I a with a guy that used to lie to me, sit on his a** while I worked, go behind my back and call his ex (who wouldnt have anything to do with him), is verbally abusive to me and my whole family loves him to death! I have told them what a liar he is and how lazy he is and how mean he is to me and they think that I am being mean and making this things up! They have told me that if I leave him I am on my own because I should have been loving and understanding to him and I can't leave on my own because he has financially drained me. What should I do?
2006-07-06 10:29:05 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah K 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOU are the one in this relationship. Not your friends or your family. You are the one who is suffering, so you should be the one to decide if you should stay or go.
Tell them this and tell them that you would hope they would support you, even if you make a mistake, because that's what family and friends do for each other.
Good luck!
2006-07-06 10:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should cuss out your family,and make all the money that you can.With all you money,you could move somewhere nice,and have a great life. Without your STUPID and ABUSIVE husband. Your family is suppose to have your back. They don't. What a bunch of idiots.Sorry. Anyway, do the best that you can on your own.Good Luck!!
2006-07-06 17:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by AshBash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to tell you this, but he might be seeing someone else, besides you should never let someone put you down to where you feel useless. save up some more cash and and move on, sounds like he needs you more than you need him.
2006-07-06 17:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to leave him do it!! dont worry what people think do what makes u happy
2006-07-06 17:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him......and if your family doesn't understand, dump them too!!
2006-07-06 17:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, that's a crappy situation to be in. Sorry to hear that... :(
2006-07-06 17:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by inaccord18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't leave him, make him leave...sounds like he is an ***!! What a loser.
2006-07-06 17:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by cutipi_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋