Marriage & Divorce - 4 July 2006

this man has every illness, sooooooo much drama in his life, loves attention good/bad.
he`s always calling me tellin me about this or that going on his pathetic lil existance i call life.he is a pathological liar, lies to just be lying bout anything n everything you could possibly think of. "drama king" is what i call it, but theirs one problem i can`t get the a**hole out of my life because we have children, he has custody of them for the last 8 years. please no bashing on me as mother because everyone has different situations in life, but anyhoo i have to put up with him to be able to see my boys, he enjoys calling the cops all the time to cause problems, lying saying i did this or that to my kids, what should i do ????

2006-07-04 14:39:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex of 10 years and I split 9 months ago. I found out 2 months ago that his girlfriend was prego, my kids (6 & 9) are not happy about this and I want to know how to help them. I myself feel as if our marriage was all a lie. He already has moved her in and he tells me it has nothing to do with me. What do I do for my kids and myself. This is the most difficult situation I have ever been in. According to my kids the g/f yells and cusses at their dad. That upsets me because neither one of us is a fighter. My son said he stays in his room when she is yelling at daddy? Help!!!

2006-07-04 14:34:44 · 5 answers · asked by goo71 1

i am going thru a divorce. the truth is, thru this 9 year marraige, i have always had feelings for an x-lover. he is married, but i would just like to say hello. is this wrong?

2006-07-04 14:27:09 · 5 answers · asked by i'm still in love 1

2006-07-04 14:16:32 · 4 answers · asked by D i 1

when my 4 year old was born we dicided that when the kids were old enough to make up their own minds about church they didnt have to go if they didnt want to. well my 4 year old wants to be home with his dad on sun. and i beleive that he should go. on sat we were sitting in the back yard and my hubby was drunk and my son said that he wanted to stay home from church, my hubby turned to me and said he no longer has to go and went on to bash god. it really made me mad, my life in the last year has changed so much because i became a beleiver, i guess im finding it really hard not being able to share that with my hubby. and i beleive that people have the right to make up their own minds about things, and when the kids are old enough to i will let them but i dont think a 4 year old knows what he wants other that being with dad could be fun. any ideas would really help, i have been stewing about this for 4 days.

2006-07-04 14:16:23 · 5 answers · asked by ingridsweety 2

My best friend asked me how can she stop from feeling so bored with her husband. I told her to do a couple of things (like go out on dates together) she responded that if that was to happen she will have to plan where to go, who will babysit (they have two kids, a toddler and a 10 yr old) what time to leave and check the budget and at that point she just doesn't want to go out and at the same time feel like his personal assistant. I don't have much experience in things like that so I didn't know how to respond...So maybe you guys can come up with some better answers. I have even realize that she is starting to flirt now more than before. By the way they have 5 yrs together 3 of them married.

Any ideas?

2006-07-04 14:12:00 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa R 1

2006-07-04 13:39:50 · 21 answers · asked by me 1

the reason why

2006-07-04 13:35:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girl and guy.... were engaged.... guy broke it off and wants ring back. girl refuses to give it up. legal?

2006-07-04 13:35:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-04 13:31:08 · 16 answers · asked by jcabrera475 2

Before I file for divorce, I want to know if I will have to pay him any more money.

2006-07-04 13:23:35 · 3 answers · asked by Mary R 1

I use to be married to this guy whom I thought had a very close knit family. They were very loving to each other. But as I got to know the family and the years went by in our marriage I learned some things about them that just were not right. I began to see that they were not as close as they acted. My husband (now my ex) hardly spoke to his family. Most of the family would try to talk to my husband and he would just sit there without responding. Due to circumstances we had to vacate the house we were renting and we had to move in with his parents until we found another place. Months went by and next thing I know my husband moves out because he says he needs time to work alot of overtime so he can get the things that our children deserve. He wouldn't tell me where he was living. I found the place on my own. His parents called him 2 tell him I knew where his place was. A few months later he served me with divorce papers. Only to find out he was involved with his ex mistress

2006-07-04 13:21:19 · 6 answers · asked by cecimad 2

well me and husband had a love marriage and against my parents will. I am staying with him and my inlaws. After one year of marriage we started fighting and all but still deep inside i love him more than anything. Just 2 weeks agao he said he wanted to go out with his friends and i allowed him but instead he went out with one girl to movies and than night club. When i asked him, he denied. After confronting him againa and again he said yes..i met the girl the next day and i hit her and my husbadn left her. She wanted to report to the police but my husband said he will be on my side. actually i just slapped. My husband says he loved me but he was just too tired of us fighting all the time. They haven't slept together I have forgiven him but whatever i do i stii remember maybe he is sheating on me. That girl has been calling my husband but he told her off like anything. He siad he just make a mistake and they were just involved for two weeks. what should i do. forgive him or leave hi

2006-07-04 13:15:56 · 29 answers · asked by angel.com 2

What are my chances of the state of FL letting my 12 year old live with me if she choses? What is the typical age of a child when they are able to make their own decision as to which parent they want to live with in the state of Fl?

2006-07-04 13:07:48 · 7 answers · asked by WILLIAM D 1

2006-07-04 12:53:06 · 14 answers · asked by smellytoes 1

My husband and I met in church and accidentally saw each other in a restaurant years later-exchanged phone numbers-called each other to hang out---and the rest is history! We have been together six yrs and I was interested to know other people's stories about love and lasting relationships.

2006-07-04 12:33:21 · 15 answers · asked by Julie 2

Does anyone have any experience with this? Success or failure?

2006-07-04 12:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by Paula G 2

but wheni see my family my teeth become good

2006-07-04 12:15:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

EVE is presently married to NUTTY. The marriage is a forced one. The bride is newly wed (2 days back). Modern high society girl. Was emotionally blackmailed by her parents to agree for this marriage. All characters are Hindus of Indian nationality by birth. The guy ADAM in the previous relationship is a well to do man. He is ready to marry this girl EVE. EVE, NUTTY presently reside in India. ADAM resides in the US feeling cheated by society and customs imposed in addition to the difficulties that arise due to distance on this sticky situation.

EVE is strongly determined to continue with her previous relationship.

a) Is it a sin?
b) Is it a crime?
c) Is it legal?
d) Can EVE marry ADAM without divorce proceedings?
e) Who is to be blamed?

2006-07-04 12:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by keyur_qovande 1

today i went to check my e~mails and there was one for My Husband and it was from a girlfriend and i opened it really by mistake and it said will he meet her for lunch! all this i miss you and love you and i need you was there and he left in a hurray i asked him were he was going he said he'd be back later now what should i do ask him about it or leave or e~mail the other lady and say hey thats my husband i am shocked i never thought this would really happen to me!!!!we are really newly weds just married last month ! What went wrong! and i am with child also!

2006-07-04 11:52:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I try to watch TV with him for as long as I can stand it, then I invite him to do other things. He turns down all of my ideas, and seriously suggests that we go to the theater and watch a movie, instead. To me that's worse, because now I am actually paying money to be bored. I can't stand it any longer! I am bored out of my pea-picking mind! What can I do???? I want to have a relationship with my husband! I can go off and do other things, either by myself or with other people, but where is my marriage?

2006-07-04 11:29:46 · 22 answers · asked by magpie 2

My wife had a boyfriend right when I met her. She forgets to log out of her email sometimes and I read her e-mails. I find out this guy contacts her and shes responding to this guy back. She has no reason to deal with this guy they have NO kids or anything why dosent she tell this guy to leave her alone or just stop replying all together? I work six days a week all day only God knows what shes doing behind my back. Is she cheating on me?

2006-07-04 11:28:59 · 81 answers · asked by Massa Bruce 2

I know i will need some time to get myself together. How will i know when I am ready? i haven't been with another man other than my ex -husband, i was with him for 15 yrs. I am only 33 and i feel like an old bitter woman. He really did a number on me. My self esteem, my self woth ,my ability to use my common sense is all shot to hell. How do i stop seeing all of the bad that can happen & start to see hope?? Most of the time i just want to fall asleep & never wake up.

2006-07-04 11:25:27 · 12 answers · asked by mari 2

When the husband is a nice person but there is something wrong with him and you can't quite figure out what it is. He avoids, rejects sex with you. He says he will try but nothing happens. He dosn't want to go see doctor or therapist. He says he maybe depressed.

2006-07-04 11:18:29 · 15 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

will i ever get over the lies and deceit.

2006-07-04 11:12:41 · 5 answers · asked by missmadhatter 3

What's the best way to start divorce proceedings if you have no idea where the person you want to get divorced from lives?

2006-07-04 11:04:11 · 14 answers · asked by wickedwitch_76 3

My husband has peter pan syndrome. He doesn't want to grow up and face the world. I feel like I am his mother and drag him and take care of him where he doesn't provide responsibility as a husband. My life became too hard ever since I married him. I feel like I have all the burden in our life. He is a nice guy but he is too immature and irresponsible. I don't want to live a like a mommy anymore. Any advice?

2006-07-04 11:03:21 · 8 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

2006-07-04 11:02:38 · 15 answers · asked by jay3 1

as white male as dated many colours i prefer the bla ck female or lady of colour why white woman are attractive to but its the shape of the balack woman i prefer why ?

2006-07-04 10:50:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well a guy who is 40 yrs. old is married to a 24 yr. old woman.
Is it nasty?

2006-07-04 10:42:45 · 34 answers · asked by ♥Jessica 3