-06 17:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by KitKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but, he really doesn't LOVE! Don't get me wrong it doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings for you, but when you have to question some one about LOVE then you yourself don't feel it! There is hope just go with the flow and love him like you want to be loved. And I would really stop questioning it!
2006-07-06 16:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by notoldjustwise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go by his actions, not his words. How does he SHOW he loves you? And by all means, in any relationship, keep the lines of communication open. NEVER guess. ALWAYS ask. He has obviously earned your trust.
2006-07-06 16:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by terryleecheeseman48 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will show in his actions.Actions speak louder than words right. Does he do little things fo you,like fix you something to eat,or hold you at night? The little things matter the most and somethime we over look them.
2006-07-06 16:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know he loves you when you're in a devastating situation and he sticks by you when it would be easier to have left you and you think that most men would have.
2006-07-06 16:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋