today i went to check my e~mails and there was one for My Husband and it was from a girlfriend and i opened it really by mistake and it said will he meet her for lunch! all this i miss you and love you and i need you was there and he left in a hurray i asked him were he was going he said he'd be back later now what should i do ask him about it or leave or e~mail the other lady and say hey thats my husband i am shocked i never thought this would really happen to me!!!!we are really newly weds just married last month ! What went wrong! and i am with child also!
2006-07-04 11:52:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well girl i would confront him about it because if you are married there should not be other women e mailing him like that i can understand if she was a friend but she has passed the limit as just friends. i would defenitly confront him beacause he should not have a girl sending him e mails like that. oh and that could also be a sign of him cheating so i would defenitly confront him on that too.................................ummm i hope this helps girl im so sry this is happening to 2
my love goes out to u
take care
2006-07-04 13:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
your situation sounds like a 'Lifetime' movie in progress.
I would definitely confront your husband about the email from his girlfriend rather than confronting the other women. It is unfortunate that you are still newlyweds and he doesn't value you, himself or the marriage.
I am not sure what went wrong. That would be up to you to ask and try to see if you can work things out. I know you are with child, was that pregnancy planned or by accident? If by accident, perhaps your husband felt trapped, hence the reason for your marriage.
2006-07-04 21:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note, and kindly tell her that you by mistake opened her letter (truth). And:
"I thought you should know that (your husband's name_ )is now married and about to be a father. We are so very happy about this new baby, and our life together, and thought that you should be aware of our joy. It would probably not be good for you or our marriage if you continued to pursue a man who has already made a choice. Wish you well, and oh, by the way, there are just tons of nice guys on Yahoo Personals and Match who ARE available. Good luck, and thanks," then sign your name. You are being polite, yet firm that you want her out of your and your husband's life, thank you very much....!!!!
2006-07-04 19:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is terrible. I found phone numbers in my husbands wallet when I was pregnant with my first child and I confronted him. Yeah, he got mad because I had no business in his wallet, but I just had a feeling something was up. After that , he never kept anything like that in his wallet , because he knew i wasnt afraid to look into it again. You just need to confront him. Then and only then you will be able to deal with this. Don't be afraid, he is the one who will be scared., of losing you and his baby. Let him know , your not just going to stand by and let them get away with this. He may act macho at first, but he'll come to his senses, if he has any. Stand up girl, for you and your baby!
2006-07-04 19:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by smart007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave the computer on with ehe emial showing when ho gets home see what he says but make sure you write her email down before he tries to erase it. Stand you ground and hang in there. Being a single mom is not that hard trust me I know !
2006-07-04 19:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like a movie
i really am horrified that actually is happening in real life
she is not your friend what ever u do think what the consequences are going to be
the bible says that the only reason that god accepts divorce is infedelity.... that man has no right to treat u kie that only one month ago he promised to love u and cherish u till death does u part.... u cant trust him and it doesnt matter wht he says or how how much he tell u he loves u....
think of your child... if its going to be a boy would u like him to tur like his father??? coz he sure doesnt sound a great example...
2006-07-04 18:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by ka55y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your husband! ask the questions you want answers too. I would also e-mail this woman and confront her on the type of relationship the two of them have. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-04 18:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh good grief, what a mess! you get him to start talking, pronto, so you know exactly where you stand. If he won't be honest for you, maybe he will for the baby. But you gotta find out....one way or the other. I would probably e-mail the other woman as well, and tell her that I know. see what she has to say
2006-07-04 18:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have many serious problems. One, why did you read his EMail, is he cheating, you're bring an innocent child into a possible war zone. You have many issues, but first know how you'll take care of your baby. Get Help, now. Don't wait.
2006-07-04 19:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry. He'll never change. Just leave. I should have done it years earlier. At least the baby won't be traumatized like if it happened later, and it will over and over again. Good Luck and God Bless you.
2006-07-04 19:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋