how can i stop being unfaithfull to my wife ?? i have always been a player, and i just cant stop messingaround

Answer 1

Date Lorina Bobette. She'll cure you.

Answer 2

I hope that you are practicing safe sex...don't give her a deadly disease, don't let her be another statistic....Don't be ignorant, there is too much danger going on out there, and I agree with the other person who responded to you...You never should have gotten married if you knew you are a player. If you do not plan on divorcing her, then you need to get it together FAST and be a decent husband. Go to church or seek counseling. Remember just because someone looks good on the outside don't mean that they have something deadly or an STD. The vagina can harbor all kinds of diseases, if the women is not healthy..Do you know that they are clean and healthy? most female diseases can only be diagnosed by a medical doctor and be detected by a microscope only, which I am sure you don't own one. Get a health book and read about these things before it is too late, maybe if you educated yourself you would not be doing this. Like I said Don't be ignorant! Twenty minutes of sex could mean a lifetime of agony and pain think about that they next time you get someone on their back!

Answer 3

If I were U,I would like to ask myself honstly,why U want to be stop messingaroud? My dear!

GOD bless U!


And the intention is very important,I would like to suggest U considerr the followings,before any further action!

1/ ACtive or passive,means, U ask by your inner sound or a person or a lot of peole? Forced or by willingness?

2/ if your inner sound tell U that is the way to be honest to your wife,then U had already changedf at least 50 % but more....

3/ If U don't willing to straightly,ask yourself why is your intention to be honest to HER,is it a kindness,commitment or any other ?

4/ if there is no harm or then She don't complain and U don't knw,and she don't mind and u get easy to do so ,by pleasure! Congulations! U r so matching! Keep On Doing this......that Ok,
Why? U r a couple,not other person could involved to tell U r good or not but your another half, like an career or partent to chilren,there are kind s of combinations,the most important thing is living ina harmony atomsphare,that without any harm to the party concerned and socitiety, do whatever feel good!

God Bless U!

Answer 4

Man so many guys i know are players. theres nothing wrong in being flirty cuz some people it just comes naturally and they dont know they are doing it. but when it comes to physical you've gone to far. I say you need to think and really think about what does she mean to you. Why was she the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with. What was it about her? When you answer these questions think about it really good because its not fair to her that you do this. maybe it could be something else go see a psycharitrist even not that something wrong with your mind but hey sometimes it just more to it then you think. But if you love your wife and trully loved her you would not be hurting her this way so maybe its not her you wanted to be with and you are trying to mess it up but not realizing it. just a thought.

Answer 5

i think u need to start looking at the way u would live with out her and appreciate who she is and stop looking at other women pretend those other women dont even exist its just u and ur wife and well Good luck u can be a really good man if u really try in fact u r being a good guy even now for trying just do ur best

Answer 6

No one can stop you except yourself. If you loved your wife enough you would stop so you wouldn't hurt her when she finds out (and she will eventually). If you valued your marriage you would not take a chance on losing it for a few minutes of pleasure.

How about getting a divorce and doing your playing without betraying the woman who loves you?

Answer 7

Sorry if this comes out mean but... You should of never gotten married. And you need to get a divorse and let her find a real man that will love and take care of her and keep his penis to himself and her instead of everyone eles!! You need to let her go and you can go keep sticking your thing eles where and be happy. Dont you understand or see what Marriage is all about?? Its more then just sighing a peice of paper!!! It's about commitment to one another and love, and thats something you dont have, so me a man and let her go!!

Answer 8

If you're admitting your a player and can't stop, get Divorced. Otherwise dilute yourself in to a way of thinking you are loving your wife, but screwing your girls. Good luck!

Answer 9

does she kno i hope she does and i hope she gone because if u messin aroun that mean that u dont want her no more care about her not love her no more so be honest wit her and tell her that u messin around because thats the worst thing u can do to a girl she doesnt deserve it i hope yo dont have kids will u like it if she cheated on you no right so y do it to her or would u like it if somebody did that to ur mom of course not think of her as bein ur mother and somebody did that to her will u mad

Answer 10

you dont sound like the ideal man to me...Player what a joke, total cop out, dont you mean cheater... get your wife to sign at the x as in EX, and dont remarry, nobody gets hurt, as long as your up front about your lack of commitment
alternative: Electro Shock Treatment, several sessions

Answer 11

Think about the consequences if you get caught. Will she leave you? What if you give her a disease that could kill her? Have you thought about that? If you have children, you may not get to see them every day. You just need to exercise will power and not put yourself in places where there is opportunity!!