i am 30 years old hubby is 44 been married since i was 14 age not a factor here but 16years is a long time wif 1 person. would it b cheating if i talked to males on line? even got flirty?maybr more but with no contact?
2006-07-06 10:23:01 · 35 answers · asked by raysmaid1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you have to ask, then u feel guilty already. would u want him to be doing the same?
2006-07-06 10:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by chr31istine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed it is. I just went threw a thing like that last year with my husband. i got a little flirty with this guy from the military over in Iraqi. And flirting turns into a whole lot more when you get off into it.The only difference is its a mind thing he's not physically touching you are there it may turn into something. But at the same time your opening your heart and subjecting your self to the cheat. If you don't think it is ask your husband.
2006-07-06 11:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by it's a girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on your husband. A lot of women would consider it cheating if their husbands did it.
Personally, if they are online friends only...no 'cybering' involved, then I wouldn't have an issue with it. But once the pillow talk starts, I think that would cross the line into cheating for most people. A relationship isn't just physical, it is emotional as well...under that idea, you can cheat on your spouse online.
2006-07-06 10:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say: No, but then, where does "cheating" begin? On the other hand where does it end?! It is all in your mind and getting used to your partner after 14 years is not unusual, I presume. Longing for something else might be logical. Follow your heart and live your life not the life someone else might want you to live!
2006-07-06 11:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not. But a great idea is to have your husband join you...I did and it sparked something wild in my wife. We are having the best relationship of our 15 years married, and 3 more dating (been together a total of 18 years).
2006-07-06 12:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by iPod Song Junkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because you are cheating emotionally. That usually hurts more than just a one night stand. because then it gets more intimate and can really damage your relationship. Obviously your husband is not giving you the attention you want. Let him know how you feel and maybe you guys can rekindle the magic. I would say anything that is casual talking is OK, but as soon as it gets sexual then yes it is considered cheating in my book.
2006-07-06 10:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be cheating your husband out of a real and full marriage. Anything that is SUPPOSED to be rightfully your husband's needs to STAY your husbands. That means any "extra" attention, any flirting and certainly anything "more".
Once you cross that line, you can never go back. You took vows to forsake all others and I'm betting that means online as well.
2006-07-06 18:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any relationship,you have to put your self in your partners shoes.If you would not go on line and talk to men or flirt with them with your hubby right there then you should not do it at all.If he was doing the same thing how would you feel?That's your answer!
2006-07-06 10:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on wheteher or not you can still live with yourself afterwards, and also the term cheating has a lot of meaning for a lot of people. It sounds to me like you want to cheat but are afraid to admit it.
2006-07-06 10:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me ask you a question...do you feel it would be right,and...
would it be alright if he was doing that with some other gals?
my answer is,why don't you send your husband e-mails....it might light the fires.
it sounds like your looking for an excuse to do your own thing even while your married.
Sis it's just not fair,think about it.
2006-07-06 10:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by tomio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,it wouldn't be cheating. I'm not so sure about the flirting part.Maybe you shouldn't do that. It could (not saying it will) lead to more than just online conversating.
2006-07-06 10:31:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋